Through a Rapist's Eyes (No Joke)
When this was sent to me, I was told to
forward it to my lady friends, but I forwarded
it to most everyone in my address book. My
men friends have female friends and this
Information is too important to miss
someone.
Please pass it along and share it with your
children.
A group of rapists and date rapists in prison
were interviewed on what they look for in a
potential victim and here are some interesting
facts:
1) The first thing men look for in a potential
victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go
after a woman witha ponytail, bun, braid or
other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed .
They are also likely to go after a woman with
long hair . Women with short hair are not
common targets.
2) The second thing men look for is clothing.
They will look for women who's clothing is
easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry
scissors around specifically to cut clothing.
3) They also look for women on their cell
phone, searching through their purse, or
doing other activities while walking because
they are off-guard and can be easily
overpowered.
4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the
early morning, between 5: 00a.m. and
8:30a.m.
5) The number one place women are abducted
from/attacked is grocery store parking lots.
The number two:office parking lots/garages.
Number three: public restrooms.
6) The thing about these men is that they are
looking to grab a woman and quickly move her
to another location where they don't have to
worry about getting caught.
7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because
rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with
a weapon is 15-20 years.
If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they
get discouraged because it only takes a minute
or two for them to realize that going after you
isn't worth it because it will be time-
consuming.
9) These men said they would not pick on
women who have umbrellas, or other similar
objects that can be used from a distance, in
their hands
Keys are NOT a deterrent because you have to
get really close to the attacker to use them as
a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these
guys you're not worth it.
10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us
are: If someone is following behind you on a
street or in a garage or with you in an elevator
or stairwell, look them in the face and ask
them a question, like what time is it?, or make
general small talk: 'I can't believe it is so cold
out here,' 'We're in for a bad winter.' Now
you've seen their face and could identify them
in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.
11) If someone is coming toward you, hold
out your hands in front of you and yell STOP!
or STAY BACK! Most of the rapists this man
talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if
she yelled or showed that she would not be
afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking
for an EASY target.
12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor
was a huge advocate of it and carries it with
him wherever he goes), yell I HAVE PEPPER
SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.
13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them
with strength but you can by outsmarting
them. If you are grabbed around the waist
from behind, pinch the attacker either under
the Arm (between the elbow and armpit)OR in
the upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD. One
woman in a class t his guy taught told him she
used the underarm pinch on a guy who was
trying to date rape her and was so upset she
broke through the skin and tore out muscle
strands - the guy needed stitches. Try pinching
yourself in those places as hard as you can
stand it - it hurts.
14) After the initial hit, always GO for the
GROIN. I know from a particularly
unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's
parts it is extremely painful. You might think
that you'll anger the guy and make him want
to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists
told our instructor is that they want a woman
who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start
causing trouble and he's out of there.
15) When the guy puts his hands up to you,
grab his first two fingers and bend them back
as far as possible with as much pressure
pushing down on them as possible. The
instructor did it to me without using much
pressure, and I ended up on my knees and
both knuckles cracked audibly.
16) Of course the things we always hear still
apply. Always be aware of your surroundings,
take someone with you if you can and if you
see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with
your instincts!!!
You may feel a little silly at the time, but
you'd feel much worse if the guy really was
trouble.

Ok! Thanks ops. Going to cut ogrimapa . Missberrypop5,come and learn oooooooo

does these strategies works if they are more than 1?

echobee:
Ok! Thanks ops. Going to cut ogrimapa . Missberrypop5,come and learn oooooooo

lol, scary I love the pepper spray part. Just spill the shii in his eyes and blind him for some mins or hrs

Dahjhi:



Cheii.. what a topic, why people rap nah?
Dear this is when u will know pepper spray should be part of ur handbag content..

who am i sawing
Well, I take body spray with me anywhere i go, that is alcoholic ones.


Btw Who go even deh plan this kin thing for me? He no deh fear face?