My best friend has been married to a caribbean man since 2002, she is expecting her first baby on 1 Jan. She just found out that a Polish girl had another baby for her husband two weeks ago because she found a letter in a case at home. Imagine the devastation of that. Ladies what woudl you do? would you leave him to the other woman who is waiting to get her way? or forgive?

she need to take it easy in her condition that is all i can say .

Honestly some men can be so stupid.
Personally I would leave.
It's bad enough to cheat but to cheat on one's spouse unprotected is unforgivable.
Who knows how many times they did it before it took
In this day and age with HIV and hep B  plus gono,herpes,syphyllis.warts and other STD's
That's a man that can kill me,death by "abunna",God forbid
There may be a Pakistan woman nursing his baby too,who knows.
I'll kick him out immediately and sue for all the child support and spousal support I can get.

Kweenisha, couldn't have said it better myself.

thats very sad and heart breaking ,she should concentrate on her pregnancy first and try to avoid stress so she can have a healthy pregnacy  because stress can induce labour and cause pre-term birth ,her man is an asshole and can't be trusted and she needs to findout from her man what exactly is going on with him and the polish girl ,then she will know if her marriage can be saved or not.if she decides to stay with her husband and move on there will be a big trust issues .