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Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 12:37pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Haywhymido: YOU FOR GO CALL GOD COME DOWN MAKE E USE IM HAND SETTLE THIS GENDER MATTER NAW |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 12:37pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 12:38pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
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Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 12:39pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
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Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by Nobody: 12:43pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Haywhymido: I hope you also know that the Bible tells slaves to submit to their masters. 1 Peter 2:18-20 (New International Version) 18 Slaves, submit yourselves to your masters with all respect, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh. 19 For it is commendable if a man bears up under the pain of unjust suffering because he is conscious of God. 20 But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. http://www.biblestudytools.com/1-peter/passage.aspx?q=1-peter+2:18-20 So much for medieval teachings. 2 Likes |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 12:43pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
golddeejay: some men are so weak... that they can't even spell! 3 Likes |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by Nobody: 12:48pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Haywhymido: Do you notice that God did not designate adam to be head of Eve in the begining? It was until adam and eve sinned that God told Eve since she decided to sin against him, therefore she would go through pregnancy pains, her husband would dominate her, her cravings will be for her husband and that they were going to grow old and die. This means that all of these consequences including men being heads were not meant to be in the first place. This shows that in the sight of God, all humans, male and female are equal. God detests any form of gender discrimination. Which was why it is written in 1peter 3 vs 7 that Husbands need to show their wives honor since both of them are heirs of the kingdom of God. There would have been a special preference for one gender over another by God. But No, God is never partial. when God gives laws, he gives to every human, male and female. The way he handles both gender shows he views them equally. It is selfish humans who like to dominate others to their injury that created partiality. If men and women are not equal, then Jesus would not have told us that we should DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT WE WOULD LIKE THEM TO DO UNTO YOU. One thing people do not understand is that it is only when a Man becomes a HUSBAND that he becomes the head of his wife. If you are not a husband, you are not the head of anybody. Note that the word 'Husband' was repeatedly used in the bible when talking about Headship. A man is the HEAD OF HIS WIFE, NOT OF ANOTHER WOMAN/EVERY OTHER WOMAN ON EARTH, NOT OF HIS MOTHER. And inspite of being the Head, 1peter 3vs 7 says you are still to show your wife HONOR. This tells you God almighty is against any form of discrimination. 2 Likes |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 12:51pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
FADEO: what about the women who take care of the family, pay all the bills and feed and clothe both husband and children. who here then is the head? The lazy a$$ men that depend on their wives for everything or... what? some women even sponsor their husbands in school( one family I know, the guy's wife sponsored his masters degree program) The most annoying thing is that people don't even seem to recognize those type of women. no matter what they do, their husband's still get all the glory just cuz he's "the man" May God bless such women jare. 2 Likes |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 12:56pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: this is just it! |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by golddeejay(m): 1:22pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
swaggzo:dont get ur point |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by FADEO: 1:51pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
swaggzo: The bible categorically states that a man that cannot feed his family is worse than an infidel. Women are a blessing to our world. But considering a married couple, the man is the head of a woman but outside the married couple life no man (including me) is the head of another woman but the fact that a man don't have the resources to feed for his family does not negate the fact that he is the head of the household. If he is a lazy a$$, that another discussion. He will be termed a figure-head if he cant provide for his family.....lol. Hope you get my point? But for gender equality, we are not equally and am not saying men are higher than women but we are not equal. the gender that is higher depends on the personality involved. 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 2:08pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
FADEO: Finally... The most reasonable guy on nairaland! I wrote this piece not trying to promote a Gender equality that's not gonna be possible even for the next 50years. If you follow each line you'll see that I'm only talking about the way children should be raised. If from day one you start to make your daughters aware that they also have a better part to play in the society when they grow up, when they're grown up its gonna be useful to them. They would want to compete in all spheres of life and partake in every plan the male gender is carrying out. But if you start beating the drums of marriage and husband matters to them from a very young stage, they'll believe that of course somebody else will always be there to govern them when you're no longer around. That's why most women can't stand anymore or find it difficult to survive when their husbands are dead or far from them. 2 Likes |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 2:12pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
I see no reason why I would have One daughter and Four sons, and let my only daughter do all the housework while my Four sons sit in the living room all day watching football and playing video games. Its total n0nsense! 5 Likes |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by Nobody: 2:39pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
These men-hating lesbians are here again |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by TV01(m): 2:46pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:CafreeWannabe holá, you have come... Please tell us, 1. what should the Bible exhort (slaves or servants) to do? 2. Do you identify as a Christian or not? Danke Schon TV **it must be said - you are doing a darn fine job with the gfifs. You are deffo #1 now, if only on the family section. Kudos** 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by Nobody: 2:49pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
swaggzo:pls when it's time to clear the bushes in the compound, lift heavy materials like generator, carry lugs of wood and all types of hard work, mak sure your daughter is not given a preferential treatment. You are just talking as if boys don't do any work in the house. Some boys even cook, or how do you expect the only girl to eat when both parents have gone to work and she's the youngest child? You lesbians just want men to play your own role but can't play the role men play in the society. Feminism will be taken serious if the amount of coal mine workers hits 1000 and we have female soldiers ranking close to 1/3. 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by Nobody: 2:54pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:stinking feminists won't see this |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 2:56pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Segeggs: If you're reasonable enough, you should know that there are no known male lesbians in the world. 3 Likes |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by Nobody: 2:59pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
swaggzo:which one r you? Lesbian, gay, bi-sexual or transgender? Maybe you're just a woman wrapper 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by TV01(m): 3:02pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:Sophy, Sophy, Sophy, how far? As ever you are all over the place ! Firstly - the fact that men and women are equal in worth before God, does not preclude different roles and responsibilities and leadership/headship by men - especially in the Family and Church (which is esentially a para-family). Secondly - The bible has no notion of Gender, so it's prety pointless you co-opting God inot your gender-politics. You also do good job of conflating equality, roles, responsibilities, power and domination to little or no effect Thirdly - When you get married (big amen I'm hearing ), will you be after a husband that is "gender correct"? Or "demand equality" in every respect from him? 1 Corinthians 11:3 - But I would have you know , that the head of every man isChrist; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. Ephesians 5:22 - ves, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. Colossians 3:18 - Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Sophyrocks:Does a father have authority over his unmarried daughter? Does showing someone honour mean "equalising" in every regard? And if indeed a husband is the head of his wife, haven't you discredited everything you said in the first half of your post ? TV 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 3:03pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Segeggs: boy you're being totally pointless. Even the devil knows that there is a whole lot of differences between masculine and feminine jobs. About soldiers... If I was given charge to recruit 10 soldiers out of 50 males and 50 females, I'ud pick 7 males and 3 females. Some things are just too masculine for the feminine gender. But when it comes to freedom of making decisions and being leaders in the society... I don't see why women deserve so little of everything. 2 Likes |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by SAMBARRY: 3:08pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Empty noise by a frustrated misogynist.have a field day. Next |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by Nobody: 3:11pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
swaggzo:double standards yet you want equality. swaggzo:there can. Never be gender equality so long you know and believe in the bolded . swaggzo:only the strong lead. You can't sit your stinking and lazy self down and expect the world to be handed to you on a platter of gold. We have strong women in every sector and we men are proud of them cos majority of them got there on merit. I'll advice you to work hard towards success on an individual note instead of following some dumb movement, chanting silly slogans and not doing the right things. 3 Likes |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 3:19pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Segeggs: did you even read my first post? Have you read the whole of my posts before typing these meaningless words on your device? Where do you even come from 2 Likes |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by tintingz(m): 3:19pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
golddeejay:Abi ooo... Gender inequality is everywhere. Feminists of today are just wasting their time. |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by tmosco(m): 3:20pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
swaggzo: U deserve to be a leader because of hw good u ar not because u ar male or female.U will find out dat when it comes to leadership and skills males ar more efficient because right from when a boy is small he is taught to b in charge wen d father is absent. we shouldn't pick a female because dey are more males in a position of authority but because dey can do d job. |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 3:25pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
tmosco: bro I love your contribution. But you're lacking in some areas. You cannot tell me that Men are better in the job that's why they lead. No. In Nigeria for example.. Men lead in almost everything because women are always given very little or no chance to prove a point. 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by Nobody: 3:40pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
swaggzo:pls don't quote me again |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by Nobody: 3:40pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
TV01: Hola, of course, I have come. I was one of the first to support justice. Please tell us, The Bible should condemn slavery. 2. Do you identify as a Christian or not? Not really. The more I see how people use the Bible to support injustice and inequality, the more I read it, the more distance and dislike am I developing for this religion created by medieval men. It's just that I love some of Jesus Christ's teachings. I think he was a revolutionary men, way ahead of his time. Danke Schon Bitte schön. **it must be said - you are doing a darn fine job with the gfifs. You are deffo #1 now, if only on the family section. Kudos** Not doing a good job at all today. Feeling sick, staying at home. |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by smartmom(f): 3:42pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
@poster, I need this thread in this parenting forum urgently as it is needed to contribute to a recent posting there; nigerianparentsforum.com Would like to pm. http://nigerianparentsforum.com/index.php/kunena/stories-about-children-in-the-media/9401-girls-worldwide-are-living-in-fear-of-abuse |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by swaggzo(m): 3:48pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Segeggs: how would I have known that someone like you has an account on nairaland.. If you did not quote me in the first place 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality: Why Things Won't Be Normal. by TV01(m): 3:54pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Aren't you such the SJW? If you are not personally activist for - and condemning - every single injustice in the world, should I find fault with you? carefreewannabe:Is it because of "how people use it", or "your reading of it"? You are not the only one who likes to use the disparaging term "medieval". Even if we place their era as medieval, does that make their intelluct, thinking, morality or spirituality in anyway inferior to those of contemporary times? carefreewannabe:But Christ did not declare himself a man did He. You either judge His claim to be God incarnate true - and Him along with it - or false and His works as well. carefreewannabe: Get well soon - the German economic machine needs all hands on deck . It's not Naija or even the UK, where such malingering is celebrated. TV |
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