MzPreshie:
Since when did dating a girl that has dated a Nairalander become an issue? Before it was a girl who had dated a friend, a cousin, a brother and now a Nairalander too? Na wah oo.
Anyways, it doesn't matter if all ex's are Nairalanders. Like you said, it could be they didn't recognise the qualities you see in her. One man's honey is another's rat poison, you know.

moneyhungry:
Lol.
Another godly story...

creamydude:
it's real. Not fiction. Or imagine if you were in my shoes, how would you handle it?

tpia6:
what if the nl male has dated 5 or more nl females? In that case, he (or you) shouldnt be complaining at all.

i mean, i dont know how you people verify yourselves/your genders here, but i guess you do it somehow.

moneyhungry:

You should look at things the way they are.
I think you're falling in love with a bi-tch and that's bad, toughen up.

creamydude:
It's one of the disadvantage on the female folks, sadly.

I have always liked her and respect her views on all counts. She is straight forward and stand for the truth at all times, never biased.

I had already liked her even before seeing her pic. She is beautiful and she got the hights as well, light skinned.

But the problem is I know someone she dated outside here (she isn't aware he is a nairalander and it's a long story anyway) and it was a fling kinda affair. Sadly, she had another one with another nairalander on here which seem to have ended with a sour taste from the look of things. They hooked up when RedBenson created the hook up thread. That was when I saw her pic.

It seems like the men only come into her life just because of what they see. However, she does not seem to care about that either according to her reply to a guy today who was genuinely trying to correct her notion.

Though a guy tried to 'fight' the dude who was trying to correct her notion, the question is, would he marry such woman who boast of sleeping with men? Date, that's sure one but would he pat his sister on the back and say well done?

I presumed he is likely one of those who just sleep with girls as fun thing.

She is an independent woman which I respect.

But there are certain things we need to consider in our lives.

Women ought to be careful because a man who could really mean well for you might not be in a hurry but closely watching from afar. However, the ones who want to your body would rush you like bees to honey.

As much as I like this lady, it's gonna be hard to even let her know my toughts towards her because aside the men she is been with, she is an awesome person. Could it be that these men don't see her inner qualities like I do?

Would you date/marry a nairaland lady who has been with 2 nairalanders and you are aware?

Teespice:
your only concern here is because she has had flings with previous Nairalanders not because you truly like her because if you do, her past experience is what it is, the PAST.

you are only concerned about your reputation on nl because the lady in question has had flings, going by your original post. you are bothered because you feel people will castigate you for having something to do with a "bitchhh" as someone had already called her.

in my opinion, you are tad selfish. it is your reputation here you are bothered about. biko leave her because if you decide to be in a relationship with her, you will only end up thinking about the Nairalanders she has slept with and how they will gloat about their experiences with her. you will only end up terminating it and leaving her heartbroken.

striktlymi:
I can go on dates with any lady but I cannot commit to a relationship with a lady who has slept with a friend.

If the nairalander is my friend and I know he has slept with the female, then I may still go out on a date with her but committing to her would be a negative.

Okijajuju1:



[b]The Long and short of it is that the OP should stop living life on Nairaland..

Lemme guess what he thinks would happen: He would take her out on a date in the Food section and they would meet her ex-flings and lovers there..




These Niggas never cease to amuse me..

Okija Juju.. _{The Gods are Wise}

adedayourt:
When you love a lady

All her fault nd short-comings vanish b4 u
You don't remba her past
And she seem like d best outa d best


But when a guy is not sure what he feels bout a lady...

He starts seeing things like oda nairalander she has dated

Teespice:
your only concern here is because she has had flings with previous Nairalanders not because you truly like her because if you do, her past experience is what it is, the PAST.

you are only concerned about your reputation on nl because the lady in question has had flings, going by your original post. you are bothered because you feel people will castigate you for having something to do with a "bitchhh" as someone had already called her.

in my opinion, you are tad selfish. it is your reputation here you are bothered about. biko leave her because if you decide to be in a relationship with her, you will only end up thinking about the Nairalanders she has slept with and how they will gloat about their experiences with her. you will only end up terminating it and leaving her heartbroken.