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10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by CuteEmma(f): 9:06pm On Dec 04, 2014
1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.
2. Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life. 3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.
4. Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.
5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.
6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.
7. The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.
8. Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.
9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.
10. If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini- divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you. True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all - the love nest of marriage.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by AfricanApple(f): 9:25pm On Dec 04, 2014
while I agree with u dat sex should wait after marriage, some of your points are out of bound

virginity can not be the most precious thing one can give to her husband, at least it depends on the man
to any woman if that's the most precious thing u have to offer, u need to stop existing and live

by waiting till marriage does not mean u can't contract any of those diseases, they are available anytime any day anywhere

if loosing your virginity makes your academic performance and your social activities with family and friends decline, biko u need to visit babalawo for deliverance

I always say this: it will be very very very foolish of any woman to keep her virginity because she is saving it for her future husband
if u wanna keep your virginity, keep it for your own good, not because of any man that has been phocking since 1900













btw, all these talks about virginity and sex are becoming too boring these days sad

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by herald9: 10:14pm On Dec 04, 2014
AfricanApple:
while I agree with u dat sex should wait after marriage, some of your points are out of bound

virginity can not be the most precious thing one can give to her husband, at least it depends on the man
to any woman if that's the most precious thing u have to offer, u need to stop existing and live

by waiting till marriage does not mean u can't contract any of those diseases, they are available anytime any day anywhere

if loosing your virginity makes your academic performance and your social activities with family and friends decline, biko u need to visit babalawo for deliverance

I always say this: it will be very very very foolish of any woman to keep her virginity because she is saving it for her future husband
if u wanna keep your virginity, keep it for your own good, not because of any man that has been phocking since 1900













btw, all these talks about virginity and sex are becoming too boring these days sad

grin
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by Cholls(m): 10:41pm On Dec 04, 2014
My sister educate me more I will ask question later cheesy
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by IamLEGEND1: 10:47pm On Dec 04, 2014
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by etazi0001: 8:27am On Dec 05, 2014
AfricanApple:
while I agree with u dat sex should wait after marriage, some of your points are out of bound

virginity can not be the most precious thing one can give to her husband, at least it depends on the man
to any woman if that's the most precious thing u have to offer, u need to stop existing and live

by waiting till marriage does not mean u can't contract any of those diseases, they are available anytime any day anywhere

if loosing your virginity makes your academic performance and your social activities with family and friends decline, biko u need to visit babalawo for deliverance

I always say this: it will be very very very foolish of any woman to keep her virginity because she is saving it for her future husband
if u wanna keep your virginity, keep it for your own good, not because of any man that has been phocking since 1900













btw, all these talks about virginity and sex are becoming too boring these days sad
AfricanApple:
while I agree with u dat sex should wait after marriage, some of your points are out of bound

virginity can not be the most precious thing one can give to her husband, at least it depends on the man
to any woman if that's the most precious thing u have to offer, u need to stop existing and live

by waiting till marriage does not mean u can't contract any of those diseases, they are available anytime any day anywhere

if loosing your virginity makes your academic performance and your social activities with family and friends decline, biko u need to visit babalawo for deliverance

I always say this: it will be very very very foolish of any woman to keep her virginity because she is saving it for her future husband
if u wanna keep your virginity, keep it for your own good, not because of any man that has been phocking since 1900













btw, all these talks about virginity and sex are becoming too boring these days sad
AfricanApple:
while I agree with u dat sex should wait after marriage, some of your points are out of bound

virginity can not be the most precious thing one can give to her husband, at least it depends on the man
to any woman if that's the most precious thing u have to offer, u need to stop existing and live

by waiting till marriage does not mean u can't contract any of those diseases, they are available anytime any day anywhere

if loosing your virginity makes your academic performance and your social activities with family and friends decline, biko u need to visit babalawo for deliverance

I always say this: it will be very very very foolish of any woman to keep her virginity because she is saving it for her future husband
if u wanna keep your virginity, keep it for your own good, not because of any man that has been phocking since 1900














btw, all these talks about virginity and sex are becoming too boring these days sad
point of correctionu will never contact any of those diesase i you anbstain from pre marita sex
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by AJ01(m): 8:32am On Dec 05, 2014
CuteEmma:
1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.
2. Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life. 3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.
4. Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.
5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.
6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.
7. The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.
8. Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.
9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.
10. If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini- divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you. True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all - the love nest of marriage.
Virgin alert grin
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by CuteEmma(f): 8:44am On Dec 05, 2014
AfricanApple:
while I agree with u dat sex should wait after marriage, some of your points are out of bound

virginity can not be the most precious thing one can give to her husband, at least it depends on the man
to any woman if that's the most precious thing u have to offer, u need to stop existing and live

by waiting till marriage does not mean u can't contract any of those diseases, they are available anytime any day anywhere

if loosing your virginity makes your academic performance and your social activities with family and friends decline, biko u need to visit babalawo for deliverance

I always say this: it will be very very very foolish of any woman to keep her virginity because she is saving it for her future husband
if u wanna keep your virginity, keep it for your own good, not because of any man that has been phocking since 1900













btw, all these talks about virginity and sex are becoming too boring these days sad

#People who lost their precious thing in the days of my ancestors.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by chimerase2: 8:53am On Dec 05, 2014
Bia op re u a guy or a gal or u used ua sweet junior sista do DP
or none of the above mentioned lipsrsealed
Back to ua topic
Mind u I dnt fink I will marry a virgin
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by AfricanApple(f): 3:25pm On Dec 05, 2014
etazi0001:
[color=#000099][/color]point of correctionu will never contact any of those diesase i you anbstain from pre marita sex
did u seriously say that or u are just being a clown undecided
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by CuteEmma(f): 8:28pm On Dec 07, 2014
chimerase2:
Bia op re u a guy or a gal or u used ua sweet junior sista do DP
or none of the above mentioned lipsrsealed
Back to ua topic
Mind u I dnt fink I will marry a virgin
Thanks, if you marry a virgin, who would then marry the prostitutes? Or sorry, you're a lady, but why do you make foolish statements like a guy?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by CuteEmma(f): 8:33pm On Dec 07, 2014
AfricanApple:
did u seriously say that or u are just being a clown undecided
If it's possible to contact it without doing it, then why is it called STD?? Bros think with your head, and not your penix.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by Nobody: 9:08pm On Dec 07, 2014
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AfricanApple:
while I agree with u dat sex should wait after marriage, some of your points are out of bound

virginity can not be the most precious thing one can give to her husband, at least it depends on the man
to any woman if that's the most precious thing u have to offer, u need to stop existing and live

by waiting till marriage does not mean u can't contract any of those diseases, they are available anytime any day anywhere

if loosing your virginity makes your academic performance and your social activities with family and friends decline, biko u need to visit babalawo for deliverance

I always say this: it will be very very very foolish of any woman to keep her virginity because [b] she is saving it for her future husband

if u wanna keep your virginity, keep it for your own good, not because of any man that has been phocking since 1900




AN ETERNITY LIKES FOR YOUR COMMENT..............VIRGINITY FUCKINGLY OVER RATED , FROM THE OP CONTENT SHE IS IMPLYING KEEP IT FOR OTHERS AND NOT EVEN FOR HER OWN GOOD. SHE EVEN CONTRADICT HERSELF IN SOME OF HER POINTS....








btw, all these talks about virginity and sex are becoming too boring these days sad
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by Nobody: 9:10pm On Dec 07, 2014
Op,I can only take your advice if only u are a virgin
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by CuteEmma(f): 9:26pm On Dec 07, 2014
ireny:
Op,I can only take your advice if only u are a virgin
I'm a threes0me professional, so don't take my advice.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by Nobody: 9:28pm On Dec 07, 2014
CuteEmma:
I'm a threes0me professional, so don't take my advice.
lol but ur face looks innocent
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by Mprex(f): 10:29pm On Dec 07, 2014
Cool points but Op try to arrange the write up na
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by AfricanApple(f): 11:20pm On Dec 07, 2014
Dozie730:
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bia, come and translate these jargons undecided
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by Impulse80(m): 12:24am On Dec 08, 2014
angry

Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by Yemike(m): 1:13am On Dec 08, 2014
ur points are good tho' but all these talks are becoming boring nowadays. i don't even think for once that i can marry a virgin cuz i don't believe they exist!
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by unibenstudent1(m): 7:20am On Dec 08, 2014
Another look textbook! Op how much will u sell thiss literature textbook'?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by CuteEmma(f): 6:59am On Dec 09, 2014
Yemike:
ur points are good tho' but all these talks are becoming boring nowadays. i don't even think for once that i can marry a virgin cuz i don't believe they exist!

Yeah, they do. I mean 'we do exist. But it doesn't matter whom you marry, virgin or not, What I'm saying is that fornication is bad, to the virgins reading this thread. So they won't make the same mistake others made.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by Nobody: 7:58am On Dec 09, 2014
AfricanApple:
while I agree with u dat sex should wait after marriage, some of your points are out of bound

virginity can not be the most precious thing one can give to her husband, at least it depends on the man
to any woman if that's the most precious thing u have to offer, u need to stop existing and live

by waiting till marriage does not mean u can't contract any of those diseases, they are available anytime any day anywhere

if loosing your virginity makes your academic performance and your social activities with family and friends decline, biko u need to visit babalawo for deliverance

I always say this: it will be very very very foolish of any woman to keep her virginity because she is saving it for her future husband
if u wanna keep your virginity, keep it for your own good, not because of any man that has been phocking since 1900













btw, all these talks about virginity and sex are becoming too boring these days sad
this to me is the comment of the month so far...u said it gud...she's talking from her childish point of view. reality hits us hard
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by AfricanApple(f): 9:08am On Dec 09, 2014
Prixus:

this to me is the comment of the month so far...u said it gud...she's talking from her childish point of view. reality hits us hard
AfricanApple:
bia, come and translate these jargons undecided
Prixus:

this to me is the comment of the month so far...u said it gud...she's talking from her childish point of view. reality hits us hard
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by AfricanApple(f): 9:09am On Dec 09, 2014
Prixus:

this to me is the comment of the month so far...u said it gud...she's talking from her childish point of view. reality hits us hard
Lol, thanks
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by Nobody: 10:51am On Dec 09, 2014
"thou shall wrap it before thou tap it"; with this commandment in mind,5,6,7 and 9 has been taken care of!
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by FLAWLES(f): 10:53am On Dec 09, 2014
Ion buy dis;;;;;
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by CuteEmma(f): 8:36pm On Dec 09, 2014
Prixus:

this to me is the comment of the month so far...u said it gud...she's talking from her childish point of view. reality hits us hard
I don't blame you. 'Cause your lil' itty bitty pri.ck's still hairless, you think you're still a kid huh?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by CuteEmma(f): 8:38pm On Dec 09, 2014
FLAWLES, Daht B¡TcH u don't wana
Exchange \/\/Ords wiFF
8-) MAY18
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage. by FLAWLES(f): 1:17pm On Dec 10, 2014
CuteEmma:
FLAWLES, Daht B¡TcH u don't wana
Exchange \/\/Ords wiFF
8-) MAY18
.wah did i do?

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