I really seem not to understand, forme the idea of bringing in another adult into my house(an adult like me with two legs, two arms, two eyes, not in anyway handicapped), and start taking care OF her, seeing to every other needs really freaks me out, forme it seems so weird and incomprehensible, I find it difficult coming to terms with it.
Most of my friends are married (I happen to have chaired most of their c ' tee of friends), when I discuss this with them, and try asking them how they cope with that, they will burst into hysterical laughter, and will never address my question......

Please nairalanders I need answers .... is it (marriage) not a weird idea? Or my the weird one here?

Honest answers needed.

because you're weired

You're the weird one.

Life's all about making others happy; for in their happiness lies yours.

From your post, I concluded that you do not live in France, for marriage is not weird for us over here. If you do live in France, then you should consult an online babalawo.

you are an alien that's why

killerman47:
Most of my friends are married (I happen to have chaired most of their c ' tee of friends), when I discuss this with them, and try asking them how they cope with that, they will burst into hysterical laughter, and will never address my question......

Don't mind them jare. They want you to first enter am before they talk.

I really don't know what's wrong with my married friends. They be forming wise old men for no reason.

U are abnormal

killerman47:
I really seem not to understand, forme the idea of bringing in another adult into my house(an adult like me with two legs, two arms, two eyes, not in anyway handicapped), and start taking care OF her, seeing to every other needs really freaks me out, forme it seems so weird and incomprehensible, I find it difficult coming to terms with it.
Most of my friends are married (I happen to have chaired most of their c ' tee of friends), when I discuss this with them, and try asking them how they cope with that, they will burst into hysterical laughter, and will never address my question......

Please nairalanders I need answers .... is it (marriage) not a weird idea? Or my the weird one here?

Honest answers needed.

Brother, wallahi, I tell you, you're not the only one. I truly, sincerely see no point in it. Especially with the rate of marital failure. People seldom enjoy the contraption called marriage, it usually gets sour with time and they endure it!

Reading some diaries on the diary section further confirms that to me.

Like, when I sit to think about it I seriously don't ever want to get married. I have only one life why trap myself in something I don't enjoy? When I mentioned it to my mother she shouted "god forbid!" people think it's weird but.....

I may just be young and experiencing a phase, I hope.

.

OPp I feel u joor; I'm in same bus with you.

killerman47:
I really seem not to understand, forme the idea of bringing in another adult into my house(an adult like me with two legs, two arms, two eyes, not in anyway handicapped), and start taking care OF her, seeing to every other needs really freaks me out, forme it seems so weird and incomprehensible, I find it difficult coming to terms with it.
Most of my friends are married (I happen to have chaired most of their c ' tee of friends), when I discuss this with them, and try asking them how they cope with that, they will burst into hysterical laughter, and will never address my question......

Please nairalanders I need answers .... is it (marriage) not a weird idea? Or my the weird one here?

Honest answers needed.

my brother u will have to change that sim card of yours cuz there network is always bad

killerman47:
I really seem not to understand, forme the idea of bringing in another adult into my house(an adult like me with two legs, two arms, two eyes, not in anyway handicapped), and start taking care OF her, seeing to every other needs really freaks me out, forme it seems so weird and incomprehensible, I find it difficult coming to terms with it.
Most of my friends are married (I happen to have chaired most of their c ' tee of friends), when I discuss this with them, and try asking them how they cope with that, they will burst into hysterical laughter, and will never address my question......

Please nairalanders I need answers .... is it (marriage) not a weird idea? Or my the weird one here?

Honest answers needed.

Me too. And I hate it when my mother and my siblings talk about. It irritates me. They talk about crap like marriage, someone having a flat ass (which I find okay) and many others.

killerman47:
I really seem not to understand, forme the idea of bringing in another adult into my house(an adult like me with two legs, two arms, two eyes, not in anyway handicapped), and start taking care OF her, seeing to every other needs really freaks me out, forme it seems so weird and incomprehensible, I find it difficult coming to terms with it.
Most of my friends are married (I happen to have chaired most of their c ' tee of friends), when I discuss this with them, and try asking them how they cope with that, they will burst into hysterical laughter, and will never address my question......

Please nairalanders I need answers .... is it (marriage) not a weird idea? Or my the weird one here?

Honest answers needed.

Even though I share your concerns about marriage, we have got to admit you are the weirder one. If the majority among a population thinks marriage is ideal for a man (and a woman), then the outsider has got to realize he is on a different course, and a weird one at that.

Hmmm, Marriage wahala. Don't enter if you're not ready ohh or else two things will be involved.. Either it kills you or makes you crazy and loose.. Ask me why Op

Guys can whine ehn... smh... marriage is weird? heck, what's the fuss? DON'T GET MARRIED!!! You won't be the first...

Ask the god of iron

goofyone:


Even though I share your concerns about marriage, we have got to admit you are the weirder one. If the majority among a population thinks marriage is ideal for a man (and a woman), then the outsider has got to realize he is on a different course, and a weird one at that.

I disagree. If the majority is willing to go into an institution with 50% failure rate, then they are the crazy ones.

Thats because marriage is weird. How does 2 completely different individuals, with very different upbringing become 1?

That is strange!

goofyone:


Even though I share your concerns about marriage, we have got to admit you are the weirder one. If the majority among a population thinks marriage is ideal for a man (and a woman), then the outsider has got to realize he is on a different course, and a weird one at that.

bro I utterly disagree with you sire; what u mean is ; if one does not go in same thought process with the baandwagon; then he's weird. Bro u know that's real false; and far cry 4rm the truth; the crowed doesn't always mean right.

Charles4075:
Hmmm, Marriage wahala. Don't enter if you're not ready ohh or else two things will be involved.. Either it kills you or makes you crazy and loose.. Ask me why Op

why sire?

Raymondenyi:
bro I utterly disagree with you sire; what u mean is ; if one does not go in same thought process with the baandwagon; then he's weird. Bro u know that's real false; and far cry 4rm the truth; the crowed doesn't always mean right. why sire?

well done sir I seem to like u, can we become online Buddies?

Raymondenyi:
OPp I feel u joor; I'm in same bus with you.

you guys are weird including the op,just that you guys are stingy,you dont wanna spend your money taking care of someone else hehehehehe.

@op marriage is so sweet if you find the right person for you,i am into one and i really thanks God my husband never regret we married.#you are really wierd not marriage change the way you think about it.

So your idea of marriage is that you are "taking care" of another adult?

Is it not the women that should be more afraid?

We cook for you, do your laundary, keep the home tidy, bear you children, raise them and still make financial contributions.

You really are weird.

If you feel a little left in the dust when it comes to the marriage thingy, you are not alone
It's ok to not want to get married
It's ok for you to have other priorities than marriage- it doesn't make you weird

Not everyone can/will get married
Even the word of God makes it clear that an individual can remain unmarried

Evina:
So your idea of marriage is that you are "taking care" of another adult?

Is it not the women that should be more afraid?

We cook for you, do your laundary, keep the home tidy, bear you children, raise them and still make financial contributions.

You really are weird.

what is there in fixing domestic chores? I really wonder why n how women see that as a tasking job? I'm single and my house is always very clean; my laundry well tidy; just so u know; I don't have a maid; so u don't need the extra ordinary intelligence of eistein to know; I do those myself; I never see that as tasking; it is just my daily routine...

xcapizt:


Brother, wallahi, I tell you, you're not the only one. I truly, sincerely see no point in it. Especially with the rate of marital failure. People seldom enjoy the contraption called marriage, it usually gets sour with time and they endure it!

Reading some diaries on the diary section further confirms that to me.

Like, when I sit to think about it I seriously don't ever want to get married. I have only one life why trap myself in something I don't enjoy? When I mentioned it to my mother she shouted "god forbid!" people think it's weird but.....

I may just be young and experiencing a phase, I hope.

i swear , this is me.

Can be really scary. I feel the same way, maybe because I'm not yet married.
I guess it's like anything not yet experienced, the fears, concerns but when you get into it,it becomes easy. Like an exam,a journey to a new locale.

Raymondenyi:
OPp I feel u joor; I'm in same bus with you.

Which route are you guys taking make i know perhaps i go join una...

killerman47:
I really seem not to understand, forme the idea of bringing in another adult into my house(an adult like me with two legs, two arms, two eyes, not in anyway handicapped), and start taking care OF her, seeing to every other needs really freaks me out, forme it seems so weird and incomprehensible, I find it difficult coming to terms with it.
Most of my friends are married (I happen to have chaired most of their c ' tee of friends), when I discuss this with them, and try asking them how they cope with that, they will burst into hysterical laughter, and will never address my question......

Please nairalanders I need answers .... is it (marriage) not a weird idea? Or my the weird one here?

Honest answers needed.

I don't expect you to have a girlfriend

op you are not alone on this one


marriage seems a means to NO end