Self-empowerment is not something that anyone is born with, the confidence that you need to empower yourself, is learned. If you are truly connected to yourself, you believe in yourself and you have the confidence to make yourself heard, then you can take back control of your life and you can achieve your goals. Here are ten attitudes that anyone can learn that will empower you and help to improve your life:

1. Speak your mind
Don’t be afraid to express your opinions, because they are just as valid as the next persons. Stand up for what you believe and make yourself heard, and then you will have achieved the first step to empowerment.

2. Visualise yourself as a stronger person
Picture yourself as the person that you would like to be. Think about how more confident people would deal with certain situations and, visualise yourself doing the same. You can learn from other people whilst still being yourself.

3. Think about how you can help others
Worrying about you, all the time, can make you become introverted and afraid to express yourself. Think, instead, about other people, and what you can do for them. When you focus more on helping people, and strengthening friendships, you can start to feel better yourself and have more control over your life.
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