Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,200,420 members, 7,974,710 topics. Date: Monday, 14 October 2024 at 10:07 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? (2402 Views)
A Gift From My Friend! Should I Be Grateful Or I Should Return It Back To Him? / I Slept Wth My Gf's Bossom Friend! Should I Confess To My Bae / He Tells Everyone We're "Just Friends!"" (2) (3) (4)
We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by YoungWiseCash: 8:17am On Nov 30, 2014 |
We've been friends for a year now. I get to know her through my girlfriend who's also her friend. This friend of mine always request money for her upkeep which my girl won't know about. When I have I do give her somtimes I don't. One day, I took a bold step and ask her don't she have a boyfriend, am i the. one who should be responsible for her needs? she reply she dont. And said want friends for if I can't help her. Is she right? Remember we're not into any sort of relationship and do not share any affection. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by iceberylin(m): 8:21am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Sow for you shall Reap tomorrow 1 Like |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 8:25am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Help her.. But i think u should let ur gf know.. Just incase. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by MisterLongman(m): 8:27am On Nov 30, 2014 |
@Op Continue to pay for goods wey you no buy 2 Likes |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by chibwike(m): 8:28am On Nov 30, 2014 |
That one concern you |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 8:30am On Nov 30, 2014 |
so boyfs are for upkeeps! Interesting. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 8:31am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Even if you are her boyfriend, I don't believe you have any responsibility for her upkeep. For crying out loud, you are not her parent It's cool if you choose to help her with the consent of your girl but you owe her no such responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Princecalm(m): 8:32am On Nov 30, 2014 |
You are not in anyway responsible for that unless you choose to. I guess you started it all by claiming you are too nice from the beginning. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by farano(f): 8:47am On Nov 30, 2014 |
"Just friends?" lol |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 8:52am On Nov 30, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:girls will always stand up for each other first before even taking time to assess d situation. so he should keep giving her money while someone else is shining her Congo? n u c nothing wrong in a girl continously asking a guy for money with the lame excuse that 'what r friends for if u can't help me'. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by jmoore(m): 8:55am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Post your account balance before I give you an advice. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 9:00am On Nov 30, 2014 |
striktlymi:as her bf u hv a lot of responsibility for her upkeep. I can't personally date a lady who wouldn't b at least financially dependent on me for one thing or the other. Besides it's stingy for her to give u her self n all u do is sweet talk her...spend on ur woman. Infact if she asks for nothing she deserves everything. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 9:06am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Prixus: No lady owe a guy 'her self', except the lady is the guys wife. A lady who gives herself to a guy because she feels obligated to, is very silly and unwise. You won't catch me within a mile of such a lady. I do not owe any lady, who is not my wife, the responsibility for her upkeep. If you choose to take it as your responsibility then well and good, not me. 1 Like |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 9:08am On Nov 30, 2014 |
chidyhels:other than upkeep n sex what else r they for? marriage? if na so girls won't hv so mny n bleep so many before settling down with only one. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by valmunich(m): 9:14am On Nov 30, 2014 |
I just don't know what to tell this Maga |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 9:15am On Nov 30, 2014 |
striktlymi:I c ur point. I take it u can't have a gf then... |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 9:18am On Nov 30, 2014 |
valmunich:lol...Bros u wicked o...u don go talk d thing wey everybody get for mind... |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by mexzony: 9:52am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Ode oshi |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by LEvuls(m): 10:13am On Nov 30, 2014 |
YoungWiseCash: OP its a question of am i responsible for Down keeps If u do then anything she asks for shouldnt be a worry to you 1 Like |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Booty4me: 11:33am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Starting what you can't finish.. Dude can't keep up .. Niggar want out heheh |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by gonon: 12:01pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Dude, I just have one question. Are you her only friend? Even if you are, you must stop this useless act immediately whether you have a girlfriend or not. How can someone use "friendship" as a means to extort you and you agree? 1) Friends are not parasites. You had better unfriend her in your interest. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by YoungWiseCash: 12:57pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
jmoore:If I post the screenshot of my account balance you will be moved to require for my address. lol |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by YoungWiseCash: 1:05pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
valmunich:....talking as if you are different. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by YoungWiseCash: 1:07pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
gonon:putting what you said in consideration.. I think you hav a point in what you said. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by valmunich(m): 1:26pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
YoungWiseCash:I bet you're the OP Mister get this straight, you're the greatest Maga ever liveth trust me. .. How can you allow someone extort you in the name of 'friendship' Don't you have a family member to help |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Hexzyz(m): 2:13pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
A little generosity, they want to take full advantage. That is why I grow wary of them. :-( |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by YoungWiseCash: 2:33pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
valmunich:Don't want to reply you with the tune you used. Two people can't be mad at the same time. that's you own point of veiw.. Thanks. anyway for your opinion. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by wordbank(m): 2:56pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
chidyhels:In fact I'm confused 1 Like |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Prixus:dont be stupid! I didnt say it was right u i diot i just said he can help her, but he should consult his gf first. What if the case was reversed? She will help him. We should help others if we can and have the money. Its selfish guys like u that later become poor (if ur not already poor sef) in future because of how stingy and self centered u were to others. So he must shine her congo bfor he helps her?? U see how stupidd u sound? Peverted humanbeing. Mtchew |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:I'm sorry. I don't trade insults on NL... |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Evina(f): 4:31pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Why are you guys calling the op unflattering names? Do you guys not see his moniker? "Youngwisecash". I beg op carry on, she must chop your money, chop your money, chop your money cos you don't care. |
Re: We're Just Friend; Should I Be Responsible For Her Up-keeps? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Prixus:whatevs, just dont quote me ever again. I dont chit-chat with lame ppl on nl.thanks. |
Girls: How Do You Know A Guy's Future Is Bright? / I Need To Know, "Meaning Of Rings On Every Finger Of A Lady" / Lady Admits Sleeping With Her Dad On Radio Because He's Sweet! (listen)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 38 |