bennyrazz:
it sure wouldn't be naija. The Economy wouldn't allow it and even if it did, at a particular point you realise that been tied to a particular person at such age and stage will get boring. Men start being who they are at 25. From 25-35 that is the time they discover themselves, their philosophy about life in general.

well there seem to be so much pressure to discover oneself this days thats my point.young men of centuries back had little troubling their heads and minds.they knew by convention then that whatever ambition they had ought to set around getting married at a certain age.just as we do now.

parents of some young men those days married wives for their male children and by the time their son is leaving their house, they give him plots of land to farm on or whatever trade the family is into. It might be hunting, fishing, making herbs, drumming e.tc but you see these days Job security is the issue with most men. Some get married and they lose their jobs, business stops booming and for others conceiving becomes an issue. Marriage requires one party to be emotionally strong cuz for every marriage in this life, there's always red sea. How do you cross the red sea without the rod of moses in your hands?

troy20:

well there seem to be so much pressure to discover oneself this days thats my point.young men of centuries back had little troubling their heads and minds.they knew by convention then that whatever ambition they had ought to set around getting married at a certain age.just as we do now.

bennyrazz:
parents of some young men those days married wives for their male children and by the time their son is leaving their house, they give him plots of land to farm on or whatever trade the family is into. It might be hunting, fishing, making herbs, drumming e.tc but you see these days Job security is the issue with most men. Some get married and they lose their jobs, business stops booming and for others conceiving becomes an issue. Marriage requires one party to be emotionally strong cuz for every marriage in this life, there's always red sea. How do you cross the red sea without the rod of moses in your hands?

fair enough.but you cant compare the growth and maturity level of a 21year old over there with the ones here.they have more stable economy and government responsible for their welfare.

Poor things!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=penW7igxEvc

crystalflakes:
They look cool together but the question is"who is gonna act matured when the other is displaying signs of immaturity when the need arises"

My point exactly. It would have been better if the guy was a little older. That guy is still a child and I doubt if he'll be able to handle the challenges that will come his way a few years from now. Maturity might not be about age, but there are some wisdom that come with age and time alone

So what's the big deal...funny enough such type of marriages tend to last longer

Godmother:


My point exactly. It would have been better if the guy was a little older. That guy is still a child and I doubt if he'll be able to handle the challenges that will come his way a few years from now. Maturity might not be about age, but there are some wisdom that come with age and time alone

yeah

Once read a novel called cohen where they described a jewish tradition where a father marries for his son when he's 15 and the girl shd be btwn 12,13. Is this some version of it?

Bellasharonne:
hmmmn ... though age aint really a factor,maturity is and at times the level of ones maturity is judged on their age ... well if God wants it to last... it will

Its already lasting and you are tearing your panties..

What a romantic romanus. This is what I love. Sweety sweety. Honey honey tins.

FP tins on point!

Our ladies need to change orientation asap!

Kirinwa:


Its already lasting and you are tearing your panties..

What a romantic romanus. This is what I love. Sweety sweety. Honey honey tins.

FP tins on point!

Our ladies need to change orientation asap!

what's your definition of "lasting" and BTW ... am not wishing them ill...

R they musicians or actor n actress their case is rare in Africa, all d best to them children getting married wen their elders still dey

very cute jare


All those singing maturity, is age maturity? ? Those above 30 don't divorce or what??

There's a maturity that comes with age, especially for men. 27 and above is ideal for the gents. I'm very serious.