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Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 4:35pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
what is ur opinion of a woman/wife dat has not visited her husband's village for once since she was married? And judging from d look of things she has no tangible reason for it... |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parismarc: 5:11pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
I'm wondering why the husband didn't take her. Is she supposed to find her way to his village by her self? 10 Likes |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 5:16pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
parismarc:she refused to come back |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by Nobody: 5:19pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Hmmm.....the effect is always bad o, that's all I can say. |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parismarc: 5:28pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
parrotibaba: Come back from where? Are they not staying together? |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by itstpia1: 5:30pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
parismarc: |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 5:57pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
parismarc:what I meant was dat she refused to visit her husband's village despite pleas from both her husband n relatives |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by TeamSimple(m): 6:00pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
No big deal..just that the kids might be affected in future. |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by itstpia1: 6:02pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
parrotibaba: her relatives or the husband's relatives? why are they pleading with her to visit? 1 Like |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 6:39pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
itstpia1:d husband's relatives n family... ...look man just drop ur opinion |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by Winneygirl(f): 6:44pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
parrotibaba:. Drop opinion when there are so many unanswered questions?? Not everyone does things in a one-sided manner. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 6:51pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Winneygirl:what's hard to understand? A woman dat has refused to visit her husband's village since de got married despite pleas from d husband's family n relatives ...what's ur opinion? simple! anyways ask ur questions |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by crackhaus: 7:00pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
parrotibaba:The look of what things? Are you saying she has no reasons or that her reasons are not good enough? Which leads to the next question; What is/are her reason(s)? 6 Likes |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parismarc: 7:07pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Hmmmmm, I won't be surprised the hubby told her negative things about his village hence her reluctance. Op, is it your wife we are talking about? If yes,what are her reasons for not wanting to go? 2 Likes |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by egopersonified(f): 7:25pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Hope there are no birds that turn to old women? |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by Nobody: 7:28pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
This Op sef. You dnt want to come out clean with more facts. The story is incomplete. There are underlying issues/problems between the woman, her husband and his people. What are those issues causing the woman to avoid her husband's hometown? what reasons did she give for refusing to go? |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by cococandy(f): 7:35pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
parrotibaba:So when the husband goes home,she refuses to go with him? Even during holiday season? That's weird and strange. How long have they been married and didn't the girl's family visits the boy's hometown(village) before the wedding? |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 7:38pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
crackhaus:her reasons r not good enough |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 7:40pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:more like she believes dat d husband's family is conspiring against her which is a lie 1 Like |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by cococandy(f): 7:41pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Why would she believe that? Any particular incidence took place that gave her that impression? parrotibaba: 1 Like |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 7:42pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
parismarc:not my wife(I don't hv one) but my uncle's wife... she thinks d whole family of her husband is conspiring against her which is not true |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 7:44pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
cococandy:I suspect her side of d family might hv brainwashed her into thinking dat d husband's family wants to kill her or something |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by Nobody: 7:48pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
parrotibaba: You shouldnt conclude that her people are brainwashing her. That could lead to more feud between families. I feel she needs to open up more about what she saw or heard that made her conclude that they are conspiring against her. You can't make accusations like that without concrete proof. I hope she isnt the superstitious type that loves to point fingers. |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by Godmystrength: 7:49pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
why does she think there is a conspiracy? Besides, you telling us that her reasons are not good enough is unacceptable unless you tell us what her reason is exactly. You are uncle's family and will definitely be on his side whether right or wrong. 1 Like |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by cococandy(f): 7:50pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Just like that? Haba what happened? My family can't just wake up and start telling me my husband's family wants to kill me. Something must have led to that. And if it is something genuine,then it's not surprising that she's reluctant to visit. No one wants to play with their life even if the threat is very very minimal. In fact if there's possibility of a quarrel or fight,someone like me won't even want to visit because I fear trouble pass anything. Not to talk of when I'm genuinely afraid for my life. Finally why doesn't she trust her husband? Even if I have issues with my in laws,as long as my husband dey my corner,I'll have no fear. Something tells me she doesn't trust the man. They need to sort out whatever is going on beneath before the visiting issue can be addressed. parrotibaba: |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 7:52pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:what r ur suggestions? |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by Iolite(f): 7:52pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
parrotibaba: Why the pleading from his relatives? From what I understand, she's been there before, she just refused to go after the wedding and the husband (ur Uncle) cannot do anything about. Na wao some women strong sha. |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 7:54pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Godmystrength:her reasons r not good enough in the sense dat she thinks its a conspiracy amongst us(the husband's family) to kill her which mks absolutely no sense! |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by Godmystrength: 7:55pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
[quote author=parrotibaba post=27005589] I suspect her side of d family might hv brainwashed her into thinking dat d husband's family wants to kill her or something[/quote]suspects, suspicions, accusation here and there. beside, is you family doing anything to make her think so or did she tell you so or you went into her head to fish this out? What is your uncle saying about all these because it concerns him more than you.... |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 7:58pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
cococandy:dats d problem, what could possibly cause dis kind of thought about her husband's family? dats why I suspect brainwash from d other side of d Table |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by Godmystrength: 8:00pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
[quote author=parrotibaba post=27005876] her reasons r not good enough in the sense dat she thinks its a conspiracy amongst us(the husband's family) to kill her which mks absolutely no sense![/quote]why do you think she thinks that your family wants to kill her? What have you done to her in the past? Makes absolutely no sense to you bt it sure will make absolutely much sense to her |
Re: Your Opinion On A Woman That Has Not Visited Her Husband's Village For Once by parrotibaba(m): 8:00pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Godmystrength:my uncle is not d autocratic type(if u understand) he just kept mum about it |
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