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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by ammyluv2002(f): 9:59am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Superstar007:I want it in cash not on paper |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Superstar007(m): 10:00am On Oct 08, 2014 |
safarigirl: And when she meets someone better than the current dude. . She jumps ship again abi?. Girlssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by echobee(f): 10:01am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Princecharmin: |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Missonas(f): 10:01am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Davo93:Amen o 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by greedie1(f): 10:01am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Pls don't endanger the life of your "new love". Leave him be. Dated a cultist for 3 yrs? Girl dat says a lot about you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by LogoDWhiz(m): 10:01am On Oct 08, 2014 |
@ vivaciouzz Since u said he loves u and can do anything for you, try and compel him to stop being a cultist. If he does, then he truly loves u and u can stick to him. If not, u can continue your relationship with the new guy, but u don't need to flaunt it yet. It hurts from d first guy perspective, u left him for another guy so soon and u are flaunting it. It isn't fair. This might be the cause of his threats. Third option is to lay low, absolve yourself from the two and keep things simple. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by 2tek: 10:03am On Oct 08, 2014 |
There is NOTHING nice about a cultist. Saying he is a nice cultist is as good as saying he is a nice criminal. D 'niceness' is only very temporary. A cultist is a liar, a cheat, and can kill easily. He will abuse u wen u least expect it. D cultist could b killed any time by a rival cult gang or expelled by d school. Ending d relationship won't b easy as he could harm u or ur new guy. Its better u withdraw tactically from both nd face ur studies. Ur parents sent u to school to study nd not to b looking for prickk. 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Jakeattah(m): 10:03am On Oct 08, 2014 |
That is why you should never be sniffing round with another 'close' friend or new guy when you have a bf. You're inviting trouble. But gals no go hear... 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by ugoezeik(m): 10:06am On Oct 08, 2014 |
IbokUtoroh:wen dem released u from quarantine center ehhh |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by debrihachi(f): 10:07am On Oct 08, 2014 |
henryhemon:shít face she's looking for advice not criticism...... u don't advice kids like her? den shut da bloody hell up... If u cant b o' help don't b a cunt 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by ifoundmyperfect: 10:07am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Face your studies kiddo... Your priorities are in a state of entropy... 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by ugoezeik(m): 10:08am On Oct 08, 2014 |
adepiero:believe u me, she will hate u wit dis little kobo wey u jux add 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Superstar007(m): 10:11am On Oct 08, 2014 |
ammyluv2002: Haven't you heard of the cashless policy? Come to my place if you want it in cash 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by jayclanankara: 10:13am On Oct 08, 2014 |
I think stay with which ever one makes u happier or happy. Soon u will discover happiness is vry important. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Toks2008(m): 10:14am On Oct 08, 2014 |
vivaciouzz: Very interesting Well, lets leave the issue of cultism for now and dwell on his feelings for you. From what you wrote i can sense that he loves you but then if the reason you don't want to be with him is that he is a cultist then give him a life line and that is to leave that group and if he loves you enough,he will do this. Afterall Samsom shaved his source of power for love. Look here lady, his feelings aside but if you must know, you are not safe dating a cultist and rivals may use you to get even with him if any trouble brews. This is a serious issue and i would want you to go to the police immediately and file a complaint and let the police invite him and warn him and this i believe will put sanity into his head and you can be peaceful in that campus, If he was not a cultist i would have advised you differently. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Bowaley17(m): 10:14am On Oct 08, 2014 |
*Since u knew d first guy is a cultist b4,then Y date him?? *All d new gu¥ is after is ur p***¥,bet it with me,once he gets down with u....He will send u away... *I would have said u shud remain with d first guy,but since he is a cultist,i would say u should leave him....same goes 2 d second guy,dont date anyone of them....just part way with them... 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:14am On Oct 08, 2014 |
My school daughter way back in secondary sch just call to tell me she has secure a nice paying job and you are here talking rubbish,misplace priority,am just feeling for your parent.... 3 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by darlingnuel(m): 10:15am On Oct 08, 2014 |
tolaxin:Now, that's a bad a$$ reply! U got me laughing nastily! |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by iykedare(m): 10:16am On Oct 08, 2014 |
safarigirl: Shut the hell up,stupid advice 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by 100Cents: 10:20am On Oct 08, 2014 |
vivaciouzz: All these things for one ugly girl. Jah help us.. Did you say you are dating a cultist ? okay !.. 3 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by iykedare(m): 10:21am On Oct 08, 2014 |
debrihachi: Another hoe 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by 4C2215131: 10:23am On Oct 08, 2014 |
jmoore: "A good cultist"-Oxymoron at it's best "She was having a loving relationship with a cultist"-Paradox at its best. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:24am On Oct 08, 2014 |
IHEKESON:As in eeeeeee serious BLAST FEMI(BLASPHEMY) |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by cynthiaibeabuchi(f): 10:24am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Leave them both and run for ur life ....dnt say I ddnt warn u 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:24am On Oct 08, 2014 |
You knew all along that your bf is a cultist and you continued dating him. My sister that is not an excuse o, after 3 years na now you remember say him be cultist. BTW I don't know why I don't trust this your new bf sha. I for say make you free both of them but them no dey tell woman to park comot from her husband house. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:30am On Oct 08, 2014 |
vivaciouzz: Op, is that ur pic on the profile? If so, hmmmm, this world is really getting to an end. As small as u look on that pic, you've already tasted two solid diccks. Hmmm, who knows how many are yet to come? 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by honeric01(m): 10:34am On Oct 08, 2014 |
At best, you are under 20, yet going through hardcore stuff like this? when did you start dating a cultist? maybe 14 or 16? And what exactly do you know about love and "nice"? |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by 100Cents: 10:34am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Pdizzle: No mind all these girls wey body too dey hot. They can never stay one week without a man. Why can't she keep away from both of them till they find their way then she goes to the one she desires? A period of 2 months can do the magic. More annoying is that this girl is one undergraduate who may be packing up carryovers for her self along with relationship garbage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by debrihachi(f): 10:35am On Oct 08, 2014 |
iykedare:yh like ur sis n esp ur mother dat failed t raise u well cos she was jumping from one dick t anda 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:37am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Classyzi:Why are you standing at attention in your pic? Is ur dad a soldier? |
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