While drinking out with my wife-to be; we were handed some fliers about Ocean blue (strip club) in Ikeja. On our way home we went there but never got inside, my fiance said she wanted to see how it was and I told her we would visit some other time

Now im a bit hesitant, is it actually ok to take her there?

kini big deal

You might end up regretting the decision to take her there.  

Better still, instead of going to d strip club, ask her to do it there in ur bedroom Guess its better

ThoniaSlim:

You might end up regretting the decision to take her there.  

My fear excatly, but what are the risks?, what excatly do you think i might regret? do you think she might want to go there all d time, or is there something there might potentially catch her fancy

there is no biggie in taking her there.
u deff dont know the kinda places she been to alone.
its bera u take ehr there urself than she sneaks to findout.

Yes

And as long as you dont go dipping your hands into the stripper's jugs or the tiny frillies they put on or even tapping the buttcakes

You should both go back home, happy!!

Yes no

izeek:

there is no biggie in taking her there.
u deff don't know the kind of places she been to alone.
its bera u take ehr there yourself than she sneaks to findout.

MrCrackles:

Yes

And as long as you don't go dipping your hands into the stripper's jugs or the tiny frillies they put on or even tapping the buttcakes

You should both go back home, happy!!

Excatly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I cant understand why anyone would rather open themselves up to temptations.
Whatever you experience in a strip club as a man will definitely influence your mind. . .problably arouse you sexually.

If your wife had any brains, she'll never suggest you go there especially since you're not someone with that kind of disposition. She's opening you up to another world which may eventually wreck your relationship because you may end up getting into their groove and returning their for simple pleasures.
Addiction to anything starts with one trial

Come, what's this preoccupation with this Ocean Blue stripclub?
Seems there's an agent of theirs on Nairaland tryin to generate some publicity for it.
Even the Politics section is not spared.

Just Good

You spoke my mind

Bolarge:

Come, what's this preoccupation with this Ocean Blue stripclub?
Seems there's an agent of theirs on Nairaland tryin to generate some publicity for it.
Even the Politics section is not spared.

That might be the sole reason for this thread. B/c it is very unnatural for a girl to concur to an invitation to watch her dude glare at another babe-whether on stage or not. The average girl would want to be her man's only means of sexual arousal (if possible). A more convincing (less apparent) topic should have been chosen.

JustGood:

I can't understand why anyone would rather open themselves up to temptations.
Whatever you experience in a strip club as a man will definitely influence your mindproblably arouse you sexually.

If your wife had any brains, she'll never suggest you go there especially since you're not someone with that kind of disposition. She's opening you up to another world which may eventually wreck your relationship because you may end up getting into their groove and returning their for simple pleasures.
Addiction to anything starts with one trial

I like your point. Thanks

swoosh:

While drinking out with my wife-to be; we were handed some fliers about Ocean blue (strip club) in Ikeja. On our way home we went there but never got inside, my fiance said she wanted to see how it was and I told her we would visit some other time

Now I'm a bit hesitant, is it actually ok to take her there?

Take her there so that she can strip for them and always come back for more stripping.

Are you a rational person at all? , common sense should tell you that such act is dangerous to a relationship.

Pennywise:

That might be the sole reason for this thread. B/c it is very unnatural for a girl to concur to an invitation to watch her dude glare at another babe-whether on stage or not. The average girl would want to be her man's only means of sexual arousal (if possible). A more convincing (less apparent) topic should have been chosen.

alot of girls these days hav grown to accept the fact that men get aroused by other women too and r learning to feel secure that their men wont cheat if he is satisfied with his relationship. personally i enjoy checking out other girls with my BF. he'll do it anyways so why not join him and share d fun. . .

@ topic

it shd depend on the kind of girl she is. . . a prude person who wants to satisfy her curiosity will obsess and continuously suspect u r visiting such places after she sees what goes on in there. if she's pretty cool with such things then it'll all be harmless fun. u can see it as sumthin special u share with ur girl

HR.hotness:

alot of girls these days hav grown to accept the fact that men get aroused by other women too and r learning to feel secure that their men wont cheat if he is satisfied with his relationship. personally i enjoy checking out other girls with my boyfriend. he'll do it anyways so why not join him and share d fun. . .

@ topic

it should depend on the kind of girl she is. . . a prude person who wants to satisfy her curiosity will obsess and continuously suspect u r visiting such places after she sees what goes on in there. if she's pretty cool with such things then it'll all be harmless fun. u can see it as sumthin special u share with ur girl

A single act can re-write someone's destiny so be careful what you are looking for or curious about. CURIOSITY KILLS

THE CAT

HR.hotness:

alot of girls these days hav grown to accept the fact that men get aroused by other women too and r learning to feel secure that their men wont cheat if he is satisfied with his relationship. personally i enjoy checking out other girls with my boyfriend. he'll do it anyways so why not join him and share d fun. . .

Without sounding patronizing, that is the attitude of a gurl who knows she's got all it takes.But I hope you feel the same way when married with 2 kids. And u begin to battle the bulge

Cipriani:

A single act can re-write someone's destiny so be careful what you are looking for or curious about. CURIOSITY KILLS

THE CAT

thats why i say it depends on d kinda person she is. . . if she is used to hanging with d boys then i doubt if ther will be any major problems. but if she is d "good girl" type, then chances r she'll obsess about her husband being ther every night he comes home late

Pennywise:

Without sounding patronizing, that is the attitude of a gurl who knows she's got all it takes.But I hope you feel the same way when married with 2 kids. And u begin to battle the bulge

i've got all d bulges i'll ever hav right now, and i dont intend to let myself go whether i hav 2 or 20 kids. its all about knwing, loving and working with what u've got.

thing is, alot of woman just relax after getting married. . . they reckon they've gotten their man so they just sit back. truth is d real work starts after getting married, keeping a man requires way more work that getting one. . . any girl that understands this, will never have anything to worry about

HR.hotness:


thing is, alot of woman just relax after getting married. . . they reckon they've gotten their man so they just sit back. truth is d real work starts after getting married, keeping a man requires way more work that getting one. . . any girl that understands this, will never have anything to worry about

In order words, your man can look but he may not touch?

When he visits those places I mean?

Pennywise:

In order words, your man can look but he may not touch?

he can look but he will not need to touch becos he's got way better sitting right next to him

HR.hotness:

thats why i say it depends on d kind of person she is. . . if she is used to hanging with d boys then i doubt if ther will be any major problems. but if she is d "good girl" type, then chances r she'll obsess about her husband being ther every night he comes home late

answer this question, does the guy know her too well to trust her that she won't go astray after a visit? She herself is the only one that knows herself so well, which makes it impossible for the guy to vouch for her. Humans are very unreliable you know!!

HR.hotness:

he can look but he will not need to touch because he's got way better sitting right next to him

I agree with Hr. hotness.

My hubby is not one to go to strip clubs but I have dated men that like to go visit but only if i was with them.  It does not bother me.  Shit here in the states women walk around with less on a daily in the streets.

As long as his manliness only gets strong for me and only wet with me then look all you want.  I have no hiccups in knowing that he is with who he wants to and that I hold it down for him.

My only concern with your wife going is be sure she is not bi-sexual and not trying to warm you up to the idea of a party.

HR.hotness:

thats why i say it depends on d kind of person she is. . . if she is used to hanging with d boys then i doubt if ther will be any major problems. but if she is d "good girl" type, then chances r she'll obsess about her husband being ther every night he comes home late


i've got all d bulges i'll ever hav right now, and i don't intend to let myself go whether i hav 2 or 20 kids. its all about knwing, loving and working with what u've got.

thing is, alot of woman just relax after getting married. . . they reckon they've gotten their man so they just sit back. truth is d real work starts after getting married, keeping a man requires way more work that getting one. . . any girl that understands this, will never have anything to worry about

I agree completely
Infact i agree with everything you've said so far

Is It Ok To Take Your Wife To A Strip Club?

depends on the kind of woman

sistawoman:


My only concern with your wife going is be sure she is not bi-sexual and not trying to warm you up to the idea of a party.

Sisterwoman, no nigerian dude I know will complain about a 3some provided the other party is female.

Pennywise:

Sisterwoman, no nigerian dude I know will complain about a 3some provided the other party is female.

Not with his wife.

He would have no problem with his girlfriend but not wifey.

why the hell not? whatever floats your boat.

Hey, as crazy as it my sound, I don't think there is anything wrong with it.
I've been there before with my husband, it's really fun, matter of fact, it sets you in the mood
We used to live close to one that's always packed at night. We wondered what the inside was like,
So we checked it out OMG.
The cigaret wasn't fun, but we had a couple of drinks, actually put some money in pants"LOL".
We both enjoyed it

dats what i call tourism, simply exciting n adventurous. its is de spice of life