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Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by 100Cents: 3:31pm On Nov 26, 2014
candybella:
dis op sef..y r u now telling u,abi u wan make we tag u as good Samaritan

Ladies eyeing rich men since 1814...
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by seyithug(m): 3:33pm On Nov 26, 2014
Babygal4eva:


You are being very harsh and unfair, this can happen to anybody although I'm careful of who I believe when I hear this... I was once stranded at ICM Forgot my ATM in my other bag and My phone's ba3 was gone, I was just lucky that my friend works in ICM and he gave me money else I don't know what I would have done,

because someone asks u for money doesn't mean they are thieves or trying to turn you in2 a maga it just means they still have faith in humanity(I lost mine a long time ago) and do you know the courage it takes to swallow your pride and beg a stranger for money?(if you are a decent person) granted most people are lying for one reason or the other you just have to be careful.

I don't blv in juju or jazz if i give any1 money I say a lil prayer and forget about it no evil planned against me shall ever come near me.
The bolded is the exact reason why we all should learn to give, if we have, whether or not youcan immediately ascertain the genuineness of the motive for begging. I've met old, well-dressed men, and women with children or a whole family approach me for t-fare or money to take care of things. You shouldn't go posting about it, like you've done simething extraordinary. Alms-giving and showing kindness or helping out are spiritual, divine actions, that attract spiritual or divine rewards.
I used to wonder why people would owe rent and be kicked out of their apartments or embarrassed continually by their landlords. I used to wonder, don't they have friends, families, work/hustle, to save towards paying their rent, within a whole 365days? Until I became very broke in 200L and home condition wasn't favorable, friends were also hustling for themselves and my ego+nature didn't let me go begging for money from anywhere else...that's when the reality hit. It cost me a whole lot.
If you're not in their shoes, you won't know where it pinches. Some find it very easy to beg, but some will have to summon an Olumo rock size of courage (not swallow their pride), to descend to the level of begging. It's not easy.

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Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by 100Cents: 3:41pm On Nov 26, 2014
BreezyRita:
You helped one stranded lady out and you're ratting her out on NL? Smh4u.........
And just one lady asking you for help abi money makes it a trend? Pathetic!


Please change this your mentality o. What makes you think she wasn't truly stranded? Cos she said she'd have sëx with you? Did she even say it?
I Smell lies

Haha,

As if ladies dont do it on first date ?

Yinmu.
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by coolfredo(m): 4:13pm On Nov 26, 2014
ignis:
Yesterday, while coming out from Tantalizer, I saw a guy he told me he was robbed and he don't have transport fare to get back home and he need to go to hospital to treat the injury given to him by the robbers. I asked him to follow me to the bank, I made some withdrawals and I gave him N250,000.
she is saying the truth i was there
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by ignis: 4:30pm On Nov 26, 2014
coolfredo:
she is saying the truth i was there

Where you the guy on black pant and blue shirt?
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by coolfredo(m): 4:38pm On Nov 26, 2014
ignis:


Where you the guy on black pant and blue shirt?
No i was d cashier
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by ignis: 4:42pm On Nov 26, 2014
coolfredo:
No i was d cashier
I thought as much.
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by folawiyoma(m): 4:53pm On Nov 26, 2014
Babygal4eva:


You are being very harsh and unfair, this can happen to anybody although I'm careful of who I believe when I hear this... I was once stranded at ICM Forgot my ATM in my other bag and My phone's ba3 was gone, I was just lucky that my friend works in ICM and he gave me money else I don't know what I would have done, because someone asks u for money doesn't mean they are thieves or trying to turn you in2 a maga it just means they still have faith in humanity(I lost mine a long time ago) and do you know the courage it takes to swallow your pride and beg a stranger for money?(if you are a decent person) granted most people are lying for one reason or the other you just have to be careful.

I don't blv in juju or jazz if i give any1 money I say a lil prayer and forget about it no evil planned against me shall ever come near me.









The last time I helped a brother in need I no where it land me.

I bet somany of all this beggers are still out there when all dey think about is how to beg for a living.
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by folawiyoma(m): 5:02pm On Nov 26, 2014
seyithug:

You're an unfortunate fellow and an idiot. What she posted is a lot more sincere and convincing than what the OP posted. You're just as myopic, insincere and dumb, as the attention-seeking OP, who came to post on NL that he gave a helpless girl 8k,and rather than thank God for being in a position to do so, went on to generalize that all girls are now beggers. Hell, I've run into a lot of guys on the streets, bukaterias, and bus stops or garages, begging for tfare or money to eat a decent meal too. That's not something to make a post about, if you did it with love and humility. Unless you did it with so much hatred, insincerity, vendetta, and scorn, you don't need to make a post about it.
And you're here abusing a lady who shared her own story, which is far more believable. Do you even have an ATM card? I doubt it. ATM users in Nigeria are faced with issues like this several times, and it's easy to spend all your cash and not worry about being stranded, because your ATM means your bank in your pocket. I've gone broke, especially at weekends or for some hours during weekdays, because of network issues. I've had to go borrow money because my bank didn't reflect a payment in my account, which I already got an alert for, and it was over the weekend, and I was stranded at Oniru with other friends, and I was the one to pick the tab. Embarrassing situations happen with ATMs.... The fact that you've been disappointed by a girl doesn't mean all girls are bad. Always use your head and put in some level of trust, when dealing with everyone, not just the opposite sex.

Personally, I don't believe the OP, until he tells us why he had to post this. Is he now regretting not taking the girl's sex offer, or did he extract a promise from her, which she hasn't fulfilled and he's now feeling used and bitter? If you say you 'helped' someone, you shouldn't turn around makinh disparaging remarks about the recipient of your help. IMHO.











Ok . I will say sorry to the lady. Maybe I was too harsh on her based on my own experience.

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Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by seyithug(m): 5:36pm On Nov 26, 2014
folawiyoma:



Ok . I will say sorry to the lady. Maybe I was too harsh on her based on my own experience.
That would be great, bro. We all make mistakes and judge people, based on our experiences and generalizations. It's wrong.
And, I apologize for using such strong words too. I just felt pained.
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by folawiyoma(m): 6:23pm On Nov 26, 2014
seyithug:

That would be great, bro. We all make mistakes and judge people, based on our experiences and generalizations. It's wrong.
And, I apologize for using such strong words too. I just felt pained.



Oik .
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by Anwasia(m): 6:36pm On Nov 26, 2014
Op if na your fellow man beg u
How much u for give ham?
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by chuggy(m): 9:35pm On Nov 26, 2014
lomaxx:
#8,000 and no pus.s-y

Pathetic!!
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by Charles4075(m): 10:03pm On Nov 26, 2014
Op, if you're saying the truth then you did the right thing.. Sometimes we find ourselves in a helpless situation.. But for me ohh, I'm not sure I can ever help a lady apart from my mum, sisters and wife.. Some ladies are so stinkingly ungrateful and naïve. I can remember vividly back then at A.A.U.(2012) to be precise, just relaxing with my friend at about 11:45pm , then suddenly a friend of our's came knocking that his gf was at the point of death, couldn't have the time to dress up, drove to his house nearby rushed into the room and carried her to the car, her boyfriend(my friend) was so scared that he couldn't even lift her legs. Took her to the health centre clinic in the main campus, unfortunately they couldn't find a single pulse on her and her breath was gradually becoming shallow and slow. Told us to take her to Irrua specialist teaching hospital at that time of the night by 12:15am. Brought the school ambulance, the bus broke down, I was even scared too. Had to rush her back in my car with her sister, boyfriend, a maiden nurse and was driving like a mad driver all because of one silly girl. On getting there, we rushed her to the emergency ward. Few minutes later, she started regaining consciousness at about 1:00am. On my way back home that night, nearly had an accident at a junction(1T4) because of some robbers and I was so lucky to have escaped them.. To cut the long story short, few months later came back to ekpoma for my call-up letter, saw this silly girl and her sis and I walked up to them and said hi, how are you doing? Because she was in the midst of her wannabe gangster friends, she boldy, I mean BOLDLY asked me if she knew me before, even her sister was pointing her fingers to the sky and acting weird saying I'm trying to recognize the face. Her friends started laughing and called me a loser asking me if I don't know my class of ladies I choose. Never have I been disgraced in my life before. Till date, Never Ever Ever will I come across a lady who needs help and I'll offer my help even at the point of death. Ogbomo Charles Osasere said so..

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Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by seyithug(m): 11:50pm On Nov 26, 2014
Charles4075:
Op, if you're saying the truth then you did the right thing.. Sometimes we find ourselves in a helpless situation.. But for me ohh, I'm not sure I can ever help a lady apart from my mum, sisters and wife.. Some ladies are so stinkingly ungrateful and naïve. I can remember vividly back then at A.A.U.(2012) to be precise, just relaxing with my friend at about 11:45pm , then suddenly a friend of our's came knocking that his gf was at the point of death, couldn't have the time to dress up, drove to his house nearby rushed into the room and carried her to the car, her boyfriend(my friend) was so scared that he couldn't even lift her legs. Took her to the health centre clinic in the main campus, unfortunately they couldn't find a single pulse on her and her breath was gradually becoming shallow and slow. Told us to take her to Irrua specialist teaching hospital at that time of the night by 12:15am. Brought the school ambulance, the bus broke down, I was even scared too. Had to rush her back in my car with her sister, boyfriend, a maiden nurse and was driving like a mad driver all because of one silly girl. On getting there, we rushed her to the emergency ward. Few minutes later, she started regaining consciousness at about 1:00am. On my way back home that night, nearly had an accident at a junction(1T4) because of some robbers and I was so lucky to have escaped them.. To cut the long story short, few months later came back to ekpoma for my call-up letter, saw this silly girl and her sis and I walked up to them and said hi, how are you doing? Because she was in the midst of her wannabe gangster friends, she boldy, I mean BOLDLY asked me if she knew me before, even her sister was pointing her fingers to the sky and acting weird saying I'm trying to recognize the face. Her friends started laughing and called me a loser asking me if I don't know my class of ladies I choose. Never have I been disgraced in my life before. Till date, Never Ever Ever will I come across a lady who needs help and I'll offer my help even at the point of death. Ogbomo Charles Osasere said so..
**in my Dame Patience Jonathan voice** Chaiiiiiiiii!!!

I feel your pain, bro. If na me, ehn, I go just dey pray make rapture happen at that moment or make ground swallow me.
I hope you ladies are reading this?? Simply because you have ended your relationship with a guy doesn't mean you should not greet his friend, who risked his life to help you out during your darkest hour.
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by dew1: 12:04am On Nov 27, 2014
iceberylin:
The girl be like
[size=20pt]MAGA DON PAY [/size] grin
Bro!!!
You back from France??
Or you guys also use the word "Maga" there??.
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by iceberylin(m): 6:57am On Nov 27, 2014
dew1:

Bro!!!
You back from France??
Or you guys also use the word "Maga" there??.
Nigga am back....
But i will travel today..On my way to the Airport


Bon vou yatch cheesy
Re: Is This The New Trend Girls Use Or What by Charles4075(m): 12:56pm On Nov 27, 2014
seyithug:

**in my Dame Patience Jonathan voice** Chaiiiiiiiii!!!

I feel your pain, bro. If na me, ehn, I go just dey pray make rapture happen at that moment or make ground swallow me.
I hope you ladies are reading this?? Simply because you have ended your relationship with a guy doesn't mean you should not greet his friend, who risked his life to help you out during your darkest hour.
As in ehh, bros I was the biggest dum-my on earth that day. I tried to hold back my tears because the humiliation was just so much.

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