what stupid law, for me i think a girl should see herself as a gem,and should ensure a guy goes through due process.as for me i dont think i can sleep with my fiance before i am fully married [traditional and blessing of marriage in church]to him.

no
in most cases when you get pregnant for em fiance's
they end up leaving you before the wedding or they 'll leave you at the altar.

I dont see the need to get pregnant before marriage cos i dont also believe in pre marital sex.since you call someone your Fiance,and plan to get married why the haste to get pregnant when you will definitely marry him and get pregnant.So its not a Must a Woman must get Pregnant before marriage,Though we ve got different views on the topic but for me. I DONT LIKE THE IDEA

im indifferent
but for real if i got my guy demanding for it i wont cos am not getting married just to have kid.
Marriage is more than that!

it is not right , the bible is against it , its a sigm of fear to get pregnant before marriage, some see it as a way of "testing the waters"

Well it all depends.

Most pregnancies that come outside marriage come as a result of carelessness on the part of the two parties; so when this happens, you and your partner are to sit down and take full responsibilities of your actions.

But if am to advise a single girl on this issue, I’d say wait till you get married; it’s much better that way.

That’s why you have a woman has to b very careful when she gets into a relationship

This is a very bad idea,ve heard alot about it in the past but l believe something like this occurs among parents that are so backward,not enlightened.In this modern day,every enlightened parents wish is to marry and give away in marriage without pregnancy, but mistakes do happen in some cases and that is not really understandable, I am 100% against such rules that no pregnancy ,no marriage,
God forbid badthing, its all just an excuse to be promiscuos.To me its a very bad idea.Good ridiance to bad rubbish.

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Yes!!!! It is alright to get knocked up before your wedding----the only sure way to know that the "parts" are working!!!!

BABEELOVE:

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Yes!!!! It is alright to get knocked up before your wedding----the only sure way to know that the "parts" are working!!!!

Why am I not suprised, eh? Am sure you had a bun in the oven, when you tied the knot! Na wa for you o!

laudate:

Why am I not suprised, eh? Am sure you had a bun in the oven, when you tied the knot! Na wa for you o!

Siddon for thia! I don drop 3 before I tie the knot sef! He he he he he he!!!  Somethings cannot wait you know. How do you think I ever got a marriage proposal!  Slow guy!!!!!!!!!!

i don't think it is ideal to get pregnant before marriage as premarital sex is a sin

yes. premarital sex is sin. but let him that has no sin cast the first stone.
it should not be that one gets pregnant before wedding. but what if it happens? the solution is never try abortion. accept full responsibility and get married.

No way in hell am I going to be a fat pregnant bride.
Its a stupid new fashion trend I cant tell you the number of weddings I have been too involving Nigerians and the wife to be looks like shes going to give birth any second.

Theres no need for it. When did it become tradition anyway?

The ideal norm is dat a woman ought not be pregnant before marriage but truly speaking after my traditional marriage,,,i got pregnant and it would have been incurably bad if we had aborted d pregnancy just becos it would be wrong 2 be pregnant before wedding.

YES!. na naija we dey. it is important for d womand to be sure that the man fit give am belle o

nah i dnt think its rite.but if it happens,they both have to bear the full responsibility together.bt i think its absolutely wrong putting ur girl/fiancee in the family way b4 wed lock.

Better U get Pregnant b4 marriage to avoid Childlessness

well, it is not good having sex or pregnant b4 marriage. but if it happened someone can start planning. provided that the two guys like it, if not, there will be a trouble married life. is all about caring for the happiness of the two guys invovled.

absolutely not!

nah
very bad idea
me that want to b size0 on my wedding day

I encourage u guyz to visit the link below for professional advice on the subject b4 us

http://www.growthtrac.com/artman/publish/test--driving-sex-before-marriage-597.php

well, all man with his/her point.,to me i see no harm to it,i believe children comes through god, nobody know d pregnancy that will deliver a king,so delete d word god forbid,me i cant or its wrong, how abt after so called tradt/wedd.ceremony,no pregnancy no birth,what then would u say?, whatsoever that falls from up has its space down, greetings

I do not think a woman should be having any children before marriage. there are many reasons for that statement, I believe if the man is ready to be a father, then he is also ready to be a husband. if the reasons why couples are not married because of wedding expenses, then think about the expenses of baby products,

It is the up to the man and the woman

You cannot have sex before marriage, it is an abomination. Many people have settled their divorce before entering into marriage all 'cos they defiled the bed. God ordained marriage from the beginning and his intention for it are so numerous, childbearing is part of it and not all of it. If you get married to your fiancee and there comes a delay, l believe the one that constituted marriage should be consulted, there is no woman that is not fruitful ;cos God made women to be fruitful, any one that is not should consult God , and God will reveal to you the reasons. You cannot test drive your fiancee and expect God to be happy with you, remember every file ends on the table of God. Do all the necessary things to be done, so you can enjoy a blissful and fruitful marriage. Many women got pregnant before marriage in the process of test driving, but never give the man peace of mind in the marriage, never contributes financially to the upkeep of the home, not respectful etc, and all we could see is many children. The end result sometimes is for the man to run away from her and her children. Please, think about all these, DO NOT DEFILE THE BED OF MARRIAGE---IT IS DANGEROUS.

God bless you.
Najayi.

It is their choice . . . . .not a must

YES, NO

ubiaa5:

YES, NO

u forgot the last option . . . . "maybe"

There is no 'maybe' about the answer. The only answer is no. The guy may even decide not to go through with the wedding. What happens then. Abortion? Single motherhood?
Actually the strictures against fornication are 90% of the time for the protection of the woman., so its up to her to say no to premarital sex. Its that simple.

tensor777:

There is no 'maybe' about the answer. The only answer is no. The guy may even decide not to go through with the wedding. What happens then. Abortion? Single motherhood?
Actually the strictures against fornication are 90% of the time for the protection of the woman., so its up to her to say no to premarital sex. Its that simple.

Then, i guess the only solution is the for the babe to seal off her a$$ and make sure no man go there till wedding nite, cos once that happens, big belle cld happen.