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Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by pickabeau1: 5:50pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
i dont even understand the issue Are people saying alakija made her money legit or is that the topic is a generalisation about ALL women whats the issue |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by cococandy(f): 6:02pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Ok. I believe you. There's no need for fighting. Let's make peace. Hugs her sandijey: |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by swezenberg(m): 6:03pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Acidosis: What do you think our society will be like if we all start raising all kinds of allegations. If I said you were the one that murdered Dele Giwa whereas you were not even there. The fact that these things happen does not mean we should now start generalizing. So if any woman rises in Nigeria, she must have slept with all the men. Then going by your assumptions Dora must have walked her way up there by sleeping with all Tom Dick and Harry, same with Okonjo Iweala. Well I have met ladies with principle who have become so successful without compromising their belief and principles. To you it may be difficult to believe. I also share the fact that you've lost hope in the present Nigeria of today. From within you, I know you are not very sure she obtained the oil block by sleeping around. Just that it appears so weird. Let us consider this analogy. Lets assume I am the President and I become so ill having tried orthodox medicine and a lady working for me found solution to this ailment. I can give her more than oil block. What will people think, ofcourse that she slept with me. There are many instances why people act in various ways that we both don't know. You could be right about your allegation and you could be wrong but I'm sure you are not 100 percent sure for that reason, you can not accuse her on a public forum. 3 Likes |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by koyyess: 6:04pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
pickabeau1:I'll allow creatures here who are intimidated by successful women answer that because really, I see no reason why that name has to come up. 3 Likes |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by pickabeau1: 6:07pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
koyyess: Do you know how alakija got her oil bloc allocation 1 Like |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Nobody: 6:09pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
cococandy: Am sorry for the other comments. No bad blood. Hugs. 3 Likes |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by ElekeNtioba: 6:13pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Aggrippa: LOL which part...is it d 'punnany' or d 'fresh or fairly-used' ?? |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by adorable29(f): 6:24pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
When will this local Nigeria cave men understand that this is the 21st century and women of this generation are smart, intelligent, powerful, bold, outspoken, and can excel in virtually all areas of life?! When will this 17th century homosapiens realise that the days of patriarchy is almost fading out and women have come to prove to the world that they can no longer be relegated to the kitchen and if given the right condition and equal opportunity to strive, are just as good if not better than the men! Wake up guys and look around your immediate environment, not necessarily globally! Look at your clasmates infact. Look at that girl that is gonna come out with a first class while you the man is struggling with a pass! Isn't that enough reason for you to know that a woman can be successful without sleeping with a man?! Make una go buy sense, abeg... Anyway, my comment is not necessarily for the OP! Its for the mofos displaying their low IQ on this thread! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Nobody: 6:26pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
pickabeau1:A fraction- but that's all i know about that because i was not there to witness what happened before the dotted lines were signed. Some people can be that lucky/favored. It does not always have to come to sex and even if that were the case, valid proof should be presented. Otherwise, the person and intension of the accuser will be questioned. 1 Like |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Acidosis(m): 6:31pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
swezenberg: How will you feel if i tell you General Sani Abacha didn't loot the nation's fund? How will you feel if I tell you boko haram wants the success of Nigeria? If you must discard my allegations (with sources), then you should also discard all the accusations levelled against your politicians. Afterall some of us never met Abacha (physically). |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Acidosis(m): 6:34pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
adorable29: Shameless woman; no one is saying ALL women use s. ex for success. Are you really du. mb? or is this post of yours a mistake? |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by adorable29(f): 6:36pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Acidosis: Wow! What kind of wasped logic are you using? Boko haram, success? My 4year old cousin who sees blood and shattered bodies on TV from boko's bomb blast will answer your question! Abacha's looting at least has more logic but there are physical documents to prove that one at least. So what's your proof Prof Dora slept are way to the top? Used condoms! My friend, I use to respect you on this forum but now, well..... 4 Likes |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Acidosis(m): 6:37pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
adorable29: and Abacha's loot? Please show us videos |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Acidosis(m): 6:44pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Some people are funny: Not many brave women will relate their success with their past relationships with men. It is always about her and her husband. If you think a succesful woman will tell FORBES about her se. xcapades in college, nysc camp, community; y'all had better wake up More importantly, you guys need to stop misquoting me. THAT SOME DO IT DOESN'T MEAN ALL DID IT. As regards the name calling, I'm surprised no one asked for source; yet y'all want my head rolling on the floor. Anyway, I don try.. End of Story! |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by adorable29(f): 6:45pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Acidosis: Hmmm! Did I hit a nerve?! Well, I hope I educated you a little. I really don't trade insults with guys like you. You don't seem intelligent enough for me to waste my time on. I am impatient with men whose IQ is 0.000001 and below. Shallom dear! 2 Likes |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by pickabeau1: 6:46pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
koyyes: ok.. so you do not know how her oil bloc was gotten What do you mean by some people are lucky or favoured What sort of favor will enable someone who was an associate of the former First Lady get access to own an oil bloc Yet you are defending the person vehemently.. 2 Likes |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Acidosis(m): 6:46pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
adorable29: You don't need to respect me. Mind you, I have never mentioned the name DORA This month (ONLINE OR OFFLINE). |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by pickabeau1: 6:46pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
koyyes: ok.. so you do not know how her oil bloc was gotten What do you mean by some people are lucky or favoured What sort of favor will enable someone who was an associate of the former First Lady get access to own an oil bloc Yet you are defending the person vehemently.. 1 Like |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Fourwinds: 6:49pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
sandijey:as a result of harsh environment 1 Like |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Nobody: 6:54pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
pickabeau1:So what's your point? That she was an associate of the former first lady does not mean someone bedded her before she became successful. What do i mean by luck/favor? please define luck/favor, let me know if i have poor choice of words. 3 Likes |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by pickabeau1: 6:56pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
koyyes: Leave the bedding aside madam.. calm down I ask you agauin What type of luck or favor will make someone get an oil bloc allocation Do you think it is normal Why that person Does the person have the money to pay the signature bonus..etc What do you think 1 Like |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Nobody: 7:03pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
pickabeau1:I don't think anything because it's not my job to start questioning the success of everyone especially women. And even if i find my self doing so,i can't just wake up,come to nairaland and start making demeaning statements about them- atleast,not to that level when i don't have evidence. 3 Likes |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by pickabeau1: 7:09pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
koyyes: Fair enough You still have not answered the q How did a woman who was a stylist and confidant of Maryam Babangida has an oil bloc allocation which is now worth billions Interesting eh |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Nobody: 7:14pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
pickabeau1:ok, please enlighten me. |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by pickabeau1: 7:18pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Nobody: 7:26pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
pickabeau1:ohoooooo,loooooool. You see say even you no sabi as the matter take happen. If we just leave people to inculcate the habbit of accusing women any how,every woman including our mothers,sisters,auntys and daughters will be given demeaning names because they have 5 kobo in their purse. We've passed that stage abeg, let's behave civilized. 2 Likes |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by pickabeau1: 7:30pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
koyyes: So you see that the matter is not as simple as u made when u came in You were not happy about the tone of the post... address that.. the content may not be wrong... This favour that just happened to land on alakija and gave her oil bloc This favour that just happened to land on etteh and gave her speaker of the house This favour ..... ok 1 Like |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Nobody: 7:46pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
pickabeau1:I didn't disagree with the op's post. I only praised a guy- a guy oo, who expressed that the post is one sided.At a point, women need the influence of men to succeed just as men will need a woman's influence to succeed. Or do you want to discredit your mum's(for example) influence on where you are today? haba! 1 Like |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by pickabeau1: 8:02pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
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Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by pickabeau1: 8:04pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
koyyes: Haba.. i did not see any issue with the post What he said is not all 'successful' women got to the top through hardwork and integrity This of course applies to the men also Even another poster sandijey spoke of the sexism which pervades the upper echelons of certain sectors and she was shouted down She actually raised the best post in my opinion She identified the sexism as the issue. Some women are actually qualified for higher responsibility but will be stuck because they dont want to compromise their standard.. Some eventually go through but the reality is that most will compromise It is not only unique to naija but it can be worse here as discrimination lawsuits can be filed abroad There are men who made it to the top the right way... there are those who did not There are women who made it to the top the right way... there are those who did not A mums influence on a child may not be the best barometer of success to determine how successful a woman is Im sure Ma Baker was a good mum to her kids. 1 Like |
Re: Successful Women Have Plenty Men In Their Lives by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
pickabeau1:I only used the mums influence as an example. I kind of feel we are not talking about the same person here- whose post do you think i disagree with? |
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