Naijarazzing:
some women are responsible for the men becoming animals...u no think so?

webdezzi:

that does not count,
if u want to show you are a man, match up with a man like you.

i see that potential in you based on your comment.

webdezzi:

that does not count,
if u want to show you are a man, match up with a man like you.

i see that potential in you based on your comment.

freecocoa:
It's bad but physical assault is worse, I've never heard that someone died from being verbally abused but people die everyday from physical assault.

A woman called you a useless/hopeless ediot, your retaliation is to headbutt and strangle her? If you must descend to her level, why not call her an ediot as well, walk away and then try to talk about it later?

Not in any way saying it's okay for anyone(especially women)to be verbally abusive but believe me, verbal abuse can be controlled but anyone who goes physical, is a danger to others, I do know how it feels to be really angry but I believe anger can be managed, I'm particular about physical abuse because I know that people who go physical to the point that they almost kill their victim, are usually bullies, they feel they can beat their victim up so they do so.

If you are with a woman who makes it a point of duty to verbally abuse you always which you claim is the reason why you hit her, then that's your problem because you chose to remain in that situation and you should most certainly pay the price for your actions/inactions.

2legit2qwt:


I call Bullsh1t to that. Again, you talk about a man being REAL and then use a ludicrous example of how a woman attacks a man and the man is suddenly REAL because he didn't strike back.

Based on your standard and the media, when a woman molests a man, there are excuses for her action, "oh she ended up looking silly," "she must be on her period," "maybe he cheated on her sis." Worse still, we hail the man and totally excuse the woman; However, when a man molests a woman, he's a beast and deserves to rot in jail. If JayZ had responded, he would've been a fake man right?

I'm willing to place a bet the term "REAL man" probably started from some women group who feel a man has to live to their "standard" to be real and some gullible man fall for this tripe. The standard they can manipulate to their advantage as they deem fit like how Jay Z is a REAL man for not responding to Solange right.

Nothing like REAL men, all men are real and how we respond to situations are different because our experience and circumstances are different.

xtervaganza:
while I'll admit you made some point, your post is still hypocritical and lopsided to favor your arguments


You said you have never heard anyone died of verbal abuse

Naijarazzing:
Naija Celebs, Waje And Ikechukwu React To Lady Jay's Beating (photos)

[img]http://3.bp..com/-GpSMgNbxPoY/VFEY4048mAI/AAAAAAAACGU/DppJaZb4SoY/s1600/IMG_20141029_072535.JPG[/img]

It is no news that Ghana Singer Lady Jay was severely injured when her Manager Talal Sangari, head butted her in a fight over money. The head butt was dangerous and she had to be admitted in the Military hospital in Ghana. The pictures which have since gone viral and have made the manager go into hiding are very pathetic and gruelsome. Despite the fact that Lady Jay is not well known in Nigeria, Naija Celebs including Waje (who was really angry) and Ikechukwu (lol even Ikechukwu wey use karate finish D banj when they fight?),

http://www..com/2014/10/naija-celebs-and-fans-react-with-anger.html

Adufetohposh:
Some men and their devil's temper! It's only a weakling and a premature man that brings himself low to hit a woman.... he can always walk away if he can't take d heat.

jojotemitopaz:
thank you o
Some women are naturally abusive, just the way some men are...so a non abusive man hooks up with an abusive woman n sge continally abuses him emotionally and otherwise n u expect him not to react...some women deserve thousand slapps once awhlile else thier wing would only continue to grow. Trust me the only thing that can corrct some women are very nice sudden slaps. Just one or two when shes grown some wrong wings. Imagine a woman locking her child out 11 pm cuz she was angry with tje father, came out, brought out all his certificates and burnt them allll...waec, uni, etc... seriously wud u just walk away

luvlyqueen:

wat is dis one blabbing abt??

xtervaganza:
while I'll admit you made some point, your post is still hypocritical and lopsided to favor your arguments


You said you have never heard anyone died of verbal abuse? Are you serious or just joking? People die everyday of verbal abuse. Some fall into depression while others just commit suicide .



And another hypocritical side of your post; you said the guy should have tongue lashed her too (if verbal abuse was his reason for hitting her). Now wait, the lady attacked him with what she's good at and the guy knowing he would end up losing blabbing with her attacked her too in his own area of strength. So looking at it from that neutral angle I'll say it's deuces (not that I condone violence against women. Never involved in it)



And you said if a man decides to stay with a woman that verbally attacks him regularly then it's his fault for not ditching the woman. Now I say women who stay with men who hit them deserve what they get too. They should leave the man or shut up and put up with him


Like i said earlier, I'm not into hitting women. I love food and Playstation much more than women so whenever you come up with your usual tantrums I just leave to let off the steam. Return to my food and ps3.



Moral of my long tori - women should know when to shut up. You don't hound a man with insults and all say and not expect him to lose it at some point


Men too should stop making an @rse of themselves by hitting women. It's not worth it at all

Samadict:
Hmmm... there are better ways to get a message into a lady's head. Ignoring her at the time whatever annoyed you happened and not showing interest in issues that has to do with her would have done the trick. Mind spanking goes a long way than physical beating when it has to do with a lady.

freecocoa:
My bad for not making it clear what I meant by people not dying from verbal abuse, I actually meant that, no one dies immediately he is verbally abused but people die on the spot from physical assault. Please note that I'm not in anyway an advocate of any form of abuse.


So now men no longer talk when a woman is talking? Who is to say the man wasn't tongue lashing her as well? Men who hit women also use their mouths and this I have witnessed, so you can't tell me his fist is his strength while her mouth is hers, na from quarrel fight dey take enter.

Ofcourse that's my take on the issue too, I blame women who stick with abusive men, the have the option to up and leave. If the said lady jay still sticks with her manager after this, then whatever she gets, she had coming.

Men also talk, so let's not make it seem like while the woman was talking, the man just stood there and when he couldn't take it anymore, he tried to strangle her.

iamrealdeji:

And wonder where you'd hit,do you know what you'd do my brother,if you don't know where to hit and don't want to cause injury,just get a pin into your wallet,any time a bad mouthed girl offends you,just forget the pin on her butt cheek

Boss13:


Only a mad man engages a woman to exchange words. Na market una dey? Men don't have to energy to talk for 2 hours non-stop and repeat the same thing all over again. Women should respect themselves. I am not advocating for assault on women but a little keep quiet slap will do.

freecocoa:
My bad for not making it clear what I meant by people not dying from verbal abuse, I actually meant that, no one dies immediately he is verbally abused but people die on the spot from physical assault. Please note that I'm not in anyway an advocate of any form of abuse.


So now men no longer talk when a woman is talking? Who is to say the man wasn't tongue lashing her as well? Men who hit women also use their mouths and this I have witnessed, so you can't tell me his fist is his strength while her mouth is hers, na from quarrel fight dey take enter.

Ofcourse that's my take on the issue too, I blame women who stick with abusive men, the have the option to up and leave. If the said lady jay still sticks with her manager after this, then whatever she gets, she had coming.

Men also talk, so let's not make it seem like while the woman was talking, the man just stood there and when he couldn't take it anymore, he tried to strangle her.

xtervaganza:
lol......men talk too. They do and some men(like me) even beat women in their mouth yabbing game.



But women hit men too, right? It's not as if you have not seen/heard women physically attacking their men. It happens too



Anyway sha, lady Jay don jam am and oga manager don run


So make we leave der matter for dem

delors:
But why are Ghanaians like this? First it was that crackheaded BBA guy (forgot his yeye name sef) physically assaulting a slim housemate on a global stage. Now, this one. Ghana bread (sorry, men) have zero respect for their ladies....as in zero. Dudu brained chunk of expired meat dem! Sorry jare fine girl...next time, roll with real men, roll with Naija dude...ask Nadia Buhari

freecocoa:
Ofcourse any woman who hits first asked for it, but knowing where to draw the line if you must hit back, is what determines where to categorize a person.

xtervaganza:
yeah I agree with u




Anyways....there is more to this life than spending the little time we have with people who are not worth it.



More lives would be saved and more positive air will flow if we only spend our time we people who understand us

Adufetohposh:
Some men and their devil's temper! It's only a weakling and a premature man that brings himself low to hit a woman.... he can always walk away if he can't take d heat.

2legit2qwt:


How's that? I take that to be a joke.


@ post

I would say attack only if someone attacks you and you feel threatened with no way to escape, man or woman.

Any man or woman who sees violence as the only way to pass a message across is an animal.

hauwababy:


Nothing justifies a man beating up a women, no matter what she has done. A REAL MAN knows the best way to deal with a woman is to ignore her and walk away. Women are not human punching bags.

hauwababy:


Nothing justifies a man beating up a women, no matter what she has done. A REAL MAN knows the best way to deal with a woman is to ignore her and walk away. Women are not human punching bags.