We may have heard things like; this babe is deperate, that babe eye cut....etc.

What would make you consider a lady desperate?

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@Tannie................




If my girlfriend claims She wants everything I want, how I want it and when I want it then I automatically conclude she is faking compatibility in an attempt to convince me that the two of us are meant to be.Talking about marriage often and asking unnecessary question like when I would like to settle down and some things like that could also make me term her "desperate" especially if she has detailed plans of how our marriage will be and how we will spend our honey month.

After a roll under the sheets she says 'you know I am not getting any younger'.
And 3hours later, she calls and say 'wetin you talk nah?'

We had not seen each other for 3 years, we hook up, catch up on old times, hold hands, hug, gist, I make moves to get laid...Then, she needs like 700k to start a business, she wants to meet my mum and spend the weekend with her, she wants me to meet her siblings and spiritual father...I've not picked her calls for a loooooong time. If that ain't desperate, I dunno what is.

Lovetinz:
After a roll under the sheets she says 'you know I am not getting any younger'.
And 3hours later, she calls and say 'wetin you talk nah?'

Classic case!

Tallesty1:
Typing............

I'm waiting for it. I know I don't counter your point

Tallesty1:
@Tannie................




If my girlfriend claims She wants everything I want, how I want it and when I want it then I automatically conclude she is faking compatibility in an attempt to convince me that the two of us are meant to be

I agree with you because I can't like everything he likes.

Talking about marriage often and asking unnecessary question like when I would like to settle down and some things like that could also make me term her "desperate" especially if she has detailed plans of how our marriage will be and how we will spend our honey month.

Well it depends on her age, you will agree with me that our bodies differ. A single lady at age 29 wouldn't want to play around unserious guy.

Lastly, 90% of girls even those wey no get bf don plan their wedding since upgrade the plans occassional depending on what is in vogue then wait for implementation
So don't be surprise if your babe lay out her plans for you immediately you finish proposing.

The funny thing is most guys will see no other person as desperate other than the girl agitating for marriage.

Tannie:



I agree with you because I can't like everything he likes.



Well it depends on her age, you will agree with me that our bodies differ. A single lady at age 29 wouldn't want to play around unserious guy.

Lastly, 90% of girls even those wey no get bf don plan their wedding since upgrade the plans occassional depending on what is in vogue then wait for implementation
So don't be surprise if your babe lay out her plans for you immediately you finish proposing.

You are right,

but it is a turn off 4 me.. That alone could make me withdraw

but it depends largely on the way she approached the issue and when.

There is a right time for everything y'know

Tallesty1:
You are right,

but it is a turn off 4 me.. That alone could make me withdraw

but it depends largely on the way she approached the issue and when.[b]

There is a right time for everything y'know

I agree 100% with the bolded

simplyOJ:
We may have heard things like; this babe is deperate, that babe eye cut....etc.

What would make you consider a lady desperate?

you are mixing up two things

babe is desperate is used for one seeking marriage
babe eye cut is slang for a gold digger

which is it

pickabeau1:


you are mixing up two things

babe is desperate is used for one seeking marriage
babe eye cut is slang for a gold digger

which is it

The desperate. Pardon the mix up. Thanks

simplyOJ:

The desperate. Pardon the mix up. Thanks

A lady is desperate for marriage due to age, biological clock, loneliness etc
So many reasons

A lady can be desperate if she knows she is loosing the one that understood her to another know or unknown rivals

Also
With the other points the poster above me did address