ireneony:
you made the best decision....l think your then boyfriend has already introduced another lady to his parents, it will be somehow if he introduced u to them. them truth is, u were the side chick and he was just using u because of sex. how can a guy u call ur boyfriend not call u for days, dont call him, if u like u call him u are only bringing ur self esteem low.
forget about him, cos u are not getting any younger, look for another boyfriend.

Okay, op she said you should look for me..

But that of not calling your girl for one week ? Mba No No..

hazel01:
I love him to the extent that I don't have any male friends or encourage other guys into thinking I would date them,this same guy forgot my birthday, and went to camp and start crushing on a girl, he collected her number and told me he would start working on her if I eff up, by the way this is not the first time he would blame me for his mistakes and not accept his fault after giving me silent treatment I would end up begging him,I guess he got used to that

Sorry abt this.

I so hate people who don't own up to their mistakes.

Phuuup !

xtervaganza:
haba auntie! Wetin dem do u?



They will soon be back together .



shame to bad ppl

So I'm now a bad person because I advised her not to tolerate such crap? smh

xtervaganza:
see this one mouth




so you want her to break up with a man she truly loves and end up in the single and searching gang of yours

When it's obvious the dude ain't that into her? A "love" that is one-sided? I can't deal!

Gelco:



When it's obvious the dude ain't that into her? A "love" that is one-sided? I can't deal!

sometimes he acts very loving and caring....But when he is wrong he doesn't accept his faults... rather he would ignore me till I beg

mmmmmm..................

alot of good advice here for you to pick from.

my dear only you knows where it hurts and only you can decide what you think is right and appropriate.



btw Hazel01 i so love your username

I know someone very close to me with that name.

is that your name? so i can tell her she got a name sake

lilmax:
are you okay?

I am ok bros.. Dats why i said "even if d dude no try" at least talk it over... So back to you bros... Are YOU okay?

yorex2011:


I am ok bros.. Dats why i said "even if d dude no try" at least talk it over... So back to you bros... Are YOU okay?

very much okay

joywendy:
mmmmmm..................

alot of good advice here for you to pick from.

my dear only you knows where it hurts and only you can decide what you think is right and appropriate.



btw Hazel01 i so love your username

I know someone very close to me with that name.

is that your name? so i can tell her she got a name sake

no it's not

joywendy:
mmmmmm..................

alot of good advice here for you to pick from.

my dear only you knows where it hurts and only you can decide what you think is right and appropriate.



btw Hazel01 i so love your username

I know someone very close to me with that name.

is that your name? so i can tell her she got a name sake

Thanks..... But it's not my name....

hazel01:


Recently we had our convocation with his mum present and my both parents present, we entertained our guests few feet apart and still he couldn't greet my dad, while I went to greet his mum, I noticed he was acting like he didn't want the extended family in attendance to notice we were together, he didn't even introduce me to his mum as his girlfriend, when I accused him after the event and everyone gone, he said I should have introduced myself on my own without expecting him to,while he was there looking at both of us, when I asked him Why he didn't greet my dad he said I was selfish and turned everything against me and made me look like a villian while he acted the victim, when I left his presence in annoyance he claimed I have a terrible attitude and didn't call me for days and to think this guy gave me a ring on our last day on campus, a lot of people saw the ring and started congratulating me
I am really not sure if I made d right choice breaking up with him because I really love him,and he claims he does too, nairalanders what do u think?

#in viru sastrbute "ICE virus" voice"# congratulations

onihaxy:


#in viru sastrbute "ICE virus" voice"# congratulations

congratulations on the convocation or congratulations on the break up

Gelco:



When it's obvious the dude ain't that into her? A "love" that is one-sided? I can't deal!

ok oooo



You ladies here Sabi mislead person sha



Lol

Gelco:


So I'm now a bad person because I advised her not to tolerate such crap? smh

you be good person ooo



No mind me

andromida:


I want her to be happy with a man that appreciates her. She deserves a man who is proud of her.

This S&S gang you know them?

lol I Don hear



You wan join the gang?

onegig:


Discussing it like adults.?

How do you do that with someone who would accept no wrongdoing and play the victim card in such a situation like this? I guess you didn't see where she made several attempts to get in touch and resolve this.

Doing anything more would make her look desperate.

ok sir





Leave them with their matter



If they are meant for each other they will find a way to get back together

xtervaganza:
ok sir









If they are meant for each other they will find a way to get back together

Ain't advising her to leave. She has all the indices with her and can best decide what is good for her.

xtervaganza:
ok sir





Leave them with their matter



If they are meant for each other they will find a way to get back together

hmmmm

xtervaganza:
lol I Don hear



You wan join the gang?

What are the benefits?

hazel01:
I love him to the extent that I don't have any male friends or encourage other guys into thinking I would date them,this same guy forgot my birthday, and went to camp and start crushing on a girl, he collected her number and told me he would start working on her if I eff up, by the way this is not the first time he would blame me for his mistakes and not accept his fault after giving me silent treatment I would end up begging him,I guess he got used to that

He treated you like this and you think he is still in love with you? This relationship is so one-sided. He doesn't respect you and he is taking you for granted. Coupled with the silent treatment stuff, if you should marry him,he will make your life so miserable.
You did not make a rash decision and don't go to him first,or else you will only reduce your self-worth, since he has made it an habit.
If he comes back to you, you need to go into serious discussions with him about his behaviour. There are some things you should not digest.

Buy
3 he-goats
18 tubers of yam
2 gallons of palm oil
5 bags of rice
50k worth of hamper
200k worth of clothes
3 rounds of hot seexxx
Him go calm down

wordbank:
Buy
3 he-goats
18 tubers of yam
2 gallons of palm oil
5 bags of rice
50k worth of hamper
200k worth of clothes
3 rounds of hot seexxx
Him go calm down

lol....this is your advice? are you for serious?

andromida:


What are the benefits?

go to their website na...e de der

joywendy:
mmmmmm..................

alot of good advice here for you to pick from.

my dear only you knows where it hurts and only you can decide what you think is right and appropriate.



btw Hazel01 i so love your username

I know someone very close to me with that name.

is that your name? so i can tell her she got a name sake

Lol.

You better get a tin foil hat. Else I would blow the cover off.

I know you would love the username.

onegig:


Lol.

You better get a tin foil hat. Else I would blow the cover off.

I know you would love the username.

lol!!!

Of course why won't i?

hazel01:
Thanks..... But it's not my name....

You are welcome!

oh that's so bad, she would be so disappointed.

so sorry for derailing, if i may ask why the name ? you love the colour or the nut?

joywendy:


You are welcome!

oh that's so bad, she would be so disappointed.

so sorry for derailing, if i may ask why the name ? you love the colour or the nut?

the colour and the nut.......and the How the name sounds

hazel01:
the colour and the nut.......and the How the name sounds

that's cool

lol quite ironic, most people don't get the pronunciation well here in Nigeria.

The name is quite rare too.

hazel01:


Recently we had our convocation with his mum present and my both parents present, we entertained our guests few feet apart and still he couldn't greet my dad, while I went to greet his mum, I noticed he was acting like he didn't want the extended family in attendance to notice we were together, he didn't even introduce me to his mum as his girlfriend, when I accused him after the event and everyone gone, he said I should have introduced myself on my own without expecting him to,while he was there looking at both of us, when I asked him Why he didn't greet my dad he said I was selfish and turned everything against me and made me look like a villian while he acted the victim, when I left his presence in annoyance he claimed I have a terrible attitude and didn't call me for days and to think this guy gave me a ring on our last day on campus, a lot of people saw the ring and started congratulating me
I am really not sure if I made d right choice breaking up with him because I really love him,and he claims he does too, nairalanders what do u think?

i have noticed nigerian men like to put blame on women even if the blame is so CLEARLY theirs. they so talented to turn tables around that in the end u left in situation like u r the worst and he is a victim and u even don't comprehend how did it happen

xtervaganza:
go to their website na...e de der

lol.

hazel01:
no.....that was Why I was extremely disappointed in his actions.... and his choosing to ignore me and blame me after I aired my disappointment in his actions really really hurt me...

as far as I am concerned, you are more martured than he. He is still a kid and frankly, there is NO WAY a guy will get married immediately after school except he is from a very wealthy home where job issue wouldn't be a problem.

If that is not the case, move on with your life.

hazel01:
wow......you just mentioned my exact fears, this was exactly what I thought of before breaking up with him.. I was extremely disappointed he could act like that after everything we shared,it showed immaturity and the fact that he was not ready..

OP, marriage is a step by step process, and introduction of GF to parents is not that easy, cos the guy might still be sizing u up, or he's still not forgotten somethin u did way back and he's tryin to be sure before he introduces u finally to his parents, n u can't force him.

OP its people like u that I look for to date after this kinda break up, fvck a good number of times and dump. U know y? Cos its people like u that jump from one relationship to another just for some simple excuse like this. Its only when u meet bad guys that u would appreciate a guy like ur BF, n guess what, before u realize that I'm just using u, u would have been way pass ur shakara age. Have fun in ur next relationship u wish to enter into, n hope he will introduce u to his parents soon.

Check urself too to see if there's somethin u did way back u guys haven't settled or do u have a certain attitude he always complains about?