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Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by ewizard1: 10:52am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee: The bolded!!! And how did you know him not ready at that moment means "not working something"? He might be working out Millions. You ladies think its that easy to be the Man? Then after getting married, he couldnt meet up some bills, you'll start looking out!!! You just wouldnt understand!!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Classicalmusic: 10:52am On Dec 06, 2014 |
chrisbaba1:Okay good but we shouldn't be selfish you know? If I can let out my girlfriend, why can't her current boyfriend do so? If a man is not yet ready to tie the knot, why keeping the chick? |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by AreaFada2: 10:52am On Dec 06, 2014 |
jaybee3:. My brother I was wondering o. She made friends on fb and in church and got cosy with them enough that all want to marry her. Hmmmm...... Do you just meet a strange lady and want to marry her without some water first passing under the bridge? The story get as e be. Might your boyfriend be sensing that you're continuously on the look-out and therefore doubts your commitment? We men might be oblivious of many things but we're not blind as a bat as some women think. It might even benefit both of you if you walk. 6 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 10:53am On Dec 06, 2014 |
bmoses:true! |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by ewizard1: 10:54am On Dec 06, 2014 |
In my area, kids i saw when they use to roam in Panties are getting married, some will mock jokingly that "heres a very younger you getting married and ask what you are waiting for" I just let out a smile and move away!!! *million Yimus in my mind* |
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Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by suxex4ever: 10:59am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Lovethlovesmike: suxex4ever: wait oo, are you sure its not because your boyfriend is dark in complexion |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by ewizard1: 11:02am On Dec 06, 2014 |
chodosky: 1000 Likes! "Linda & Shasha are married, i must get married too.." Fingers are not equal. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 11:03am On Dec 06, 2014 |
This thing dem dey call marriage sef,na by force nii? |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by tobey2ng(m): 11:03am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee:U guyz nid to sit n talk abt it like matured minds.ask him whre d relationship is heading to;marriage or friendship? When is d wedding cmin up? How many children u guyz want? From d discussion u wil knw whre u stand.Moreso be more prayerful abt it.Wish u d best. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by amunkita(m): 11:05am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Goodquestion: Broz wiv d advises I ve seen dis morning frm d ladies I ve decided to let her go oo. Cous I can't compromise making monii wiv early marriage... As per nwa afo... Yea ur queshion: can't u mk it wiv her? Sure I will mk more then buh e bad say she dey use Range Rover sport carry my kidz go skool. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Uruanguy(m): 11:05am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee:Quite true that you may not know how to double date but definitely know how to triple date! Smh! From your my quick drawing it shows that u been boasting to him about certain things which he certainly finds out to be lies thatz why he dosent just believe u anymore about something that might be serious like this. Have a better view on how u go about with him and u will see the answer within. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by lilmax(m): 11:06am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee:this is wise |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by tivta(m): 11:06am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Nigerian women. Always in a hurry to get married but later complain that their husbands are not treating them right or end up having affairs outside the marriage. Op how old are exactly? If you want a long lasting marriage better marry someone you love and can tolerate not because you will soon reach menopause, trust me have seen lots of women like you who wish they had waited. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by streetzdreamz(m): 11:10am On Dec 06, 2014 |
aisha2:hmmmm,its good to know ladies like u n babymama r still out there,though u took a wrong step @ d onset but u learnt from it n t paid off real good for u,ladies with intellects like u guys should be role models to young naïve minds dat knows virtualy nfn bout life,I do tell ma female friends,nfn stops a lady from getting a man who'l cherish n adore her like a queen,dat @ some point in every ladies life dat real ideal man wud pop out n ts left for em to either choose to stick to him or put him off n go for losers,@op I believe d solution to ur problem's been laid bare for u by this two ladies,I wish u d best. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by ewizard1: 11:11am On Dec 06, 2014 |
See, OP... Just like edwife said... "go with your intuition,let your heart,brain speak for you" But please, dont hesitate to give us the feedback (Wedding, Honeymoon pictures, etc) and if its the opposite, please still share... You would educate so many more!!! GoodLuck!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 11:11am On Dec 06, 2014 |
aisha2:doesn't make your life better than his, so don't sound like you won. The happiness of today can still turn sour tomorrow. Doesn't mean he won't also meet that super woman who might be your role model. Since you're married why not release him from the picture rather paint him a devil who wasted your time 4 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Goodquestion(m): 11:12am On Dec 06, 2014 |
amunkita: Some girls are good at giving wrong advises but don't give up on her that will be termed hart break from her side. My own girl is now behaving weird but i will not let go except she chose to. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by wo1F(m): 11:16am On Dec 06, 2014 |
coogar: Cooger you're so spot on. As men we can't keep up with our agemates in this marriage business. May God help my girlfriend and I. We're both 24. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 11:21am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Lovethlovesmike:Ladies are just unfaithful. You're still chating guys up on facebook and getting closer to church guys and am sure when he ask you'll respond in your usual lies ,we are just friends. now you feel your life is more fulfilled than his? 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Sleekyshuga(f): 11:23am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Wow... Quite an eye opener, and a whole lot to learn .. @FavourGee, it's quite glaring that you and your boyfriend aren't on the same pace.. In relationships, we should learn to watch out for its 'Success/Growth/Appreciation or its Failures/Depreciation'.. Also, note that LOVE alone is not enough to build up a home.. Sacrifices, Commitments, Communications, etc are also KEYS that'll stand the test of time in marriages when love begins to wear out.. I consider you lucky, that in your late 20's, you still have 5 suitors trying to get your attention ... Women are like flowers, and @ a point in time fades aways.. 18-22years: The guys starts making advances but Nkechi still wants to flex, and catch her fun to the fullest.. 22-24years: Nkechi becomes very choosy.. 'He must be tall, fair, stinking rich'... 'He must be a prince, dark, have abs', etc.. 25-27years: No man looks @ Nkechi again, and everyday, she keeps praying for just a 'Hi' 4rm a brother... 27-30's: Nkechi starts soaking her chaplet in water, disturbing God with prayers , and wishing for anyone, whether short or tall, as long as he is ready.. In all, what I am trying to say is: Search your heart... Make a firm decision, and stand by it.. "Love with your HEAD, and carry your HEART along".. #My candid opinion... 9 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 11:28am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee: While I feel this is a slightly valid decision because nothing is guaranteed. It may as well be a wrong decision you are about to make but how do we know? So well my ultimate advice is that you should not feel bad or shy to make grave inquiries about the one you finally chose to marry. Before even saying yes, type his name on Google, his phone number too... You can use some other approaches that you are comfortable with so that you wont marry someone you dont know. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by 30ammy(f): 11:29am On Dec 06, 2014 |
My exes brother was just using us to change DP sotay the brother threatened to delete him from BBM This got me laughing...like the spirit of that ur exes brother 1 Like |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Urine: 11:32am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee: One thing to note from what you've written here is that guys that are still asking you out are already making marriage proposals. Babe, that's 1st class scam in the waiting. You have to crawl before you walk. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by tonero230(m): 11:33am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Do you think he has the financial muscle to settle down with you?Has he ever told you to give him time to sort things out? |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 11:33am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Jennimma:and then any of the other guys find out you are double dating , what will be the outcome , if they perhaps end up , he may still use this to bring up issues and will be here ranting. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Kosigift(f): 11:34am On Dec 06, 2014 |
chronique:this got me laughing real hard 1 Like |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 11:36am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee:are you so sure the guys promising marriage just dont want to shine congo and move on .... if you are the no premarital sex person , good for you . if you are not , I ll advice you sit and think properly about the decision u wanna make. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by freezyprinzy(m): 11:36am On Dec 06, 2014 |
op what happeeneeed 2 praayeers?...and mayb d guy ain't ready 2 settle down earily..some guys love ''enjoying life den using marriage 2 retire..u should visit baba..or seven days fasting would do d magic#charitycomment |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:36am On Dec 06, 2014 |
youmour: the matter tire me o my brother..... see as all of them are saying leave him,dont leave him,do this dont do that...na human feeling we dey talk of here o....you leave na,go marry sweet talking suitor,after marriage,the beast in him will appear,.....the fact that someone appeared from no where and married some people here and its working out fine doesnt mean it will be the same for you...use your brain. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 11:38am On Dec 06, 2014 |
coogar:patience is a rare virtue , only few have it . this lady ought to know if the " boyfriend" is a serious or playboy by now . if he is worth the wait wait , there are other ways to commit a good guy other than marriage |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee:whats do you mean by commit ... you mean engagement ? thats not a guaranrtee , just saying as I dont know what you mean by commit. |
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