I dont really know where to start but. Actually my g/friend lives in a place where the landlords' Son is looking for means of having her in bed by all means , and she is the very easy going type who can play with any body , though they do eat together at times and chat. But she actually makes me understand that even though they may be eating or chatting. there is nothing going on between them,. Now the issue is am about to travel out of the country and I am scared the unexpected might happen. I need advise on what to do as I would be leaving before end of March next year. She is someone who has really stood by me and id love to make her my wife.but she is not yet aware that am travelling. please let me get your views. CIAO

YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE AFRAID, DOES SHE REALLY LOVES U?

IF U KNOW THAT,I MEAN VERY SURE THAT SHE LOVES U, THERE IS NO CAUSE FOR AN ALARM, DON'T TELL HER YET ABOUT UR TRAVELLING UNTILL U ARE DONE.

UNLESS SHE DOES NOT TRUST U, THAT WILL MAKE HER , U NO

BUT IF U BOTH LOVE URSELVES, SHE WILL NOT MESS UP.

I MEAN REALLY LOVE, NO BE FAKEOOO, IF NOT U GO COME MEET AM WITH BELE

theres nuthin u can do bruv, let it go and what will be will be

@poster, there is nothing you can really do for now. Anything can happen, nothing is sure especally when it comes to marrying someone you love until , both of you are definitely married. Dont lay all your eggs in her basket yet, until you are back from your trip and see how far your girlfriend and her landlord's son have built up their relationship from eating together and chatting up

there is no Serious commitment yet between the both of u, AND u are scared she might fall for her landlord son when u will be away why?? Do u know what u may come across in ur destination?? If u are hiding ur journey from her for some reasons best known to u GOOD, but don't be scared for her. time will decide for itself. If u really love her u can marry her befor travelling, i mean paying her bride price won't cost u anything if money is the issue.

How many boys don travel leave their girlfriend and end up been the heart breaker hope u wont ve one of them.

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I don't really know where to start but. Actually my g/friend lives in a place where the landlords' Son is looking for means of having her in bed by all means , and she is the very easy going type who can play with any body , though they do eat together at times and chat. But she actually makes me understand that even though they may be eating or chatting. there is nothing going on between them,. Now the issue is am about to travel out of the country and I am scared the unexpected might happen. I need advise on what to do as I would be leaving before end of March next year. She is someone who has really stood by me and id love to make her my wife.but she is not yet aware that am travelling. please let me get your views. CIAO

Look here bro'. I'll have to be brutally honest here. Forget this girl for now and concentrate on your future. You haven't even left the country yet and they are already eating and chatting together? What's next? sleeping side by side? Concentrate on your trip and focus on your future, deal with her based on the cards she put on the table. Let her make a decision on what's best for her. Putting pressure on her makes things even worse. women are like 2 positive ends of a magnet, the more pressure you put, the more they pull away. No doubt, once you leave the country the fate of your relationship is cloudy but not neccassarilly over. Focus on your future and she will even dig you more for setting your priorities straight. Goodluck babyboy.

DFACT:

YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE AFRAID, DOES SHE REALLY LOVES U?
BUT IF U BOTH LOVE URSELVES, SHE WILL NOT MESS UP.

He has every reason to be afraid but the sad thing is
. . . .there's nuffin he can do but let go and take whatever happens.
Plus, Love doesn't guaranty faithfulness.

Live can be like that most times, Just keep her close to ur heart and plead with her not to do an undo if possible conduct a sharp wedding to take to ur parent to look after for, may a maximum secrity can come from there.