obeenah40:
I've been forced to believe that there are only five people on nairaland

1) Seun
2) Lalasticala
3) TheRealmrstan
4) Moderators
5) Others

thanks

YOU'RE MISTAKEN.
THERE'S ALSO MADJUNE THE DARK HORSE.
THE MAN WHO SEES BUHARI AS THE NEXT PRESIDENT.
TAKE NOTE.

l am not comfortable with the pressure Nigerians put on others to go get married as if once u are married all your life's problems disappears. l believe in anyone who intends ending up married to take their time BUT NOT MESSING AROUND WHILE DOING SO.

msmon:
If you are one of those with this kind of mentality, I'd like to have a 30 minutes chat with you. Kindly pm me and I will hand over my bb pin to you, what an ugly mentality?

what is ugly about the mentality it is very wrong to pressure pple to get married I stand on that.A lot of things have changed these days compared to the days of our Parents, exposure to the internet, technological advancement, women are becoming more carrier conscious etc. Marriage these days requires a lot of maturity which many pple do not have, in this life it is not how far u have gone but how well that matters. No be competition, cause my friend don marry no mean say i go marry next, na individual journey, nobody knows u better than urself. You have to be very sure u r already and this is the right person 4 u, before u take that step, no matter how long it takes.........

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2UzlN0AbPgQ&feature=youtu.be

this song paints a perfect picture of what is happening in our society today,all the marriage bruhaha

Just leave the woman with her life.When it is the right time,she will get married.Just be conserned with your Life.Kemi Adetiba. Keep up the good work and keep on achieving the achievables.

Its messed up! What irks me the most, these comments come from other women! Like women are really their greatest enemies!
Reason a lot of ladies are falling into marriages they have no business going into in the first place because of unnecessary societal pressures!

Franchise21:
Marriage na do or die?

No its is not , but remember, we are still Africans, all those i want to have a life, i aint gonno be caged, i wana be free etc are all not for africans living in africa yet. The society still frowns at it thinking no responsible person wouldnt want to get married at some age and settle down.
Also dont forget, you can never be whiter than the whites.

na by force to marry again
abi her marriage go increase una bank account?

fake people

She should be left alone..she might have 1000reasons on why she shouldn't got marry yet...notwithstanding am still much onboard

Contact meeeee

She should have ignored the ranting IF it doesn't affect her and get to her.. .






But, all her ranting show just 1 thing
The message they were passing out to her did hit her below the belt and she has to resort to this


Abeg it's not by force to marry, Atleast she can pay for a dyke to bore her hole when she is in the mood

sylve11:


Back in the days u will have to check on n/l home page every 3hours to see a new topic has been added; but now, just click nairaland.com in every 30min to see 7 to 8 topics has been added....the good, the bad and the useless topics; most times, the useless topics wins.

The worse part is.. it is the same set of pple making FP

qtx:

No its is not , but remember, we are still Africans, all those i want to have a life, i aint gonno be caged, i wana be free etc are all not for africans living in africa yet. The society still frowns at it thinking no responsible person wouldnt want to get married at some age and settle down.
Also dont forget, you can never be whiter than the whites.

But d women can't marry themselves, a guy has to propose first except d gurl z d type dat snubbed alotta suitors in her early years

sexymoma:
Who is she

By the way.. The rate wey topics dey make fp this days dey baffle me
Reasonable ones, unreasonable ones, Valuable ones invaluable ones....

Are you also from France?

Get a man and get a life jor.

She fit live her life as she want its nobody's business

See how they are all pained on another person's matter o

Many people will live their own issues and be pocknosing into other people's issues till the world leaves them behind


no wonder the world jas left Nigeria behind because of the pathetic 1820 waywe think

hyperbolic:
Get a man and get a life jor.

get money and get respect as man

The question be say: who wan marry her?

Before you tell a lady say make she go marry, make sure say you don provide a man wey go marry her.QED

This is 2015 we dey go so and not stone age.look outside your hut and see what cnn says about women, the political economy and ambition

qtx:

No its is not , but remember, we are still Africans, all those i want to have a life, i aint gonno be caged, i wana be free etc are all not for africans living in africa yet. The society still frowns at it thinking no responsible person wouldnt want to get married at some age and settle down.
Also dont forget, you can never be whiter than the whites.

She sounded so pained. I never heard about her before now.

As in ehen.sophyrocks where are you o

ThoniaSlim:
Its messed up! What irks me the most, these comments come from other women! Like women are really their greatest enemies!
Reason a lot of ladies are falling into marriages they have no business going into in the first place because of unnecessary societal pressures!

SAMBARRY:
This is 2015 we dey go so and not stone age.look outside your hut and see what cnn says about women, the political economy and ambition

ahahahahaha, stone age na story for the gods bro. One day CNN go wake up tell u say make you slap your papa because na wetin the happen for net age u go do am na abi? No worry cnn go run the map of your life for you. wait until one day cnn tell you to go and get married, and after u marry cnn go tell u oya go sleep wit ur partner and so on. In your mind when you mentioned cnn that made you a conventional and modern man abi? lol. U need to get some exposure sha .

Why can't they just leave nigerian single ladies alone to live their life? Is marriage a ticket to the kingdom of God? Are you people going to pay her 1million naira for getting married? If she is not independent making her own money, these same people will call her gold digger.

Mr man no need to get pained over another person life.cnn is mirror or lens that shows you what goes on around the world same with BBC . reduce your afrocan magoc yoruba so you will know what women are doing beyond Africa




pele dear

qtx:

ahahahahaha, stone age na story for the gods bro. One day CNN go wake up tell u say make you slap your papa because na wetin the happen for net age u go do am na abi? No worry cnn go run the map of your life for you. wait until one day cnn tell you to go and get married, and after u marry cnn go tell u oya go sleep wit ur partner and so on. In your mind when you mentioned cnn that made you a conventional and modern man abi? lol. U need to get some exposure sha .

kennygee:
I wonder why many people think marriage is a do or die affair.

Majority of married people are not happy and are trying to run out.

Leave the woman alone so she can get married to the right person and for the right reasons, not cause she is pressured.

maybe your marriage and your parents own are not happy marriages. Where did you pull that majority shyt from? out of your ass I guess.

Franchise21:
But d women can't marry themselves, a guy has to propose first except d gurl z d type dat snubbed alotta suitors in her early years

U are right, but every woman has her own husband its a matter of time and whether or not she is interested.

...but seriously, who actually care if she's married or not !
people should free her, that is her personal ish.
She is actually a good video producer/director...I do care about this though ...

Sophyrocks:
Why can't they just leave nigerian single ladies alone to live their life? Is marriage a ticket to the kingdom of God? Are you people going to pay her 1million naira for getting married? If she is not independent making her own money, these same people will call her gold digger.

no . How dare she be getting older and not be married or in the kitchen. Don't you know without a man in her life she is a nobody and therefore should be stonned to death. At least that will make all nairalanders feel good and manly

sexymoma:
So what's our business if pple are telling her to go get married

pray that u be should known... That's what we call celebrity(celebrate 'em)

SAMBARRY:
As in ehen.sophyrocks where are you o

See these women o. And these same women are probably in horrible marriages so since they are miserable they want other single ladies to be so. What is their business with her marital status? will they pay her for getting married? Them dey give award for marriage?

Famocious:
...but seriously, who actually care if she's married or not !
people should free her, that is her personal ish.
She is actually a good video producer/director...I do care about this though ...

whewwww what a breadth of fresh air. So bush meats Don dey reduce for nl.it means there's still hope

Sophyrocks:


See these women o. And these same women are probably in horrible marriages so since they are miserable they want other single ladies to be so. What is their business with her marital status? will they pay her for getting married? Them dey give award for marriage?

roftl. Haven't you heard the adage that says misery wants friends too and of course allies so they can share their isshh together

SAMBARRY:
no . How dare she be getting older and not be married or in the kitchen. Don't you know without a man in her life she is a nobody and therefore should be stonned to death. At least that will make all nairalanders feel good and manly

Why nigerians like to carry person matter for head like gala sef? Why the thing dey pain them? If she marry, e go add extra life to their lifespan? Haters, how market? Una don sell una gala finish?