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Backup Plan. by SOMTO2(m): 3:38pm On Nov 26, 2008
i dont believe there is any lady out there without a backup plan.
thier working are like that of a pc,
looking to replace lost data (in this cae boyfriends) with a presently existing one.
by this i mean they wud always have some other guy they hold at arms lenght,
incase their present bf's start acting up.
and when he leaves u get suprised how they easily replace u with the guy whom they always claim to be "just good friends".
Re: Backup Plan. by MrCrackles(m): 3:40pm On Nov 26, 2008
Did this happen to you poster?! grin
Re: Backup Plan. by OBVIOUS(m): 3:41pm On Nov 26, 2008
I think that every woman should have a back-up plan.


But then, how can one really enjoy the present relationship, if you have someone else on the side. Anyhoo, I highly recommend a back up plan for women.
Re: Backup Plan. by Dbaby4: 3:42pm On Nov 26, 2008
Can i ask u, when driving a car you no dey get spare tire? So also ladies have their back up plan.Cant just sit there wasting time crying and mopping over some dude that broke her heart hiss
Re: Backup Plan. by teissys(f): 3:45pm On Nov 26, 2008
D.baby:

Can i ask u, when driving a car you no dey get spare tire? So also ladies have their back up plan.can't just sit there wasting time crying and mopping over some dude that broke her heart hiss

Yeah baibe, you just hit the nail on the head!!! Gone are the days when gals would lock themselves in their rooms and go on hunger strike, just because of a no-good jerk
Re: Backup Plan. by SOMTO2(m): 3:47pm On Nov 26, 2008
@d.baby,
so u mean ur bf is also allowed to have a backup plan?
means he can be friends with that close friend os urs whom he seems to have noticed also has an eye for him?

am justasking cos i believe that when u go into a fight with an option of retreat, u will evetually loose the fight.

y have a backup plan.
y not have a plan on how to make it work despite the roughs?

backup plans are a sure way of getting out of ur present relationship.
Re: Backup Plan. by iice(f): 3:52pm On Nov 26, 2008
Back up plan of what? Another boy? The one wey pesin get nefa do am, all the wahala and stress. Not my cup of tea.

Back up plan of picking up your life and forging ahead jare.
Re: Backup Plan. by tangent(f): 3:53pm On Nov 26, 2008
SOMTO2:

i don't believe there is any lady out there without a backup plan.
their working are like that of a pc,
looking to replace lost data (in this cae boyfriends) with a presently existing one.
by this i mean they would always have some other guy they hold at arms lenght,
incase their present boyfriend's start acting up.
and when he leaves u get suprised how they easily replace u with the guy whom they always claim to be "just good friends".


not in all cases, my dear. most women don't have a plan b.
Re: Backup Plan. by Hesperus(m): 3:55pm On Nov 26, 2008
lol! Back up plan! Makes it sound like it was all a scheme from the start.
Anyway, back up plan for what na? Its a different thing if you're two-timing but to actually put one person on hold as a back up? Haba!
Soon, one guy will be back up to like 10 chicks at the same time! lol!
Re: Backup Plan. by Nobody: 3:55pm On Nov 26, 2008
well backup plan is not a bad idea at all especially when u know the kinda of person u are dating. Guys keep strings of girls, y cant the girls keep strings also? But a girl who wants backup plan should know that she wont gice her pussy to all but none.
Re: Backup Plan. by Dbaby4: 3:58pm On Nov 26, 2008
SOMTO2:

@d.baby,
so u mean ur boyfriend is also allowed to have a backup plan?
means he can be friends with that close friend os urs whom he seems to have noticed also has an eye for him?

am justasking because i believe that when u go into a fight with an option of retreat, u will evetually loose the fight.

y have a backup plan.
y not have a plan on how to make it work despite the roughs?

backup plans are a sure way of getting out of ur present relationship.

Can i ask u when your tyre punctures, wont u go get the spare tire and put it in for sometime while u are fixing the main tyre? then when the main tyre is fixed u go put it back in its palce? Having a backup plan doesnt mean you want to leave your present relationship. Its just a leaning on device  tongue tongue tongue

Men always have back up plans without we knowing.
Re: Backup Plan. by Nobody: 3:58pm On Nov 26, 2008
better still dnt hold any man to heart! cos they fit mess up anytime.
Re: Backup Plan. by JJYOU: 3:59pm On Nov 26, 2008
plan B indeed
Re: Backup Plan. by tangent(f): 4:01pm On Nov 26, 2008
bluntpis:

better still dnt hold any man to heart! because they fit mess up anytime.

if u don't hold a man to heart, there won't be commitment.
Re: Backup Plan. by Dbaby4: 4:02pm On Nov 26, 2008
@ Poster, are you not the one that was just thinking of testing spring water, pure water, ragolis, swam water, Eva water, pomo water, beans water etc.before you tie d nut

why u come de talk against back up plan now again?  
Re: Backup Plan. by CodeRED(f): 4:03pm On Nov 26, 2008
@poster, arent you summin else? grin

Yes of course, I believe in always having something for rainy days.  It's like an investment plan. You make sure you reserve in the event of a shortage. cheesy
Re: Backup Plan. by SOMTO2(m): 4:04pm On Nov 26, 2008
bluntpis:

better still dnt hold any man to heart! because they fit mess up anytime.

because we know say plane dey crash no say we go enter boat go america.

@ d.baby

i can see how much regard u have for ur bf,
wen u dey reffer to am as tire and his replacement as spare.
but for real why take a trip when u plan or retreating at the slightest storm?
will u also have a backup plan for ur hubby?
Re: Backup Plan. by Dbaby4: 4:08pm On Nov 26, 2008
SOMTO2:



@ d.baby

i can see how much regard u have for ur boyfriend,
when u dey reffer to am as tire and his replacement as spare.
but for real why take a trip when u plan or retreating at the slightest storm?
will u also have a backup plan for ur hubby?

Somtochukwu, so can i ask u? why do u want to go test waters before tying the nut?
Re: Backup Plan. by MissyB1(m): 4:09pm On Nov 26, 2008
Dunnno where I stand in this matter. grin
I'm a respecter of one male:::one female but I'm
still trynna find something wrong with one gurl keeping 10 guys. tongue
Re: Backup Plan. by SOMTO2(m): 4:11pm On Nov 26, 2008
D.baby:

@ Poster, are you not the one that was just thinking of testing spring water, pure water, ragolis, swam water, Eva water, pomo water, beans water etc.before you tie d nut

why u come de talk against back up plan now again?  


i spoke about that yes, but that only when u have decided to tie the knot.
u normally shud be allowed to drink all manners of waters to know what taste wud be on ur lips for life.

in this case am talking about cheating from the blast of the whistle,
deciding to have a sub ( supersub somtimes self[i][/i])
that case is very wrong. simply.
Re: Backup Plan. by SOMTO2(m): 4:13pm On Nov 26, 2008
D.baby:

Somtochukwu, so can i ask u? why do u want to go test waters before tying the nut?


the same reason why bach eve was evented,
to sow wild oats,
to have a last taste of variety before u stick to the menu.
Re: Backup Plan. by Dbaby4: 4:15pm On Nov 26, 2008
SOMTO2:


the same reason why bach eve was evented,
to sow wild oats,
to have a last taste of variety before u stick to the menu.

so i ve a backup plan cos i need a shoulder to lean on incase of eventualities okay grin grin grin grin
Re: Backup Plan. by Exstar(f): 4:17pm On Nov 26, 2008
SOMTO2:


the same reason why bach eve was evented,
to sow wild oats,
to have a last taste of variety before u stick to the menu.

I think bach eve is even a waste of time these days, cos some men even
sow the so called oat seeds on their wedding day too.
Re: Backup Plan. by SOMTO2(m): 4:20pm On Nov 26, 2008
@d,b
i asked if u wud have a backup plan to ur hubby,
cos if u dont respect ur bf, who might oneday be him,
then how u want to take avoid am wen u marry?

its just as simple, u dont mess around with sometin wrong.
it wud hunt u.

backups sometimes get corrupt.
Re: Backup Plan. by Dbaby4: 4:22pm On Nov 26, 2008
SOMTO2:

@d,b
i asked if u would have a backup plan to ur hubby,
because if u don't respect ur boyfriend, who might oneday be him,
then how u want to take avoid am when u marry?

its just as simple, u don't mess around with sometin wrong.
it would hunt u.

backups sometimes get corrupt.

preach to me dear grin grin
Re: Backup Plan. by SOMTO2(m): 4:28pm On Nov 26, 2008
sure dee,
i go preach cos its wrong.
Re: Backup Plan. by Dbaby4: 4:35pm On Nov 26, 2008
SOMTO2:

sure dee,
i go preach because its wrong.

its actually wrong, if a relationship doesnt work out, pick up your pieces and move on someone else will definately come along. Wat u sow u will definately reap one way or the other grin grin grin so dont mind me i dont do it
Re: Backup Plan. by SOMTO2(m): 4:39pm On Nov 26, 2008
i was beginning to think otherwise.

are u in lagos presently?
Re: Backup Plan. by Dbaby4: 4:43pm On Nov 26, 2008
I be Jos person, not in lagos
Re: Backup Plan. by jeffman(m): 8:33pm On Nov 26, 2008
and d guy would also have his backup plan just in case u go with ur backup plan at the slightest unfounded suspicion.

When would trust be a virtue people long for?
Re: Backup Plan. by chika98: 8:40pm On Nov 26, 2008
Back up plan? Maka y?
Re: Backup Plan. by teissys(f): 8:06am On Nov 27, 2008
jeffman:

and d guy would also have his backup plan just in case u go with ur backup plan at the slightest unfounded suspicion.

When would trust be a virtue people long for?
grin grin grin


chika98:

Back up plan? Maka y?

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