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Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by bennyrazz: 12:02pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
I really don't know why people get married without keeping their marital vows. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by kandiikane(m): 1:37pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Stillfire:I agree with this. It's sad really. |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by kandiikane(m): 1:56pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
babestell:hmmmmmmmmmmm! Madam cut the time you spend with the married man. You might not have any ill thoughts but if things come sour between him and wife na you go become the rebound bytch he go dey take phuck. Na so e dey begin, "we are really good friends but he didn't tell his wife about me. The wife and I, she knows now, we cool." 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 2:35pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
peggykorol: take it or leave it my husband has never cheated on me and so are many men out there. back to op, before my wedding I made up my mind that my marriage must work and for that to happen I will have to use his bad characters as cream ( u can't see cream again after rubbing it) and to use his good characters as my clothing. my dear marriage is not bed of roses but remember u are what u make ur marriage . Though it looks men are the head of the marriage, but in real sense God has handed the marriage in the hands of women that is y He said the wise woman builds her home why the foolish woman uses her hands to destroy hers. Also remember men hate nagging women the bible says it is better to live under a licking roof than to live with a nagging woman. Pls @ Op stop questioning him, my father has more men than women so i know what i'm saying. this is Africa and not the Western world. pls save marriage and do whatever godly is possible. You do ur part as the good wife not unto him but unto God who judges all things and weighs all actions. I know it is not easy, but the grace of God is made available. Wish u the best. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by Nobody: 2:40pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Go get your own secret male friend you will chat with 24/7 simple 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by Nobody: 2:52pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
cherryice: nawa 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by babestell(f): 3:42pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
kandiikane: Never fear, am not the kind of gal who does married men plus the married man in question is not the type to cheat (yes there are men like that out there). But your point is very valid and noted. |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by beeevan: 5:14pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac: This advice has infected so many innocent women with HIV. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by beeevan: 5:18pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
ALL WOMEN's Husband is no husband to count on, threatening divorce? Why didn't you tell him to go right ahead? If you don't have a job, is time to get one, maintain your contraceptives and don't get pregnant until you know who you married. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by kandiikane(m): 5:33pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac: Madam you go suffer for your marriage oo. She should just continue to make her marriage work even if the man brings women in her marital bed? Anyhow Shaa, it is good you have already accepted this, maybe, your children will be a better source of happiness to you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 5:38pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
beeevan: so what kind of advice will u give so that many innocent women will not be infected with HIV? |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 5:38pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
beeevan: |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 5:50pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
kandiikane: I will never suffer in my marriage coz mine is built on the solid rock that can never be moved. You won't understand. Funny enough my marriage is 6years and some months. I have never had any reason to doubt my husband. Our family account is in my name and I am the sole signatory he only has the alert. Can u do that? I know u can't coz u feel u're wise. We are still trusting God for the fruit of the womb, but u know what? My 12yrs old son stays with us and bears his name. Everyone calls him my son's name. And he loves the boy as if is his. You see I could never had gotten a better gift after my salvation from God. I know u can never understand becoz u don't have such heart. I've paid a big sacrifice in my marriage that my friends, families, in-laws and people like u think I charmed him. you must pay a price for anything u desire. be it good or bad. let me stop here for now. Smiles 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by kandiikane(m): 5:58pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac:well good on you and I am genuinely happy for you but what you initially implied is that one should just manage with a cheating husband? Please correct me if I am wrong. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 6:15pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
kandiikane: you are wrong. I was only trying to let her know the divorce is never an option. she should work harder for her marriage to work. there is one thing u have to know about men, they love to be cared for and pampered they are like children. a little of this will sweep the man off his feet. it takes only the grace of God for men not to cheat. as u can see, this man cheats and doesn't even respect his wife, he flaunts his cheating why is that so, becoz the other girl probably does what the wife doesn't. instead of complaining and nagging see how u can be more sweet to ur husband. when last did u send sweet text messages to him I.e "Honey are u coming home soon, I'm missing u" " I love u, can't live without u" and stuffs like that. How do u show ur appreciations. this is the secret of the other girl that makes the man go wild. You need more? |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by Godmystrength: 6:23pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac:is that it?? You think all these can stop a cheat from cheating?? 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 6:25pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Godmystrength: Read and understand dear. I said PROBABLY. I also said "it takes the grace of God for any man not to cheat" but with all these there is the probability of the potential cheat to respect his wife and hide it from her |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by Godmystrength: 6:29pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac:Yes you said probably but what about this?? benedictac:.. Besides, you should also read and understand too dear... I asked if all you mentioned is enough to stop a cheat from cheating... simple |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by Godmystrength: 6:30pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac:you are just saying this now. it wasn't in your initial post... |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 6:35pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Godmystrength: and I also said it takes the grace of God for any man not to cheat, and no it is not enough to stop him from cheating but will make the man respect and know he has a wife. The only one that can make any man not to cheat is genuinely having Jesus in his life. |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 6:38pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Godmystrength: well, we read and interpret in different ways. |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by beeevan: 6:41pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac: Any advice that doesn't involve them holding the lanterns or serving chilled water while their husbands bang whor*es on their matrimonial beds . 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 6:42pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
beeevan: give us one |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by beeevan: 6:47pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac: You have it all figured out your way, so why do you need my advice?if your way works for you, that's all that matters. I gave OP my opinion, the type that doesn't involve her holding lantern, you can read it up if you care to . 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by beeevan: 6:50pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac: If a man has chosen to cheat, giving up your life for his sake won't stop him. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by beeevan: 6:52pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac: So the fact that a philanderer hides it from his wife means he respects her? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by beeevan: 6:57pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac: Even bible did not rule out divorce completely, do you know more than God?Why does it take the grace of God for a man not to cheat but not a woman, are their no cheating women in the bible? When the bible said to a man in proverbs " A prostitute may cost you a loaf of bread but a man's wife will cost you your Life", doesn't that tell you that it takes the grace of God for a married woman not to cheat too? Haven't you heard of the biblical adulterous woman? Do you know that God abandons unfaithful husbands? " you cry Out," why has the Lord abandoned Us?" i ll tell you why! Because the Lord witnessed vows you and your wife made to each other on your wedding day when you were young. But you have been disloyal to her, though she remained your faithful companion, the wife of your marriage vows. Didn't the Lord make you one with your wife? In body and spirit you are his. And what does he want? Godly children from your union. So guard yourself, remain loyal to the wife of your youth"(Malachi 2:13-15). 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by bukatyne(f): 7:18pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Cutehector4u: Hmmm 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by Godmystrength: 7:22pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac:of what use is the respect i get from a man cheating on me? it's a pity |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by babestell(f): 7:22pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Olorimadam first off your husband is not cheating. At least not yet. If he were cheating. You wouldn't know because he would hide it totally. You won't even know when he is texting her. Don't waste your energy over a friendship that may soon die off. Rather channel it to building a friendship and relationship with your husband. |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by bukatyne(f): 7:29pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
benedictac: I like your post and that is how it should be normally BUT I would never advice sweet sweet for a cheating/abusive spouse. It is very easy to sacrifice and make the home beautiful if it already so or if both parties are willing to make it work. You will agree with me that you will bend and be more accepting to a loving/non cheating hubby than a cheating one and vice versa. God be with you |
Re: My Husband Refuses To Tell Me About His Secret "Woman" Friend by benedictac(f): 7:31pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
beeevan: that is ur own understanding and opinion |
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