1 – My Daughter, the way to a man’s heart is no longer his stomach but the quality of your brain.

2 – My daughter, if your man must be Tall, Dark and
Handsome then be ready to be the 2nd best because what you desire, others’ seek too.

3 – My daughter, if you allow your parents’/family/friend pressure push you into marriage, you may end up a single mother.

4 – My daughter, man that slaps you before marriage will build a boxing ring after marriage. Guess who his opponent will be – YOU!

5 - My daughter, A man’s greatest need in this world is to be respected, and the person he desires that respect from the most is his wife. Take it from me, when respect is given even when he doesn’t deserve it, it will motivate him to earn it.


6 – Daughter, if what attracted him to you are your bosoms and the sexy legs you flaunted, the contents of your brain had better keep him, else, there are too many well-rounded and bigger bosoms waiting to snatch him away.

7 – My daughter, the truth is men love sex, at least 95% that I’m aware of. To him, if you can’t continue, don’t start! If you start, don’t stop! Be careful!

8 – My daughter, if he doesn’t discuss future plans with you in the picture, he just want a fling, take note!

9 – My daughter, even when you trust each other, a little jealousy reminds him that you care.

10 – My daughter, men love a listener. No matter how much you want your opinion to push through, listen to his details and don’t counter it.

11 – My daughter, when you are already living with him before marriage (trial marriage), he won’t propose quickly. So, don't be upset, you caused it!

12 – My daughter, don’t waste your years waiting for an unserious man to propose just because his parents love you, you are going to be married and live with him, not his parents.

13 – My daughter, when you seek his advice, you make him feel more of a man than he is.

14 – My daughter, our encouragement or concern about his career or job works faster than listening to a motivational tape.

15 - My daughter, an engagement ring isn’t an assurance for marriage, it could possibly make you his regular sex-mate. It has happened to many, u better learn.

16 - My daughter, be wise! Men are childlike, to draw them nearer is the easiest. Be hatch with him, and he will run after someone else, but care and pamper him, he will be your forever.

17 - My daughter, you need to guard you heart. The grass is not greener on the other side. Do not believe the lie that with a slimmer figure, a higher salary, a faster car, or a bigger house, you will be a happier woman. The world is full of things and people that will serve as reminders that you don’t have the best of the best, but it’s simply not true. Live the life you’ve been blessed with, and BE THANKFUL.

18 - My daughter, learn to forgive. No one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes. If you make forgiveness a habit – for everything from major mistakes to little annoyances you will keep resentment from growing.

19 - My daughter, choose to love and stay in love. There are times in a marriage that you may wake up and not feel in love anymore. Choose to love anyway. There are times when you may not be attracted to your husband anymore. Choose to love anyway. Marriage is a commitment.

20. My daughter, put God first and master the act of praying.

afolag:
suggestion: OPEN LETTER FROM MOTHER TO DAUGHTER

eminentme:
nice piece but the question is, 'is this piece of advice meant for our Nigerian wayward girls or those who school in France'?

eminentme:
nice piece but the question is, 'is this piece of advice meant for our Nigerian wayward girls or those who school in France'?

eminentme:
nice piece but the question is, 'is this piece of advice meant for our Nigerian wayward girls or those who school in France'?

eminentme:
nice piece but the question is, 'is this piece of advice meant for our Nigerian w
ayward girls or those who school in France'?

msmon:



Composed by msmon

msmon:
You are right afolag, but it's a parallel thread to the one created by our friend Jidefido on Nov 28
[www.nairaland.com/2020083/words-father-son-women-marriage]. So, I decide to maintain the same title will necessary alteration to it. Over to RoyalBoy and Tgirl4real.
Tag: xcelsia, khaffi, IfyAwazie, parismarc

msmon:



Composed by msmon

2CatWoman:


You just wrote that advice from a man's point of view.

2CatWoman:
As soon as I started reading your OP I knew that you couldn't be a woman. If this is your personal requirements for a wife then fine. Everyone is different. I had no problem with the other thread as I believe it was written by a man.