We dated for close to 3 years before she travelled to South Africa for her modelling job and because of the distance, we kind of lost touch. I met and dated 2 more ladies at separate times but the relationships did not last as well (the first cheated and I left her when I found out)...the last one stopped communicating with me as soon as she went for her NYSC so I decided to move on and now, the one in SA came to Nigeria just last month before my birthday and "we indulged". Now we seem to be taking things more seriously and I don't want it to be short-lived like others so she is suggesting I relocate to South Africa. But I have my job to think about...meeting new people in SA and starting life all over will be kind of difficult and besides, it's a woman who has to come live with a man and not the other way round. Or what do u guys think?

Question for the god's

prince3009:
We dated for close to 3 years before she travelled to South Africa for her modelling job and because of the distance, we kind of lost touch. I met and dated 2 more ladies at separate times but the relationships did not last as well (the first cheated and I left her when I found out)...the last one stopped communicating with me as soon as she went for her NYSC so I decided to move on and now, the one in SA came to Nigeria just last month before my birthday and "we indulged". Now we seem to be taking things more seriously and I don't want it to be short-lived like others so she is suggesting I relocate to South Africa. But I have my job to think about...meeting new people in SA and starting life all over will be kind of difficult and besides, it's a woman who has to come live with a man and not the other way round. Or what do u guys think?

if you move to SA to join a woman without having guaranteed your own standing, Mehn!!!! Your name will become sorry !!!! You really don't know a woman until you are under her mercy!!!! Then you will know who she really is!

eddiebruk:
Question for the god's

Is this the best you can do? SMH

Goldenboy007:


if you move to SA to join a woman without having guaranteed your own standing, Mehn!!!! Your name will become sorry !!!! You really don't know a woman until you are under her mercy!!!! Then you will know who she really is!

Thank you very much Goldenboy. That was what I told her exactly but she says she wants to have me around her and does not want to leave me at the mercy of someone who will disappoint me again. I asked her what would be my fate if suddenly the relationship turns sour? And all she was that i should look st the bright side. But problem is that I just can't fathom starting life in a strange place where I have never been to

@ops, if u hv a good job here dat is earning u real cash den u hv to rethink abt it.bt if moving dere is gona bring u more money, den give it a try. jst dont depend on a woman interms of financial stuffs n in a country dat is nt urs, mehn dat will be suicide ooo

sameer1212:
@ops, if u hv a good job here dat is earning u real cash den u hv to rethink abt it.bt if moving dere is gona bring u more money, den give it a try. jst dont depend on a woman interms of financial stuffs n in a country dat is nt urs, mehn dat will be suicide ooo

Very good advice.

glitest:


Very good advice.

thank ma'am(love)

sameer1212:
thank ma'am(love)

You're very much welcome love

Bro you don't need to go to sa b4 to settle down now if she's not ready to come and stay in this hot nija make she stay her own besides plenty babes they everywere now even for this thread infact I don sight one fr you glitest this one go last pass tens sef if ya want

samflexxy:
Bro you don't need to go to sa b4 to settle down now if she's not ready to come and stay in this hot nija make she stay her own besides plenty babes they everywere now even for this thread infact I don sight one fr you glitest this one go last pass tens sef if ya want

Past tense ke?....This chica is a present continuous tense oh.

Make a vacation dere,and see for ur self or start-up her modelling shit here wif u,pls don't tell me u don't knw wat to do,just wanna hear wat've got to say

Give her belle first.

I dont knw y our nja guys still dont get, na u go marry her abi na she go marry u? to me I will even advice u not to marry gals dat live abroad, I live abroad and I knw the kind of game dey play.

SA is not a good country where u can rely for job, I have been there and I knw wats happening over there. drug business and online scam is the only way u can survive.

stick to ur job here in nigeria, if she love u, she will come and settle with u

To be or not to be. Go to South Africa or Remain in Nigeria. The decision is entirely yours to make.

prince3009:
We dated for close to 3 years before she travelled to South Africa for her modelling job and because of the distance, we kind of lost touch. I met and dated 2 more ladies at separate times but the relationships did not last as well (the first cheated and I left her when I found out)...the last one stopped communicating with me as soon as she went for her NYSC so I decided to move on and now, the one in SA came to Nigeria just last month before my birthday and "we indulged". Now we seem to be taking things more seriously and I don't want it to be short-lived like others so she is suggesting I relocate to South Africa. But I have my job to think about...meeting new people in SA and starting life all over will be kind of difficult and besides, it's a woman who has to come live with a man and not the other way round. Or what do u guys think?

U want to throw everything u have worked for years becos of a womAn ask her if she will do the same for you

free2ryhme:




U want to throw everything u have worked for years becos of a womAn ask her if she will do the same for you

That was why i asked for opinions. if i "wanted" to, i wouldn't post it here

Nor try am say u dey move. if she really wants u she should stay in Nigeria.

prince3009:


That was why i asked for opinions. if i "wanted" to, i wouldn't post it here

You don't need our opinion in your private and personal matters.


Come back when u make your final decision on the mAtter

Really? How much do you earn in your current job?

sounds like you talk from experience

Goldenboy007:


if you move to SA to join a woman without having guaranteed your own standing, Mehn!!!! Your name will become sorry !!!! You really don't know a woman until you are under her mercy!!!! Then you will know who she really is!

SA is kinda discriminative of Nigerians & moving over there without a very solid financial mainstay will be a disastrous mistake u'll live to regret for a long time.So,u both should have a tete-a-tete & come to a neutral concensus.Remember,u're the man,on very normal grounds,a woman is the one who joins the man & not the other way round.If u jeopardize ur job at the expense of love,remember u may not enjoy the love in the long run without cash.

Move to SA and regret ever going there.


Focus on what you can see and stop thinking about a girl far away because I have been in that shoe before...

Guy if you really love her,i you would want to marry her, tell her get you invitation letter first. Then visit her ,know what she is doing there. Also try to find out what naija guys are doing to make a liven there. Compare it to your job back in Nigeria then you have the answer.

Acidbath:


Lies...she dumped your f@ggot a$$!!!!

Gigolo p1g!!!

Dude seems you are on drugs.

This thread is over 7 years old yet you are attacking the op like ....
Are you sure you are okay!!?

Is this one commenting above me not a bigger f00l?