brownlord:
The fact that you foolishly gave a bltch a gift you pay for a period of 1 year makes you not just foolish but mentally unstable, I can bet mylife this idiat won't do same his sibling maybe to pay school fees or if her mom asked that amount.

Well to all those advising you to get back the phone, I dint read in the writeup that the girl was putting a gun on your head, you gave her at will so deal with it. My policy, never give anyone ( babe ) what you can't easily let go.

boxer022:
My Brother I feel your pain and the truth of the whole matter is that she never loved you for a single day. She xame because to her you have cash and she came for it. She wanted to have broken up with you but as you promised her the phone, she ceased the advantage to still play one more game before dumping you. She was double dating and found out that she prefers that other guy to you. You fulfilled your promise to her and she felt there was no other need keeping you around then she decided to brake up with you 2 days after you fulfilled your promise. I advice you forget about the phone and also forget about her and also move on with your life. Remove her contact from both your phone list and also your BBM. Take heart my brother.

brixton:


Not true, wrote em when u started with "it's none of my business"... Don't tolerate pipo but learn to respect people

justphillips:


bros i been no wan' comment, but your post got me rolling on the floor, infact....


1,000,000,000,000,000 likes

charlesopp:



Like ta profile pix..

Can I knw u

jidestroud:
Thanks all, Learnt the hard way.
I can't change being me. (CHANGING INTO A MONSTER GUY WOULD DO ME NO GOOD)
WHEN LOVE COMES, I WILL WELCOME IT WHOLE HEARTILY....
BUT FOR NOW? DON'T SEE THAT HAPPENING SOON

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

Krystalxxx:


I knew your question was a veiled insult so of course I replied how it'll satisfy you best

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

Krystalxxx:
Good good! Haven't you jilted some girls before and left them with nothing only to go back laughing with your buddies? Enjoy a taste of your own medicine. Guys should get a taste of what they give. Smart girl

jidestroud:
Thanks all, Learnt the hard way.
[/b] “Sometimes the hardest part isn't letting go but rather learning to start over.”

[b]DECIDED TO LET GO THE PHONE AND START OVER AGAIN.
Thought about it, it's just a phone after all. The real pain was never the PHONE, BUT THE HEARTBREAK (SEEING HER GO)
SHE WAS INDEED THE FUTURE I DEEM FIT.

I can't change being me. (CHANGING INTO A MONSTER GUY WOULD DO ME NO GOOD)
WHEN LOVE COMES, I WILL WELCOME IT WHOLE HEARTILY....
BUT FOR NOW? DON'T SEE THAT HAPPENING SOON

brixton:


E don do Krystal and yes nice to meet u

Sunshinelady:
. Lol, true sha. Wen guys are mean to girls dey use it as beer parlour gist wit their buddies. But wen d reverse is d case dey call d girl wicked. D girl smart sha

gede7744:
some post on this forum heeennn......

l don't want to be insultive sha


next time buy her a plot of land in d outskirt of town and will it to her after u are married

130k for phone......... is ur love for sale?

pansophist:
OP

Booking an appointment to collect your phone is risky in some way. She might be smart and detect that you wanna collect your phone, naija girls smart.

Also, even if the appointment is succesful and you retrieved your phone back, what about the charger? chances are it will be at her house, what about other accessories that comes with a phone of such price?

Besides, what about the carton abi na phone pack? what about the nylon used in wrapping the phone? earphone and even chewing gum that came with it?

The girl is quite lucky that you are not a mad man (I guess) like me, Infact na that day wey she talk say she no do again I go follow am go her house go retrieve my property.

In my opinion, you should go to her house peacefully and ask for your phone back. There is no shame there, its your property. Anybody wey hear the matter sef go de against her.

If you didnt not retrieve your phone back, then you are a big f.oool in my book and her book of course.

Do the needful, go and get your phone jare.

dammytosh:


This is very very harsh but then it is simply the truth.

I share that policy in bold with you. Infact for me to have given her a gift no matter the price, that means i can let that gift go for any one else.

Love can not be bought. It is high time guys start reasoning like this

Krystalxxx:
Good good! Haven't you jilted some girls before and left them with nothing only to go back laughing with your buddies? Enjoy a taste of your own medicine. Guys should get a taste of what they give. Smart girl

Sanjayzworld:


Am not a Dr tho' but from what I learnt in science, its an abnormal situation in the eye, medical operation can correct it if you 'got the money but my point is that you shouldn't think less of yourself, whatever any one with normal sight can do you can do better, friends can mock or laugh at you, let them do it just don't be a lazyman, be hardwork, ensure that you excell in your chosen career and you will be the one helping or even employing those that are laughing at you now. Goodluck!