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I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by sKeetz(m): 12:17pm On Nov 15, 2014
I've been having this experience or should I say problem since i became sexually active which is two years now...I find it impossible to bust a nut (cuum) while having normal sex, I can go for hours non stop and yet nothing but i do so quick while masturbating. Some times i have to fake an orgasm so the girl doesnt feel bad. This is giving me serious worries cause I dont know if it will be forever I'm afraid i might not be able to have normal healthy sex when I get married. I dont know if anybody here has the same problem. I wanna know if its a phase that will pass with time, Is it normal for my age (I'm 21).

This is no joke, so I'll appreciate it if I get matured serious answers. If the mods in charge of this session could be kind enough to put this on the first page, that would be real nice.

Thanks smiley
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by jasper7(m): 12:42pm On Nov 15, 2014
Oga, your case is psychological, it happens to people who watch alot of adult movies. Secondly to some special people when they use latex. Does it happen when you go flesh to flesh? Some people are not just cut out for the whole latex thingy. But the real solution is, lay off the adult film industry and self servicing for awhile, try to avoid sexual activity for 2 months, then jump directly on the old sac and not self servicing, you are guaranteed to cum. It's all in ur head man

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Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by sKeetz(m): 12:48pm On Nov 15, 2014
jasper7:
Oga, your case is psychological, it happens to people who watch alot of adult movies. Secondly to some special people when they use latex. Does it happen when you go flesh to flesh? Some people are not just cut out for the whole latex thingy. But the real solution is, lay off the adult film industry and self servicing for awhile, try to avoid sexual activity for 2 months, then jump directly on the old sac and not self servicing, you are guaranteed to cum. It's all in ur head man

bro it happens even when I go skin to skin and yeah I watch a ton of porn... Trying to quit
Thanks for your contribution
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by jasper7(m): 12:52pm On Nov 15, 2014
sKeetz:


bro it happens even when I go skin to skin and yeah I watch a ton of porn... Trying to quit
Thanks for your contribution
Try laying off adult movies o. They are not good for your social-sexual life. It's not easy. But try. No be say you go stop entirely but make it a rare occasion thing
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Better2014: 12:59pm On Nov 15, 2014
U r not in dis alone,that's d problem when one masturbate often.U need 2 stop it 4 a y and see hw far.R u in ph?
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by icemania: 1:05pm On Nov 15, 2014
Dude, ur condition is more common than you know, its mostly psychological, especially for those whose 'first' time cuming was through self service. Pornography too affects you. What you need to do is stope self service and pornography. I know coz I used to be you.

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Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Lordabas: 1:07pm On Nov 15, 2014




During masturbatiøn, the fist is tighter than a vagïna so its easier to cum. Its normal
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Emmaesty(f): 2:07pm On Nov 15, 2014
Lordabas:




During masturbatiøn, the fist is tighter than a vagïna so its easier to cum. Its normal
I've always known that u're strange
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by jasper7(m): 2:11pm On Nov 15, 2014
Emmaesty:
I've always known that u're strange
Lol.. una no go kill me for NL. smiley
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by sKeetz(m): 2:35pm On Nov 15, 2014
jasper7:

Try laying off adult movies o. They are not good for your social-sexual life. It's not easy. But try. No be say you go stop entirely but make it a rare occasion thing

Thanks blud
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by sKeetz(m): 2:37pm On Nov 15, 2014
icemania:
Dude, ur condition is more common than you know, its mostly psychological, especially for those whose 'first' time cuming was through self service. Pornography too affects you. What you need to do is stope self service and pornography. I know coz I used to be you.

Exactly bro, how do you know? My first orgasm was through masturbation.

Trying to cut down on pornography but man, that shit is an addiction.

Thanks for the advice
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Lordabas: 2:55pm On Nov 15, 2014
Emmaesty:
I've always known that u're strange
Lol. What's strange? The womans vagïna needs to be as tight as the dudes hand to enable easy cumming cheesy
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Emmaesty(f): 3:54pm On Nov 15, 2014
Lordabas:

Lol. What's strange? The womans vagïna needs to be as tight as the dudes hand to enable easy cumming cheesy
I sure say u don f**k plenty babes for ya life
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Lordabas: 4:34pm On Nov 15, 2014
Emmaesty:
I sure say u don f**k plenty babes for ya life
You think so? cheesy
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by lillyjane(f): 6:06pm On Nov 15, 2014
Most teens have this problem because of the act of self service they indulge in not indecency films. Stop the self service, don't think about it and concentrate during the act. This will make you cum.

Please note; premarital sex is not good for you. To avoid story that touch.
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Emmaesty(f): 7:50pm On Nov 15, 2014
Lordabas:

You think so? cheesy
I know so
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Lordabas: 9:39pm On Nov 15, 2014
Emmaesty:
I know so
Same way i know you too wink
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Emmaesty(f): 6:07am On Nov 16, 2014
Lordabas:

Same way i know you too wink
Are you stalking me? shockedshockedshocked
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Lordabas: 7:32am On Nov 16, 2014
Emmaesty:
Are you stalking me? shockedshockedshocked
I have better things to do than stalk you tongue
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by yerimastyle(m): 9:41am On Nov 16, 2014
Selfie is OK but don't over do it
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by EternalTruth: 12:54am On Nov 22, 2016
sKeetz:
I've been having this experience or should I say problem since i became sexually active which is two years now...I find it impossible to bust a nut (cuum) while having normal sex, I can go for hours non stop and yet nothing but i do so quick while masturbating. Some times i have to fake an orgasm so the girl doesnt feel bad. This is giving me serious worries cause I dont know if it will be forever I'm afraid i might not be able to have normal healthy sex when I get married. I dont know if anybody here has the same problem. I wanna know if its a phase that will pass with time, Is it normal for my age (I'm 21).

This is no joke, so I'll appreciate it if I get matured serious answers. If the mods in charge of this session could be kind enough to put this on the first page, that would be real nice.

Thanks smiley
hello.. passing through the same problem now.. can't cum when I'm with a girl but when I masturbate I cum quicker....
my first emasculation was through masturbation and pornography is an addictive behavior I can't quit...
did you find a solution to it??
I'm 24 now..
awaiting your response
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by sKeetz(m): 4:13am On Nov 22, 2016
EternalTruth:
hello.. passing through the same problem now.. can't cum when I'm with a girl but when I masturbate I cum quicker....
my first emasculation was through masturbation and pornography is an addictive behavior I can't quit...
did you find a solution to it??
I'm 24 now..
awaiting your response

No bro... We are on the same both, quitting madturbation and pornography has been like a nightmare. sad sad
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by EternalTruth: 10:41am On Nov 22, 2016
sKeetz:


No bro... We are on the same both, quitting madturbation and pornography has been like a nightmare. sad sad
God will help us.. there's a way out ..

bro you fit reach me on WhatsApp so we could elucidate on it and also adumbrate on possible measures that'll propel a way out. thanks 08060423357
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Dereformer(m): 6:06pm On Nov 22, 2016
sKeetz:


No bro... We are on the same both, quitting madturbation and pornography has been like a nightmare. sad sad

Rob enough pepper on your hand before you sleep. I works like magic.
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by celestialAgent(m): 7:47pm On Nov 22, 2016
Well, left to me, I would say you have just found your sexual fission. Stick to masturbation and let em viginals be..


If you however, consider interacial copulation essential, you may have to just combat masturbation.


Here is one ridiculous trick I once read on NL,

The Girl said, "when you are about to Masturbate, look at yourself in a mirror and ask yourself 'What is Jesus thinking right now?'" grin grin
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by geniewilliams(m): 12:10pm On Nov 23, 2016
what you are experiencing in called Delayed ejaculation, also called retarded ejaculation or inhibited ejaculation, is a man's inability for or persistent difficulty in achieving orgasm, despite typical sexual desire and sexual stimulation. Generally, a man can reach orgasm within a few minutes of active thrusting during sexual intercourse, whereas a man with delayed ejaculation either does not have orgasms at all or cannot have an orgasm until after prolonged intercourse which might last for 30–45 minutes or more. In most cases delayed ejaculation presents the condition in which the man can climax and ejaculate only during masturbation, but not during sexual intercourse. It is the least common of the male sexual dysfunctions, and can result as a side effect of some medications. In one survey, 8% of men reported being unable to achieve orgasm over a 2-month period or longer in the previous year.

Signs and symptoms
Delayed ejaculation can be mild (men who still experience orgasm during intercourse, but only under certain conditions), moderate (cannot ejaculate during intercourse, but can during MouthAction or manual stimulation), severe (can ejaculate only when alone), or most severe (cannot ejaculate at all)

Causes
Medical conditions that can cause delayed ejaculation include hypogonadism, thyroid disorders, pituitary disorders such as Cushing's disease, prostate surgery outcome, and drug and alcohol use. Difficulty in achieving orgasm can also result from pelvic surgery that involved trauma to pelvic nerves responsible for orgasm. Some men report a lack of sensation in the nerves of the glans penis, which may or may not be related to external factors, including a history of circumcision.

Delayed ejaculation is a possible side effect of certain medications, including selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), opiates such as morphine, methadone, or oxycodone, many benzodiazepines such as Valium, certain antipsychotics, and antihypertensive.

Psychological and lifestyle factors have been discussed as potential contributors, including insufficient sleep, distraction due to worry, distraction from the environment, anxiety about pleasing their partner and anxiety about relationship problems. Pornography addiction

One proposed cause of delayed ejaculation is adaptation to a certain masturbatory technique. The sensations a man feels when masturbating may bear little resemblance to the sensations he experiences during intercourse. Factors such as pressure, angle and grip during masturbation can make for an experience so different from sex with a partner that the ability to ejaculate is reduced or eliminated.

On the same note, it may be the visual factor present in masturbation that may delay vaginal ejaculation. As the sensation during masturbation is intrinsically linked with the visual input of a sexual model, be it male or female, the diminished view during sex may result in the loss of that link, and as such, delay ejaculation in the man. A possible cure for this may be a better view of the partner during intercourse. Which may not naturally occurred because of the psychologically perverted view of the sexual orientation of the female gender due to excessive involvement in pornographic acts
Sex therapy

Therapy usually involves homework assignments and exercises intended to help a man get used to having orgasms through insertional intercourse, vaginal, anal, or oral, that is through the way to which he is not accustomed. Commonly, the couple is advised to go through three stages. At the first stage, a man masturbates in the presence of his partner. Sometimes, this is not an easy matter as a man may be used to having orgasms alone. After a man learns to ejaculate in the presence of his partner, the man's hand is replaced with the hand of his partner. In the final stage, the receptive partner inserts the insertive partner's penis into the partner's vagina, anus, or mouth as soon as the ejaculation is felt to be imminent. Thus, a man gradually learns to ejaculate inside the desired orifice by an incremental process.

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Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Ebenezar2O2O: 9:55pm On Jul 29, 2020
sKeetz:

Exactly bro, how do you know? My first orgasm was through masturbation.
Trying to cut down on pornography but man, that shit is an addiction.
Thanks for the advice
xup now? I'm in the same situation with you
Re: I Cant Cum Through Normal Sex But Can While Masturbating, Is That Normal? by Terryishere: 10:38pm On Jul 29, 2020
Ebenezar2O2O:
xup now?
I'm in the same situation with you

This explains your frustrations, hostility, and annoyance.

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