In many cases where you see women discussing about marital unfaithfulness you tend to see them saying; Men are the same, men are dogs etc
This leaves a bitter taste to my mouth as I know that not every man cheats. My Dad never cheated my mum so why the notion.

I want women who are married to faithful men to come on board and tell their fellow women that we still have wonderful men.

They say all men cheat
They say only a few women cheat
Makes you wonder if the cheating men cheat with aliens.

Not all men cheat and certainly all women don't cheat. It is just that the cheats are a lot more loud and unfortunately, the faithful men are either not appreciated or made to look like something is wrong with them

how are you so sure your Dad never cheated on your mum? so you believe if he was cheating he would let you guys know or he would let you guys suspect? as a person, you can only speak for yourself, you can't speak for others.

bennyrazz:
how are you so sure your Dad never cheated on your mum? so you believe if he was cheating he would let you guys know or he would let you guys suspect? as a person, you can only speak for yourself, you can't speak for others.

His work schedule wouldn't have allowed it besides him being a good christian. Its from work to house. He never stayed late past 7:00pm all through when I knew him. I can vouch for him.

If your dad was a cheat don't blame it on mine.

Still observing

deltateam:


His work schedule wouldn't have allowed it besides him being a good christian. Its from work to house. He never stayed late past 7:00pm all through when I knew him. I can vouch for him.

If your dad was a cheat don't blame it on mine.

its two possibilities, he might have cheated or he might not have cheated on your mum but as life goes on, you would understand why I wrote "you can only speak/vouch for yourself" when it comes to some certain issues.

deltateam:
I want women who are married to faithful men to come on board and tell their fellow women that we still have wonderful men.

Good idea, but the below...

bennyrazz:
how are you so sure your Dad never cheated on your mum?

...can be asked of anyone ...

bennyrazz:
"you can only speak/vouch for yourself" when it comes to some certain issues.

...so the above is probably somewhat better.

Faithful and happy husband here !


TV

OP,(If unmarried)kindly speak / vouch for thyself!
Married folks can/may speak for their spouses and themselves (If they have sufficient evidence)..

Obviously, not all men cheat.
There are way too many men to come to such a conclusion.

Not all men cheat.
Men tend to be more promiscuous in marriage than women, probably because of their huge sexuaI appetites when compared to their female counterparts. And since the institute of marriage is becoming less and less sacrosanct, more and more single ladies don't mind giving themselves out to married men who most times are already sex-starved and will need the grace of God not to fall to temptation.


Ladies, if you don't want your man to cheat, make love to him at least three times a week. Its that simple.

deltateam:
In many cases where you see women discussing about marital unfaithfulness you tend to see them saying; Men are the same, men are dogs etc
This leaves a bitter taste to my mouth as I know that not every man cheats. My Dad never cheated my mum so why the notion.
I want women who are married to faithful men to come on board and tell their fellow women that we still have wonderful men.

I wanted to warn you to be careful as they will come and attack your fathers intergrity but i can see i came late they already did that.

All men do not cheat. The lousy men who cant control their senses and wont take responsibility for their actions often love to drag other men down with them

Its called mob mentality, eg on a good day a person wont take tyre and burn another human if he is acting alone but when there is a mob he will be justified that " i am not the only one, others are doing it too" in the process refuse to take personal responsibility for his actions.

Bad news and misery loves company. Hold on to your belief you will meet great men who dont cheat and who know whats right. You may meet a few lousy ones but believe me have been there done that have the t- shirt you will meet a great man and e go do you like film. Those who call you a fool for having standards will be using you to do testimony

Yes all men cheat or have once cheated on their wives.

berem:
Yes all men cheat or have once cheated on their wives.

Which means all women have either slept with a married man while single or thay have cheated on their husbands.

This is just a balance based on your blind generalization

Mynd44:

Which means all women have either slept with a married man while single or thay have cheated on their husbands.

This is just a balance based on your blind generalization

see you! Which one is blind generalization?

berem:
see you! Which one is blind observation?

You see me mention observation?

Mynd44:

You see me mention observation?

oh sorry!

aisha2:


I wanted to warn you to be careful as they will come and attack your fathers intergrity but i can see i came late they already did that.

All men do not cheat. The lousy men who cant control their senses and wont take responsibility for their actions often love to drag other men down with them

Its called mob mentality, eg on a good day a person wont take tyre and burn another human if he is acting alone but when there is a mob he will be justified that " i am not the only one, others are doing it too" in the process refuse to take personal responsibility for his actions.

Bad news and misery loves company. Hold on to your belief you will meet great men who dont cheat and who know whats right. You may meet a few lousy ones but believe me have been there done that have the t- shirt you will meet a great man and e go do you like film. Those who call you a fool for having standards will be using you to do testimony

This is an unnecessary and jaundiced view on the comment you allude to. Bennyrazz asked a totally logical question and followed it with another logical statement. Our history is replete with children and wives crawling out of the woodwork after a man dies to claim consanguinity. Your comment is more injurios to this thread than Benny's. One could assume you're projecting. And, if not, there's absolutely no need to be solipsistic.

Mynd44:

Which means all women have either slept with a married man while single or thay have cheated on their husbands.

Not necessarily. Berem's statement is wrong though.

Lol when as a society we query when it is stated that a man doesnt cheat but accept hook line and sinker when we say a man cheated no query no questions asked

Lol, who do they cheat with? - dogs?

I dunno, however, it's just basically difficult sometimes to control yourself, especially when you keep meeting all kinds of beautiful chics throwing themselves at you.

I don't know if all men cheat - but cheating is part of life.

I hope not

Is exercising 'free will' cheating?
Cheating is when you lie and hide your agenda by deception.
If you are honest and let ALL women/men know where you stand as a METROGAMOUS being and the choice is STILL THEIRS to 'tag along'. . .
HOW CAN THAT BE CALLED CHEATING?

If a woman already knows her husband is seeing other women. . .IS THAT CHEATING?
You only find CHEATS in the WESTERN WORLD that claim to aspire to 'monogamous' relationships.
THERE ARE NO CHEATS IN AFRICA. . . .since MOST CHILDREN WERE BORN IN POLYGAMY!
It is in the genes!Please. . . deal with it or DIE SINGLE!

Cheating is an evil human nature and not gender biased.

If all men cheat, then it means all women cheat too.

To answer your question, not all men cheat.

freshdude2:
This is an unnecessary and jaundiced view on the comment you allude to. Bennyrazz asked a totally logical question and followed it with another logical statement. Our history is replete with children and wives crawling out of the woodwork after a man dies to claim consanguinity. Your comment is more injurios to this thread than Benny's. One could assume you're projecting. And, if not, there's absolutely no need to be solipsistic.

there are so many cases like that in court which aisha2 knows, but she just wants to be an Advocate of non-cheating men this evening.

NAIRALAND. . .please stop deceiving yourselves.
Hear the REAL NIGERIANS TALKING!
Deal with it jare!
Even Oritsejafor nor faithful!

If you nor wan do. . .comot!

Diariss only 2 type of bytches in relationships. . . for men and women EQUALLY!

[size=20pt]MAIN BYTCH VS SIDE BYTCH[/size]. . . either way. . . you nor go belle full!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VbdpO8hs2Yk


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UFXqHwQK8Tw

Kanwulia:
Is exercising 'free will' cheating?
Cheating is when you lie and hide your agenda by deception.
If you are honest and let ALL women/men know where you stand as a METROGAMOUS being and the choice is STILL THEIRS to 'tag along'. . .
HOW CAN THAT BE CALLED CHEATING?

If a woman already knows her husband is seeing other women. . .IS THAT CHEATING?
You only find CHEATS in the WESTERN WORLD that claim to aspire to 'monogamous' relationships.
THERE ARE NO CHEATS IN AFRICA. . . .since MOST CHILDREN WERE BORN IN POLYGAMY!
It is in the genes!Please. . . deal with it or DIE SINGLE!

Bwahahahahahahaha

Are you that Edo chic that lives in America, from the politics section (I can't remember the handle)?

You're a LEGEND!

.

SirShymex:


Bwahahahahahahaha

Are you that Edo chic that lives in America, from the politics section (I can't remember the handle)?

You're a LEGEND!

.

The one and only!
I have defeated all my 'bannable h-enemies'!
Dem don taya oooooooooooo. . . .

bellong:
Cheating is an evil human nature and not gender biased.

If all men cheat, then it means all women cheat too.

To answer your question, not all men cheat.

You're a G!!

Naija women should be the last to talk about cheating when a large percentage of them have illegitimate children.

Where is that research paper again? - someone please post the thread!

Kanwulia:


The one and only!
I have defeated all my 'bannable h-enemies'!
Dem don taya oooooooooooo. . . .

Bwahahahahaha

Nairaland legend - salute!!!!

SirShymex:


Bwahahahahaha

Nairaland legend - salute!!!!

Tank you!

SirShymex:


You're a G!!

Naija women should be the last to talk about cheating when a large percentage of them have illegitimate children.

Where is that research paper again? - someone please post the thread!

Agbaya

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RbM0QXErw-c