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| Who Do I Pick? by osanowo: 7:51am On Nov 16, 2008 |
I am 28yrs working in a blue chip company. Have a son outside wedlock from a girl I’ve dated for over [b]8[/b]yrs (both of them not in 9ja now). Now I am in sure love with a colleague ([b]23[/b]yrs old) that we can’t do without seeing each other a day and she is engaged to a [b]MAN (not in 9ja too). I know she loves me. Both partners would be in town soon. Please render some advice for I am so confused.[/b] |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by tmoney11(m): 8:02am On Nov 16, 2008 |
you are not ok with the thread |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by sexyLeamon(f): 8:07am On Nov 16, 2008 |
@poster please be clear, I do not understand |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by igwe11(m): 8:34am On Nov 16, 2008 |
osanowo:Why an engaged sisi nawn? where is the mother of your son? why are you trying to extend your frustration to another fellow? please get back to the mother of your kid and leave the poor girl alone b/4 you complicate her life. Learn to respect another person's relationship for yours to be respected in future. Am pretty sure that this is the same way you fell in love with the mother of your kid. my2cent |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by toiletRol: 8:42am On Nov 16, 2008 |
Your problem is long throat, because if it is not long throat, what happens if you see another lady better than the office colleague? You leave her and come here again to ask us for advice? What if you are already married? Will you still keep your wife and then have eyes on other women? Common - stick to your lady, be focused with her and have a blissful married life with her. 1 Like |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by omuanp(m): 12:41pm On Nov 16, 2008 |
guy do whats right for u. wait for the mother of ur child, if at sight u still love her then marry her. |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by MrCrackles(m): 12:46pm On Nov 16, 2008 |
osanowo: Dont kid yourself, you know this is a purely fabricated piece of nonsense! |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by plappville(f): 5:56pm On Nov 16, 2008 |
igwe 1: You too sabi, who give u the sense to talk to the dudu like this? !!!!!) Well nice advice from you there, he should leave the girl alone and continue with his son's mother period. love qouter  |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by omega25red(m): 4:46am On Nov 17, 2008 |
there is a saying "out of sight out of mind" if you are in love with someone else dont you think this would be the right time to come clean before everyone comes over? As for the engaged girl she is probably using you for her last hurra before she gets married (guys do it too) so either break up with your lady and have her break up with her man or quit your job and never see that girl again(at least thats one thing you can do) you have set your self up for a lot of trouble down the line |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by iice(f): 4:51am On Nov 17, 2008 |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by OscarJ1(m): 9:19am On Nov 17, 2008 |
common guy reason well u cant be confused like u claim,believe me u two are not in love but in lust. My advise is dont just break someones heart here o! do u want to snacth this girl that is engaged to be married and still leave her later wen u see someone perharps beta. my 2cents. |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by Jodesky(m): 9:41am On Nov 17, 2008 |
Go ahead, propose to both of them. If they agree marry both of them, otherwise marry the one that agrees. You obviously don't love either of them. Shikena! |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by kaysy(m): 9:53am On Nov 17, 2008 |
@ poster ur story is a very interesting 1, well if i were u i'l go on dating dis one i already have here then if her spouse returns fisrt i stop and keep waiting for my girl but if my spouse returns first then she stopa and keep waiting for her man. cos no one knows tomorrow, both spouses of urs may return with different choices entirely. so it's beta u take it and let nature have its way ok? wat's gonna be is gonna be, u neva can tell  |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by Nobody: 10:01am On Nov 17, 2008 |
igwe 1: Well, I'll advise him to follow his heart . . . Just because a woman is the mother of his love child dosent mean he should spend the rest of his life with her. I assume the lady in question wont want a man marrying her out of pity than out of love. As for his new found love . . she's engaged, not married!! So she still has time to choose who she really wants to be with, and if its this guy, then Goodluck to them!! But poster you have to be really sure about what you want oh. They say out of sight is out of mind. The feeling you have for this other girl might just be temporal, probably because your GF's miles away. So maybe you shouldnt be in such a hurry to make a decision. MrCrackles: Why is this one ranting na  Even if its fabricated, it's a nice topic for discussion, so |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by kaysy(m): 10:41am On Nov 17, 2008 |
@ Ujujoan away from discussions, baby plz can i get to meet u? tink am loving more in nairaland and wana be ur frnd, plz i've checked ur profile and no trace, plz i'l want u to check mine and contact me ok? I swear am loving you more & more miss ya!!  |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by Nautillus(m): 12:33pm On Nov 17, 2008 |
lol . . .You are one very greedy dawg dude |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by igwe11(m): 2:31pm On Nov 17, 2008 |
Ujujoan:As much as agree with you needs do I also remind you that this guy dated the mother of his son for 8 years until she traveled out of the country. There some things we should learn to live with else we men will be marring every 2-2 years.  why do you think men cheat? wanting to explore his beautified environment |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Nov 17, 2008 |
igwe 1: You know this is the exact reason why men cheat - settling for someone they dont really love just because they dated them for a long time!! Maybe they stayed together that long because of the child. . . Maybe he was unhappy in the relationship . . . maybe if he had a choice he wouldnt have dated her in the first place Neways, I think the guy shoud listen to his heart, not his libido  |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by igwe11(m): 8:26pm On Nov 17, 2008 |
Ujujoan:Nevertheless, You and I know theres a great diff b/w love and lust, some people mistake the two atimes, from his post, the mother of his son is out of country, so we suggest he wait for her to come back first. thnx |
| Re: Who Do I Pick? by Aoeke: 6:21pm On May 27, 2015 |
The question is who do you love? Think deeply about this. Do u love the new girl because she's more accessible to you? if she loves you why hasn't she broken up her engagement? |
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