A close friend of mine was discussing about a Christian Lady she meet this early year while going to Work, both of them are very close now to the extend of the Lady inviting him to visit her at home and even cooking for him, dishing the food in the same plate for both to eat together at several occasion ..but my friend has fallen Love in now with the Lady now but he eventually told her His intentions, The Lady response was that she will pray about it... Need Experience(s) advice, Is the Lady worth waiting for?

Religion breaking relationship since the Days of Adam

iceberylin:
Religion breaking relationship since the Days of Adam

Abi...

Iceberylin.. I tire too for this religion thing, and my friend no fit wait again ooo

And whats wrong with her praying about it?? Praying about it wont take more than a month so ur friend should be patient and respect her decision/religion

@medunah.. Nothing is wrong oo with praying about it, but it will be the third month by Dec ending.. What will you do if you are in his shoes?

What is good is worth waiting for.

charlie.. u friend n u shld be matured enough 2 read d writing on d wall. if it takes 2 year 2 pray over a small yes. den d happiness in such relationship hangs on a threat

Hoe-kay nice
But the problem hw is the spirit going to tell her he is de main man

askakim:
@medunah.. Nothing is wrong oo with praying about it, but it will be the third month by Dec ending.. What will you do if you are in his shoes?

Oh well!! I didnt know he has waited for that long, if he really likes her, he should wait a lil longer and if no response still, he should move on.
But has he asked her recently if she hasnt recieved answers to her prayers?

askakim:
Iceberylin.. I tire too for this religion thing, and my friend no fit wait again ooo

Him no see better babe toast

Free all these deeper life &Chosen babes

@medunah.. He asked her again last 2 weeks but the Lady don't want to open up about the Prayers, but I suspect the Lady is just been careful because she is spiritually inclined...

askakim:
@medunah.. Nothing is wrong oo with praying about it, but it will be the third month by Dec ending.. What will you do if you are in his shoes?

Is it the third month after she gave the I WILL PRAY ABOUT IT responce

@chimerse.. Some ladies depends on the hidden man of the heart(innermost mind), when it comes to going into a courtship/relationship....and it works for the ones who know who to build up their spirit mind ONLY

askakim:
@medunah.. He asked her again last 2 weeks but the Lady don't want to open up about the Prayers, but I suspect the Lady is just been careful because she is spiritually inclined...

Well, i think ur friend should be firm and straight foward when next he is asking, God isnt a God of confusion, either its him or he is not!! But, if i may ask, is ur friend also a deep christian?? maybe thats where her hesitation is coming from.

make she pray na as xtian sister concern

@dre11.. It will be the third month by ending of december... He asked her early october due to the advice I gave him...

@medunah.. My friend is still a baby christian and the Lady happens to be an vibrant worker in her church again.. But don't know why the babe dey delay things?

Which kind prayer be that one wey she dey do thats taking this long? God gave us brain to use for common sense apart from praying. Things like these are straightforward. Does she like him or not? Yes or No. With what she has observed from him personality wise, is the guy relationship worthy? Very straightforward questions the guy is meant to ask her. If she keeps playing the "Prayer" game with him, let him move onto the next babe he sees o. Dnt be surprised if he moves on to another lady, she will start to give him green light when its already too late..

askakim:
@medunah.. My friend is still a baby christian and the Lady happens to be an vibrant worker in her church again.. But don't know why the babe dey delay things?

'baby christian' is the reason why she dey delay. She is being careful maybe ur guy should step up abit. Btw i don hear abt response wey take up to one year before yes came so u friend should exercise patience.

Sophyrocks:
Which kind prayer be that one wey she dey do thats taking this long? God gave us brain to use for common sense apart from praying. Things like these are straightforward. Does she like him or not? Yes or No. With what she has observed from him personality wise, is the guy relationship worthy? Very straightforward questions the guy is meant to ask her. If she keeps playing the "Prayer" game with him, let him move onto the next babe he sees o. Dnt be surprised if he moves on to another lady, she will start to give him green light when its already too late..

relationship for a committed christian is usually more than like and emotions.

Advertico:
relationship for a committed christian is usually more than like and emotions.

You took the words right outta my mouth. You would be surprised that the guy you like will be the guy God doesnt want you to marry!!

Advertico:
relationship for a committed christian is usually more than like and emotions.

So how long is a committed christian to wait? You are going to live with the personality of your partner, Yes or No? How do you get to know someone if you dnt get close to the person? if she is scared about it, she could simply tell him that they need to know each other more before a relationship and not prayer ish. Prayer alone is not enough oooo. We have eyes and brain for a purpose. Back up your prayer with actions.

@askakim, then ur friend should be patient and he should also pray about it!!

askakim:
@dre11.. It will be the third month by ending of december... He asked her early october due to the advice I gave him...

Am sure
She is not just praying
She is testing ur friends level of tolerance and wanting for her

Sophyrocks:


So how long is a committed christian to wait? You are going to live with the personality of your partner, Yes or No? How do you get to know someone if you dnt get close to the person? if she is scared about it, she could simply tell him that they need to know each other more before a relationship and not prayer ish. Prayer alone is not enough oooo. We have eyes and brain for a purpose. Back up your prayer with actions.

She is meant to wait till when she is sure that God wants him for her....a born again christian would want to also marry someone who is spiritually inclined and not someone who will draw her away from God, so since he is still a baby christian, she is checking if he will backslide at some point or step up his game spiritually.

If I hear .... Are our christian sisters not advised not to invite or visit guy(s) in their houses again?. Okay! Before eating the food with him, didn't she or they pray? Does she not pray before inviting the guy, cooking, dishing and eating together with the guy so as not to do those things? She don make gentle man fall inside something wey no gentle(love), she now remembers prayer.

Abeg make ur friend shine him eye wella, the sister fit be one of those girls lying and pretending under the umbrella of am a christian. Op ur friend never dey feel any movements in his shorts eachtime he's with her? Ur friend should give her a counter attack if she'll be able to defend it and not allow him to score her .

Medunah:
And whats wrong with her praying about it?? Praying about it wont take more than a month so ur friend should be patient and respect her decision/religion

So one month is not too long right? Y is it not for a year. Not in that type of situation does it need to take time

askakim:
@medunah.. He asked her again last 2 weeks but the Lady don't want to open up about the Prayers, but I suspect the Lady is just been careful because she is spiritually inclined...

No be only spiritually inclined.

Tell your friend not to spend on such a girl carelessly.

She is a confused lady.

Won't say any further..

She told me she wants to pray about it. I said okay. She finally said no answer. I said ok. She wanted to take me to bed, I refused. She said she has lost feelings for me. I said no problem. I told her, I am about marrying someone else, she kept asking who she was. I told her, its none of her business. She became angry, asking " Are we not friends " ?

These are confused species..

I don't knw what advice to give him again??

Medunah:

She is meant to wait till when she is sure that God wants him for her....a born again christian would want to also marry someone who is spiritually inclined and not someone who will draw her away from God, so since he is still a baby christian, she is checking if he will backslide at some point or step up his game spiritually.

Fine. that means she needs to make more observations and get to know him more. That is a better tangible answer she is to give to him. He will then understand and be patient. she has to be more realistic with her answer. You keep praying even in relationship not to talk of before relationship because not all relationships lead to marriage. More revelations will be revealed while dating not just before dating. Engagements and introductions break off everyday.

I can't wait this far was the advice I told him when he asked me?