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Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by kasalingo: 10:10am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Some of them believe we live in a society where women should be seen and not heard. http://9jahomeland.com/will-live-house-built-wife-men-speak/ When the reporter threw the question at some they even went ahead as rejecting it, saying they are the head of the home and it is wrong for their wives to build a house before them. Some said if she builds it, it must be in their name, while some totally said nothing on earth can ever make them live in a house built by a woman. Hear them yourselves when you continue after the cut. Lasisi Bashiru: I can never do such a thing. As an African and a Source: http://www.ladunliadinews.com/2014/12/will-you-live-in-house-built-by-your.html?m=1 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 10:14am On Dec 13, 2014 |
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Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Ukeachu1(m): 10:18am On Dec 13, 2014 |
I guess most of the people interviewed were mad at the moment esp the last guy 22 Likes |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Emmyginger(m): 10:19am On Dec 13, 2014 |
why not? but as long as i have mine 1 Like |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Diffdeef(m): 10:22am On Dec 13, 2014 |
You go hear am when a little issue comes up and she kicks you outta her house. 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Ilekokonit: 11:45am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Never. Eni to ba sun ile iyawo e, o ri akintan lo sun si. (One who sleeps in his wifes house is actually sleeping in a trash yard). Because at anytime she can tell you to move out. Eni to ba fi aso iyawo e bora. akisa lo fi bora. (One who covers himself with his wifes cover cloth is actually covered with a rag). Because at anytime she can collect the cover cloth back. 15 Likes |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 11:54am On Dec 13, 2014 |
see the kind of cavemen nigerians we chat with and people marry these ones and call them soul mates abi husbands. they dont want to be controlled yet want to control. if something is wrong for you, what makes you think its right for others. 46 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 12:10pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
noo..... I will stay in ur hasss |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 12:23pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Ilekokonit: Words on marble, the Emeritus Prof.. Taking notes. 8 Likes |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Ilekokonit: 12:30pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
SirShymex: These are time tested principles that made our forefathers maintain the headship of their homes and not todays pandering to the stupid and unproductive ways of the 21st Century where a woman wants to be the woman and at the same time be the man in a relationship. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 12:43pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Ilekokonit: The whole 21st century woman tripe is just a ruse created for an utopian society. Hence most of them always end up as single mothers. And the divorce rate is as high as it's today. A lot of these women have lost touch with reality, and for Yorubas of yore to have deep proverbs about what this thread is about, despite living in a society where women of that period were perpetually submissive - without divorce and the powers western society has ceded to women these days. That shows they had a perfect understanding of the thought process of the female specie. Not everything about the 21st century is great. Heck, even people are dumber in today's world than they've ever been. Hence it's so easy to manipulate opinions. And for humanity to survive, the family hierarchical structure has to be kept intact. Especially people of African descent since we've the most dysfunctional families out there, and are at the bottom of the totem pole of everything. Family structure is our holy-grail//hope for survival. 29 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by SAMBARRY: 1:01pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
You dey mind them.shioorrrr Chillisauce: 5 Likes |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by SAMBARRY: 1:02pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Chilli sauce abeg help me choose which one i go do for xmas 3 Likes
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Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Ilekokonit: 1:15pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
SirShymex: Will the Westernised African women be calm enough to realise this ?? Of course not with the way things are going. Their Western education has deceived them to the point that dating websites are full of women in their very late 40's hunting for suitors and they are no longer ashamed to put their pictures online as against 20 years ago. The Black woman plays into the "systems" hands time and time again by kicking her husband out of the house for flimsy reasons most likely because her erstwhile bouyant hubby has hit on hard times and she forgets the good times they had when he was bouyant and then the ungrateful cow forgetting that she has a male child to bring up chases the man out of the house using the ever willing cops and then true to the "script" (written by those who are afraid of the black man's latent strengths) the single mother inspite of the single parent benefits she receives from her surrogate husband - i.e the government - realises that bringing up a male child "properly" is not something a woman can do alone. The male child now sees himself as the man of the house and if she is unlucky the boy will start rebelling against her and possibly join gangs which in a lot of cases is a one way route to prison which is where the "system" wants every black man. Anytime I hear of a black woman kicking her husband out of the house for "flimsy" reasons, i just wonder when the penny is going to drop for these women that they are actually playing their parts as pawns in a well thought out "script" with the ultimate aim of rubbishing and tearing apart the black family system which in times past was our glory and strength as a race. That's why there are increasing cases of the male children of single black women turning against them with brutal consequences of late. Case in point - England -Sept 2013 Another case happened in America in 2012 where a 14 year old black boy shoots his single mum killing her as she lay sleeping on the sofa. Her crime was because she did not let him join a gang If only women realised that a male child needs his father around during his formative years then the above would most probably not have happened. 17 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 1:17pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Why would I? What will I be doing when she's building her house, watching TV? I'm sure these new age pansies will have no problem with it though. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 1:39pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: wow, the jellof rice is not bad at all. I dont really like egusi soup. Make the jellof rice . Just the way it is in the picture |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by SAMBARRY: 1:41pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Chillisauce:kk.thanks. that's why I love you 1 Like |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Pavore9: 3:09pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
l know of a woman who inherited a twin duplex from her late father's estate while living with her husband & kids in a rented 3 bedroom flat & they still live there to avoid "trouble". She put only the kids names on the property as she can't shout. 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 3:48pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Chillisauce: As in eh chaiiiiiiiii!!!!!!!!!!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by EfemenaXY: 4:07pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Chillisauce: Spot on! SAMBARRY: Nice. But why you come dey call for only Chilli na? Go for the fried rice. But serve the fish without the stew though. 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 4:54pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Its not advisable at all, my yoruba peeps will not do that. The man of the house won't be able to act like the head since he has failed to provide shelter for his family, moreso African women are turning into feminist already it will take only a few seconds to chase the man out of the house. If I were a man, I wouldn't do it 1 Like |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 4:59pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
We would like to know which husbands of the hundreds of city-dwelling women here whose husbands live in their(wives) houses! |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by SAMBARRY: 5:12pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Because I never see you for food section. Na only to dey do argumentative session with coogar and his gang EfemenaXY: 1 Like |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by EfemenaXY: 5:13pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
^^ You sure you've never seen me at the food section? Look harder... |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by SAMBARRY: 5:15pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:ok o |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 6:56pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Most of the people that attended to the question are obviously in an unhappy/loveless marriage. .. What's wrong with living in a house built by your better half?? So, if your wife earns enough to help erect a good structure, she shouldn't because you can't live in a house built by her?? But will rather live in maybe a two bedroom flat owned by another woman?? Alot of men have Landladies Wonder the kinda marriage we have these days...Imagine someone saying he would rather live in a house built by pigs, pheeeww ...... How does a woman building a house translate to becoming disrespectful and domineering to you? So women shouldn't build again?? She could even be giving you the money which you can then give to the contractors...... Guys should let go of their ego especially when it comes to marriage, Marriage is partnership. ....I rest my case... 37 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by itstpia8: 7:15pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
nothing wrong with it if you are both on the same page. if its a problem, then rent a house elsewhere. |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 7:45pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Abeg u guys should zip ur mouth jor. I won't go far. Go to onitsha and see huzzling women building houses everywhere.some started from scratch and hv well to do husbands that not just squandered his money, is also living in serious debt. If the wife know say that looking unto papa bomboy to do something till thy kingdom come won't yield anything, she better start making hay while d sun shines. For ur wife to build a house b4 u means u r not serious. I can understand where she may aid u but in a situation where u don't think and plan for tomorrow and only her does that, applaud her its not easy. In my place, we respect and hold such ladies dearly. When bestowing titles, she is a likely candidate. We call them "agu nwayi" 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by EfemenaXY: 7:49pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
^^ Preach it sister. I just love your posts. All those "boys" claiming they can't live in a house built by their wives are just enemies of progress foaming at the mouth. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Pavore9: 8:08pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
l laugh at those who are swearing they can't live in a house built by their wives because it is an "abomination" but when they see their landlady (no be owner's wife but her own property) over-greeting go they worry them..oh such hypocrites! 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by Nobody: 8:33pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:Nne what do u hv me say? To allow these children belittle somebody's effort simply bc she is a woman. If she use d money to build in her father's house, they will talk, She decides to spoil herself by going from one country or d other having fun, they will call meeting on top her head. Now she has decided to do the honourable thing and instead of folks applauding her wise decision and effort, they r talking from the corners of their mouth. E easy to build house? 11 Likes |
Re: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by bukatyne(f): 9:11pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Blacks are definitely cursed I am head, controller, dictator etc when they cannot even afford a roof over their heads Women are suddenly the ones filled with ego? I thought it was the exclusive property of men? Sick people Hahaha 15 Likes |
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