Missy B:

Actually::::It's the 3 paragraphs that don't relate.

Missy B:

Actually::::It's the 3 paragraphs that don't relate.

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sexyLeamon:

why do you have to insult?

chamotex:

When his money is up at the cyber cafe he'll log out sha

brown4:

you dummies - click the link and read the original post if you want to understand the paragraphs.

sistawoman:

Here it is: And yes I agree:

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's
not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
before you.

Find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he
treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers
you,speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior, Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are,

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise
is a two way thing.

You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute
about baggage, deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you, a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals, look for someone
complimentary, not supplementary.

Dating is fun, even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.Right. Make him
miss you sometimes,

When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily
available to him - he takes you for granted.

Never move into his mother's house.

Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you
need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others. scary right, just
read it and pass it on.U don't know who might just need it.

sesman:



good write up sistawoman, am becoming a fan, can i have your autograph please

sistawoman:


This was not me, i did not write this, this is what he was linking us to.

But I agree with it 110%.

As much as I love my man there are certain things that just can't be compromised and that is me. And because he loves me so much he would ask/demand/expect me to compromise me.

lysaa:

@j-girl,
as much as i agree with u, i agree with ur profile pic 

profbrains:

TASTEFULCOMMENT,SITALATER, AQBI NA SITERLADY JUS KNOW that M AROUND I WULD THORRRRRRRLY BRING OUT ALL UR LIFTSSREPOST.T
HOWEVER MY OWN I AGREE WITH WHOSO EVA WROTE UR RELIFT BT people BECOMEING A FAN TO COPY NA them SABI I WNT this COUTRY TO B yes we can WITH BRIGHT MIND JUS KNW SHA WHATEVA U WRITE IS TO D PUBLIC DNT LIFT, TO MADAM SISTER WOMAN.?

j-girl:

LOL! Thanks.
I'm about to change it again

H2O2:

Probably just one tired, frustrated old girl trying to turn other girls into feminists because she's tired of getting laid.