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Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 11:44am On Oct 14, 2014 |
I need to make a quick decision. I have a gf whom I've been with for sometime now. She has all the wifey qualities a man can think of but I wouldn't say I love her much. Now many suitors are coming for her hand in marriage and she wants me to have the final say. Do I keep her or do I let her go? keeping in mind that finding a perfect wife material these days is not easy… (tear_rubber & all) I need sincere contributions please |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by chidekings(m): 11:58am On Oct 14, 2014 |
first of all, define love |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 12:03pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
chidekings:willing to lay everything for someone. |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by pasqal09: 12:03pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
You've answer it already. You don't love her, so why are you still hanging on to her? Are you an enemy of progress? 3 Likes |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 12:06pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Wen u knew u didnt luv ar,y did u kip ar 4 xo long. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by pasqal09: 12:08pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Vikkyk10: Please post what people can actually understand 1 Like |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 12:10pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
pasqal09:hmm |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by ERCROSS(m): 12:12pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
It depends on u... The feeling may start to develop after u guys get married..u may get tired of the marriage too quick if the feeling eventually refuse to spark up.. But if u tink she 'll make a good house wife, it will do u a lot of good.. '"he who find a wife..as found a good tin".. Not just any lady oo. But a wife.. A wifely wife |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 12:14pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
ERCROSS:seconded,luv after marriage is rare.U av 2 luv ur patner |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by farano(f): 12:20pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Dpress:Let her go. You don't deserve her |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 12:24pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
farano:abi o |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by farano(f): 12:29pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Vikkyk10:Yes na...People do not value what they have until they lose it. |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by kokosheen(m): 12:46pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
OP, after a few years of marriage, you will find that Love alone is not enough. These qualities you find in her, if genuine are the bastions that would hold true when the rocky times start and bet me, they will. You can learn to love her with time; the question is whether the basic foundation is there. Some questions for you - How is the sex? Mind blowing, great or just there? Sex is great and it will wane for a while but if really great would help to bring you back home after you gone out once or twice (in your case, you will most likely cheat). How does she take critical decisions? Does she run them by you and end up doing what she wanted in the first place against your advice OR she just rolls over to do whatever you say? Must ideal scenario is your having a wife you can trust to make decisions together whether good or bad Level of trust? Do you trust her and does she trust you? If there's no trust from either of you, then you're on some rocky road. Anyways, the decision is yours to take, whether you stay with or let her go, you are the one that gets to leave with it for the rest of your life. |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
farano:I'm trying to avoid this from happening. Maybe I could get to love her more. I hope. |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
kokosheen:Nice comment.. i can trust her with my life. She's still tear_rubber(untouched ). I didn't want to take away her pride when I wasn't so sure of my feelings for her. |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
What's the use of keeping her when you know you don't love her? You've been with her for sometime now and yet don't love her, you think you will when marry her? Please just let someone that appreciates and loves her marry her. Hope the one you get to love is a good wifey material. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by 2goodbobo(m): 2:02pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
you cant eat your cake and have it bro. you got to choose one. Is either you let her go or Marry her. no time to check time. |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
MzPreshie:Thanks |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
2goodbobo:I know. That's why I need to decide asap |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by GoodFaith: 2:40pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Dpress:With all her qualities u are thinking to let her go Right U don't love her Go play |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by philantoxx(m): 3:22pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
okkkk...so dis OP is one of those people who won't #bringbackourgirls.gat my eyyyyez on u. |
Re: Do I Keep Her? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
farano:abì o |
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