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Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by eckersley: 7:45pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
temitemi1:The typical response of those who have cast theirs to the dogs. Hence they put up/console self with a pseudo virginity-is-not-a-big-deal air/attitude Deep down within, if given a 2nd chance, they'll like to be virgins again If it's not a big deal, sit your children down [that's if u hv any] and indoctrinate them daily; You see, my kids, virginity is not a big deal. Lose it at the first opportunity you have to be alone with the opposite sex If you can't wait for such an opportunity [or if one doesn't present itself], Just use ur fingers, candles and any object u deem fit ok? And don't forget to pass this family tradition to my grandchildren, biko Cos that's how I, ur dear mother [or father] did it oo 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by eckersley: 7:51pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
chimerase2:Expert la la I hail ooooo Abeg school them jare |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by eckersley: 8:03pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
deor03:Oh. Here comes another cop out. sports activities, horse riding etc blah blah blah Experientially[Boarding secondary sch and University] Very few Nigerian ladies get involved in sports[ even as simple as jogging in the morning for the sake of keeping fit] let alone vigorous sports. If u were Blessing Okagbare, I wud agree. U go see them for everywhere flabby, lazy and physically unfit. The next cop out go be I feel and landed with my bum bum on a blunt object pointing upwards from the ground*while she's crying* That's how I lost it. Just like that. From nowhere. GIRLS, EHN. Nothing hard una to talk or do Man wey no fear una Cockk-a-doodle-doo story na im take hand kill hmsf 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by rman: 8:11pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
This happens when your virginity is the only thing of value you offered while you were dating. If there is more to you as an individual beyond being a virgin, this would not be an issue to him. You actually scammed the innocent man. 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Fraih(f): 8:22pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Keypha(m): 8:54pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
You have dis virgin ur self with fingering, u better apologise to him, begin a virgin does not move me, I have UnCloth about 3 different virgin and I refuse to dis virgin them, they don't even knew how to satisfy a man. Fork off |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by collins6381(m): 10:19pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
christabeli:Busted |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by millstone(m): 11:52pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
Just tell him u use to self-pleasure yourself.... i dnt blame him tho. But mrs. U ve already disvirgined yourself naaa.... U didnt keep yourself ma. Probably u use 2 stick d whole finger in 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 10:02am On Dec 12, 2014 |
I really ssacrificed alot and it hurts wen he says to me " pls stop lying.d fact is that I love u".how can he love and hurt me at d same time? I decided to overlook d matter but he keeps bringing it up. I sometimes feel like making him feel d pain he is causing me but I.don't knw how. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Lorlaahlozz: 10:13am On Dec 12, 2014 |
Is ur husband on nl?...If no,then y posting it here? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 4:47pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
christabeli:Thanks for taking out d time to study my profile. We are only married traditionally. Sometimes I can say my fiancee especially to someone I knw frm church cos we are not married in d church yet. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 4:48pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Lorlaahlozz:I just need tips on how to get over this |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by sparks101: 5:31pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Bleeding most times is caused from the tearing of the hymen also most times in self pleasing the hymen could be already turn am not saying for sure and it's possible that your won't bleed not all girls bleed..u just make him understand u were sincere about you being a virgin if he doesn't believe you u have to skip that and move on!!..no hard feelings |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by sweteny(f): 12:21am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Not all gals bleed when been disvirgin. I never bled as well. All dat matter is to be happy with urself. Forget d hurt and move on 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by passionate88: 7:13am On Dec 13, 2014 |
iceberylin:She took her virginity by herself |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by angelsing(m): 9:54am On Dec 13, 2014 |
okiezman:Do research buddy!...I disvirgin my ex without her bleeding cos have read extensively about disflowering a girl which I carefully follow step by step guide I read on it..She din't bleed just little bruises. Its so possible for her not to bleed |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by angelsing(m): 9:55am On Dec 13, 2014 |
okiezman:Do research buddy!...I disvirgin my ex without her bleeding cos have read extensively about disflowering a girl which I carefully follow step by step guide I read on it..She din't bleed just little bruises. Its so possible for her not to bleed. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by lilmax(m): 9:56am On Dec 13, 2014 |
eckersley: |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by eckersley: 11:19am On Dec 13, 2014 |
lilmax:Hy. When quoting anyone, endeavour to do so IN CONTEXT. That u did not do So go back and quote me in the right context |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 7:03pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
sweteny:Thank u so much dear.I am truly grateful for this. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 7:07pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
angelsing:I just wished my husband will do his own research and not be so stiff necked. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by skillet(m): 8:18pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Platnum1: What you have here is a very serious problem as his insecurity in that aspect will Spiral into paranoia if not nipped now. I think what you should do is "show" not tell him. You have been "telling" him about your self servicing before he met you. This is the time to "show" him. Possibly use fingers and "instruments". Maybe when he sees the actual act of self service, he will not feel insecure ova ur past lovers. He will realise dat you only have eyes and legs for him and ur fingers. By the way, I deflowered my babe without blood. Till today, its hard to swallow, hook, line and sinker. But whenever I see how nonchalant she is towards guys in general, I feel there is some truth in her claim. So, show him. Stop telling him. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by angelsing(m): 8:56pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Platnum1:hahahahahah...why don't u marry me, u know I have the experience already..*angelsing knees down looking straight into her eyes and ask with a bedroom voice "will u marry me sweetness?" |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by okiezman(m): 8:58am On Dec 14, 2014 |
angelsing: Thanks for educating me didn't know till now |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by okiezman(m): 8:59am On Dec 14, 2014 |
andraina: Alright man |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by angelsing(m): 9:25am On Dec 14, 2014 |
okiezman:You are welcome.. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 9:32am On Feb 24, 2015 |
To be honest I just let it go. It pained me so mmuch but I decided to let it go for real. It has humbled me cos before now I expected my future husband to worship me cos I was a virgin.lol. Now I am having non of that I just feel God used this to humble me. It is painful but I have to turn a blind eye to it and enjoy my marriage no matter what. Come to think of it I was molested as a child but I don't remember the details.not once or twice. Maybe that's why I didn't bleed. I wondered alot but I have decided to bury it n move on. skillet: |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by andraina: 4:14pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
okiezman:im not a guy |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by chichi414: 4:24pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Really sorry cos it do hurt but research has it dat not all virgins bleed |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by okiezman(m): 2:25pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
andraina: Sorry babe |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by bammy777(m): 3:39pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
U didn't lose it to him. U lost it to Yur fingers . Te 'em ..... Lol hw do u expect him to believe |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Drilz(f): 4:32pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
okiezman:Yes it does happen, not every virgin bleeds for d first time, self service or not!! Make ur research. |
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