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[b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 2:28pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Hi, I masturbate a lot like four to five times in a day, majority of my internet subscription is spent on porn sites; and I also have a drinking problem. These makes me sad but i dont know what to do about it, i feel powerless to stop it.I'll need anybody to advise me how to put an end to this, thanks in advance |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by thinkdip(m): 2:31pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
emptyhead: Get your self a time out, stop staying in-doors, stay social and mix up, read the bible daily, enjoy going to event and services, watch movies with friends and get youself busy, pari pari e pray to God for a deliverance 4 Likes |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by MrPresident1: 2:37pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
emptyhead: You need personal discipline |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 2:43pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
@ thinkdip Thank you so much. U re very helpful, the problem probably is because Im most of the time Alone and the friends I have are drinkers, I will try out your suggestions. |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by thegoodone2(m): 2:43pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
how old are u? |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by thinkdip(m): 2:48pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
emptyhead:You are welcome, may be changing you signature might also increase some self control bro |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 2:58pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
thegoodone2: I'm 26 I know I'm fuckedd up |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 2:58pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
MrPresident1: Yes I do, how do I successfully go about being self disciplined, thanks |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 3:01pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
thinkdip: Alright thanks, I will be changing it soon |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by MrPresident1: 3:08pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
emptyhead: Firstly you have to make up your mind. Make up your mind, AND THEN CHANGE |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by thegoodone2(m): 3:18pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
emptyhead:if possible go and marry. stop wash blue firm.when u feel like that again go out and play with friend.pray to God |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by iluvweed(m): 3:55pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Apply as a bar man at any Ashy joint....it will help you alot....... |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by def111(m): 4:14pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
to stop a bad character like musturbation. you need to replace with some tin good. whenever u feel like musturbation, just think of the new character.. u will need to do this for 21days nd after 21days. make it 90days. if u can do it. you can make it to six months nd one year.... do not stay indoor alone, if u live alone look for somebody to stay with you. you will make it in Jesus name amen |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 4:23pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
def111:thanks you r helpful |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 4:25pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
iluvweed: Thanks I know u don't like me |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 4:28pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
thegoodone2: I got married just last year june, I'll will try to stop watching porn, I don't have friends only drinking buddies |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by thegoodone2(m): 4:40pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
emptyhead:tell ur wife about it and any time u feel like doing it ask her for sex. personal experience. |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by Nobody: 5:47pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
I av got a solution to ur self service problem...PM me |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by sogodihno: 8:45pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
The only solution is to accept Jesus Christ as ur lord and saviour. Confess him. He deliver me, He can also deliver u |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by Nobody: 9:06pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
emptyhead: For the mas''''turbate/porn thingie....this might help. For the alcohol issue.....see here Good luck. |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by Nobody: 12:38am On Nov 12, 2014 |
Hi there, please cheer up and don't be so hard on yourself, no one's perfect It's difficult to break a habit, it takes time so you have to be patient with yourself. The first step to change is accepting there's a problem, this you have done, good job Now you need motivation, I'll suggest you get busy to get distracted, pick up a hobby such as reading or painting if you can Give yourself some distance from alcohol, try weaning yourself if you can't quit cold turkey. Basically if you drink "x" amount of alcohol now then reduce it to "x-1" until you no longer care for it Don't condemn yourself, you're living and learning, we all are |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by elobyobi: 10:41am On Nov 12, 2014 |
Learning a lot here. I only wish the MOD would move this to the "high table". There are many NLers with these problems. They too would benefit a lot, from reading the comments, even if they r too ashamed to post anything. 1 Like |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by Laird(m): 4:00pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
FIRST OF ALL 1. SINCERELY REPENT AND ASK GOD TO FORGIVE YOU 2. AVOID TV PROGRAMMES, MOVIES AND MUSIC VIDEOS. ONLY WATCH NEWS AND SPORTS 3. READ YOUR BIBLE EVERYDAY MORNING AND NIGHT 4. PRAY TO GOD EVERYDAY 5 MAKE A STAND FOR GOD AND ..REFUSE TO DRINK ALCOHOL AND DONT ALLOW ALCOHOL IN YOUR HOUSE 6 DONT LISTEN TO MUSIC EXCEPT GOSPEL BECAUSE MOST SECULAR MUSIC PROMOTE SEX ,AND DRINKING 7DONT ALLOW P0N0GRAPHY MOVIES AND FILMS AROUND YOU 8. TEll YOUR WIFE THE TRUTH AND TELL HER TO SUPPORT YOU IN PRAYER |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 12:32pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
thegoodone2: Thanks bro.. I'll be doing that but you've been a great help.. You're blessed |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 12:35pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Boc4real: I just did thanks.. But if you think you can put it here so that others having similar issue can learn from it, it'll be most rewarding.. |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 12:45pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
sogodihno: Thanks...my parents were born Christians, I was effectively raised as one, I just want practical help that would solve this problem, thanks for your input |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 12:49pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
bushdoc9919: Thanks bro, I'll check the site out on my PC, it's not convenient on my smart phone |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 12:57pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
xcelsia: Thanks for your genuine reasoning, I've tried to stop masturbatinggg some time ago but I found myself into it back after just a month success. For motivation, I read, both fiction and non fiction literature but this has dropped some months ago.. But I'll be trying out the suggestions I've had here..thanks 1 Like |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by emptyhead(m): 1:01pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Laird: Thanks.. Your good will not turn sour |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by Nobody: 1:48pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
emptyhead:You're welcome anytime |
Re: [b] Help Me To Stop Masturbation And My Drinking Problem [/b] by Abcruz(m): 3:16pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
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