To all of my married nairalanders... How did you know that he/she was the one for you?
What was it about this person that made u decide u needed to look no further?
To my men, what made you want to marry ha?
To my ladies? What made you want to say yes?
How did you know?

my brother said she did a simple task no woman has ever done at her first visit. the first time she visited, she did a thorough clean up for him, quietly lock d door and left

HE is not the one for me on!
I just dey manage am!

asandigbo:
my brother said she did a simple task no woman has ever done at her first visit. the first time she visited, she did a thorough clean up for him, quietly lock d door and left

lol.That little strategy caught your brother.

prissyluv:

lol.That little strategy caught your brother.

yes my dear, little things count. and first impression matters a lot. that first act of humility and kindness worked for her o.

asandigbo:
yes my dear, little things count. and first impression matters a lot. that first act of humility and kindness worked for her o.

Your brother is very lucky and I guess there were other good things he saw along the way that made him choose his wife and not just the cleaning
Anyone can pretend to get attention . . .especially these days.

Some even go to market to buy food with their own money and cook and buy gift for mum in law, yet when they marry refuse to buy a single sock for their kids and rather sit in darkness rather than buy N500 fuel for the gen with their own money.

chaircover:


Your brother is very lucky and I guess there were other good things he saw along the way that made him choose his wife and not just the cleaning
Anyone can pretend to get attention . . .especially these days.

Some even go to market to buy food with their own money and cook and buy gift for mum in law, yet when they marry refuse to buy a single sock for their kids and rather sit in darkness rather than buy N500 fuel for the gen with their own money.

the truth is d girl doesn't pretend, she is a very carefree and jovial girl,one of those girls that don't give a damn. she always look natural and simple and very playful and i thk God, she has been able to keep our family together

chaircover:


Your brother is very lucky and I guess there were other good things he saw along the way that made him choose his wife and not just the cleaning
Anyone can pretend to get attention . . .especially these days.

Some even go to market to buy food with their own money and cook and buy gift for mum in law, yet when they marry refuse to buy a single sock for their kids and rather sit in darkness rather than buy N500 fuel for the gen with their own money.

the truth is d girl doesn't pretend, she is a very carefree and jovial girl,one of those girls that doesn't give a damn. she was young too,22 at that time, so she wasn't really out for a husband per say. she always look natural and simple and very playful and i thk God, she has been able to keep our family together

asandigbo:
the truth is d girl doesn't pretend, she is a very carefree and jovial girl,one of those girls that don't give a damn. she always look natural and simple and very playful and i thk God, she has been able to keep our family together

Thats very good. I thank God for her and your family

You the inlaws also have to appreciate and take good care of her and show her love, becasue its not easy to find a good wife or husband even, these days.

Also be advising your brother from time to time to be good and take good care of her too and not take her forgranted.

chaircover:


Thats very good. I thank God for her and your family

You the inlaws also have to appreciate and take good care of her and show her love, becasue its not easy to find a good wife or husband even, these days.

Also be advising your brother from time to time to be good and take good care of her too and not take her forgranted.

that one is my mum's best friend o, we love her so much and we used to share things together. I know my mum deserves nothing less than a good dil coz she took care of her mum in law and the old around her very well and she is still doing that.

asandigbo:
my brother said she did a simple task no woman has ever done at her first visit. the first time she visited, she did a thorough clean up for him, quietly lock d door and left

Now ds is tricky. So many ladies fell for ds and nothing came out of it. I did exact opposite and I'm happily married.
I remember when we were still dating he asked me to cook, I simply told him I can't and here we are 2day man n wife. I have a close friend who cooks, scrubs, mop, wash and even do acrobatics on bed for all the guys I know she has dated and yet single. I've talked to her several times. A man who will marry U will marry U.

OP for me I just knew in my heart he's the one.

Wendy80:


Now ds is tricky. So many ladies fell for ds and nothing came out of it. I did exact opposite and I'm happily married.
I remember when we were still dating he asked me to cook, I simply told him I can't and here we are 2day man n wife. I have a close friend who cooks, scrubs, mop, wash and even do acrobatics on bed for all the guys I know she has dated and yet single. I've talked to her several times. A man who will marry U will marry U.

OP for me I just knew in my heart he's the one.

yes, its tricky, d girl wasn't out for marriage, she was just 22 at d time. she is a very carefree person and she doesn't pretend

asandigbo:
yes, its tricky, d girl wasn't out for marriage, she was just 22 at d time. she is a very carefree person and she doesn't pretend

Ur broda is lucky.

asandigbo:
yes my dear, little things count. and first impression matters a lot. that first act of humility and kindness worked for her o.

I am happy for her and your family.

Don't know what I saw, i followed what i felt.