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10 Things That Women Wish Men Understood About Them by akannium(m): 1:19am On Dec 01, 2014 |
#1: I love it when we spend quality time together: 87 percent of women said they would give up part of their husband’s salary if they could spend more quality time together. Make time for her, guys! #2: I need to feel loved: Actions speak louder than words. Everything from taking out the trash to hugs and kisses assures a wife that her husband cares for her. This should be natural for you because working for those you love is one of your love languages. #3: I also need to hear you say that love me – Everyday: Telling your wife that you love her before, during, or after sex doesn’t count! Make “I love you” part of your daily language to her. #4: I hate that I always have to initiate conversation: Make it a point to talk to your wife about your day and hers. It may be difficult but it’s a part of creating a team. Why is it so tough for men to communicate? A great deal of research has been done of this subject with some interesting results… #5: I love romance: Guys, it’s no good if the only time you are affectionate is when you want sex! We need to hold hands, hug, kiss, etc. on a regular basis or we feel neglected. This is not groping, mind you! This is a soft caress, a warm embrace and kiss on the cheek. A UCLA study found that women need 8-10 meaningful touches every day. In fact, 80% of a woman’s daily need is for nonsexual touching. So keep those XOXO’s coming! #6: I love sex – I just need romance first: A woman needs to have an emotional connection with you in order to have great sex. Men are like microwave ovens and women are like crock pots. So do some slow roasting, boys! #7: I need to be treated like your partner: We are conquering life together. We are a team. We need to be equal in decision making, budgeting, parenting, etc. Don’t make me feel inferior, treat me like your slave or make me parent you like your mother did. I need a husband, not a son. #8: You need you to share your emotions with me: It’s not enough to bring home a paycheck. While that helps keep your wife feeling secure, women need your emotional support, as well. Help out in every way you can from changing diapers and midnight feedings (if you have kids) to equally dividing household chores keeps us united. Please say good-bye to your antiquated ideas of “women’s work” and be willing to help with everything. #9: I need you to listen and not always offer a solution: Women offer sympathy, men offer solutions. This is natural. However, women need men to listen to them and not necessarily give advice. I know it’s hard to nod and be supportive while she goes on about her day, but the fact is, your woman will go to the ends of the earth to love you when you truly listen to her and acknowledge her needs. Nod. Get involved. Look her in the eye. Actively listen to what she says and provide nonverbal feedback. Be truly interested in what she is saying without worrying about what you’re going to say next. Then, watch what happens as your woman opens up more and more to you. #10: I need you to be generous with your money: Don’t be a tightwad! A woman has a deep need for security and your generosity goes a long way in letting her know that you are there to take care of her. Allow the marriage to be a true partnership. This includes the money. source opendoorohio.com 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Things That Women Wish Men Understood About Them by Ghyft(f): 5:42am On Dec 01, 2014 |
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Re: 10 Things That Women Wish Men Understood About Them by TDstarr: 5:45am On Dec 01, 2014 |
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Re: 10 Things That Women Wish Men Understood About Them by youngprof2n(m): 5:53am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Nice write up except dt no 10...Lol.... 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things That Women Wish Men Understood About Them by akannium(m): 9:45am On Dec 01, 2014 |
youngprof2n:If you think there is more, i reckon you share with us. Thanks! |
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