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Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by sillyboy(m): 10:18pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
@ Topic. Presently,. . . . .hell NO! |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by smurf1(f): 10:19pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
sillyboy: For me yes, |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by sillyboy(m): 10:30pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
~smurf: Y the angry face? For me, my best friend is a guy and I dont do guys. . . .am as straight as a nail. (A guy can never be my lover) |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by StephenP(m): 10:34pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
sillyboy: You got it all wrong. She's asking if your girlfriend is your best friend? |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by sillyboy(m): 10:46pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
StephenP: Stephen, we are still saying the samething here. My best friend is a man and not a girl. Best friend is someone you trust and can confide in easily be it a man or a woman. In this case, mine happens to be a man. |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by StephenP(m): 11:01pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
sillyboy: LOL Oh God! DaPhoenix: |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by debosky(m): 11:09pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
Unfortunately this is common in a lot of young couples - you date someone for the attraction, the chemistry, the increased heart rate when you're around them. But often times, you don't get to do other things except boyfriend and girlfriend stuff - dates, romantic dinners and the like. most of the time, before meeting this 'special someone' you have friends who you've grown together and share interests with - those ones are the ones that truly know you and share your heart. Sometimes we get lucky and find that person who is already relatively in sync, or we date people we've been friends with first, so the 'normal hanging out' part is already there. In those cases, it's not an issue. Many times though, the person who drives you crazy is not too crazy about the things you like - after the initial passion dies down, these differences become more evident and break ups usually occur and we wonder 'why did he leave me or why did she leave me? we were so in love'. relationships are hard work, both parties need to make sure their partners are their very good friends, even if not best friends, and that they share similar passions even if they have others that are not shared. Most importantly, you need to TRY. One of my gfs LOVED to watch next top model, and it would make me want to break something, but I gritted my teeth and watched it with her, and she appreciated it. Make an effort and you'll reap the benefits later on. |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by omitutu: 11:44pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
debosky: Now why can't I ever write posts like this. . . . Sensible, well written, good syntax, and correct punctuation. |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by tope2000(f): 11:50pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
debosky: Are u single |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by JJYOU: 11:52pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
If |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by debosky(m): 11:53pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
The more important question is are YOU single? *I no want wahala from brap! brap! boys - Brash, Chamo and co.* |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by DavidDylan(m): 11:54pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
omi tutu: the debosky guy too know book. kai. But i gotta agree, his post pretty much sums up my thots. |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by MrCrackles(m): 11:54pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
debosky: Carry go Debosky! Brash lowo sii |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by tope2000(f): 11:55pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
debosky: Dead!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Brash n i broke up na Altho im with sauron now |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by MrCrackles(m): 11:59pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
Poster Yes |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by StephenP(m): 11:59pm On Dec 03, 2008 |
tope2000: *cough* Oh really? @Debosky, that was pretty good. |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by omitutu: 12:02am On Dec 04, 2008 |
All this one wey una dey praise Debo so . . . abegi, make e carry go too much good sense will make a woman use man as aso akisa |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by tope2000(f): 12:03am On Dec 04, 2008 |
StephenP: Baby, u know we both have an understanding as to where we stand with each other And have have been with Daphoenix all this while and i didnt complain but u know all u have to do is claim ya girl and I'm urs again |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by A40(m): 12:05am On Dec 04, 2008 |
Yes my lover would have to be my best friend because i don't exactly have friends that i am over intimate with so my lover is almost an automatic pick for the best friend spot |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by StephenP(m): 12:09am On Dec 04, 2008 |
omi tutu: Hating already? What happened to omi tutu: tope2000: LOL . . . you're such a playa. I can't even keep up with you! |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by tope2000(f): 12:11am On Dec 04, 2008 |
I learned from the best honey |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by debosky(m): 12:13am On Dec 04, 2008 |
Nothing to praise anyone about really, these are lessons I've learned the hard way over the years. Still learning some of them even now. omi tutu:I get what you mean bro, you need some 'bad sense' too - moderation is the key Personally, I don't really get into this 'best friend' thing - the last time I had a discernible 'best friend' was when I was in JSS 2/3 - after that I just had friends. I hung out with some more than others, but no one person that could be so defined as a 'best friend'. I just don't think they are necessary after a certain age. |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by StephenP(m): 12:16am On Dec 04, 2008 |
tope2000: Hmm . . . I know I didn't teach you that. I only remember teaching you to be more flexible with your legs and such but not that. |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by Pataki: 12:16am On Dec 04, 2008 |
omi tutu:This is so funny. Aso akisa indeed. Where you not the one praising him the other time back? |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by tope2000(f): 12:21am On Dec 04, 2008 |
StephenP: Yeah . . . . . amongst other things |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by DavidDylan(m): 12:24am On Dec 04, 2008 |
Tope - professional thread derailer . . . na railway station you dey work? |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by omitutu: 12:28am On Dec 04, 2008 |
No mind am. . . .e jus dey flash im Oyan Tutu for everybody from lagbaja to emulewu |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by tmoney11(m): 12:33am On Dec 04, 2008 |
Smiling !!! |
Re: Is Your Lover Your Bestfriend? by tope2000(f): 12:40am On Dec 04, 2008 |
DavidDylan: Babe no mind me o |
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