kazlaw2000:

You are a very patient person. Kudos. I may not be able to withstand such brazeness from my wife. I would be firm but stop short of raising my hands on her. But i would let her know i wouldnt stand for such rascality. But going to the extent of locking yourself in a room to escape? Nah. Thats too weak.

HARDDON:


The guy is a sissy ....wimp......wussbag ....

Imagine a man that paid her bride price running n locking himself up. Imagine him pleading with poppy voice in a locked room. Imagine his Wify giving him d beating of his life.

Op, she got ur balls menh. She dah house boss n u dah errand boy. I bet she always have her way too. U r always wrong I suppose.

Sissy op listen, do everything it takes to get ur balls back. Even if it means giving her a Hawt slap d next time a heated argument pops up. U cant hv ur wife talk back @ u. Slap some sense into her. She would be so shocked n respect u from thence.
You ain't d head of d home for fun

From other's experience, I can tell u there r ladies that Luv their men to take charge n be in control. Which u ain't currently doing. Place ur foot down next time even if u r wrong n melt her d silent treatment if she wouldn't bulge

fr3do:
Flying nodding

aisha2:
Sorry to say poster, you sound like a typical abuse victim. Excusing your abuser, justifying their actions and using love as a reaosn for their actions.

You come home tired and stressed, even when you don't talk the sensible reaction is to ensure you are fine find out why you are late and try to make you comfortable not jump sorry sky rocket into conclusion and start biting hitting and slapping.

Am sorry your wife needs help. She will do it again. Tomorrow you may give your colleague a ride and she will see you and be home waiting with hot water.
Forget shame and ego, either handle this now or live satisfying her insecurities.

coogar:


he resolved it the first time too, didn't he? you don't tackle problems on the surface, you get to the roots. he might have forgiven her but her anger management issues need to be tackled to prevent another occurrence.

chowlade:







not all lady will let you fu*ck under this tense situation if some women r provoked my broda u will not think of above long written poem

SirShymex:


There was no way I would've kicked her out like that. The madness and serious arguments started after we were like a year and half deep into it. And most times, it was always my fault, and I'm the type of guy that never shy away from taking responsibilities. I was in Uni back then, on the YOLO wave - wild and living the life. It was a case of consciously/subconsciously taking the piss, cos I had her on lock - and I knew she wasn't going anywhere. All she wanted was more attention, and for me to grow with her cos I was all she cared about. But when you're in a space where there's so much fun around, with a gang of friends who just wanted to ride the wave with you. It's basically difficult to do that. But I understood where she was coming from. Hence I had to hang in there, and soak up all her emotional/temper tantrums. Also, we kind of grew up together, and she gave me 110% (also a rider) - the type you don't meet everyday. So, there was no way I would've kicked her out. The ball was in my court to change/grow.

Anyway, as for the thread/topic - I think communication/counselling can do wonders. When it comes to domestic violence, if those involved aren't naturally violent/disrespectful. And it's something within the relationship that's acting as a catalyst/trigger for it, couples need to drop their egos, and talk about it. A change in approach might just be the spark needed to solve the problem. Walking away isn't always the answer, especially when you have invested so much in the relationship. Some people just don't know how to handle their emotions, and once you can understand that - you might need to change ya approach/rules-of-engagement with them. And shoulder punch isn't a bad idea, if it can temporarily make the abusive partner disengage for a short period - pending when everything would be defused lol. However, when weapons start getting involved - run for ya life!!!

The only problem I've with women is that: they make domestic violence seem like it's a male thing. When that isn't the case. Women can be abusive/violent as well - and most times, they also provoke the violence.

yemivictor:


Please what is "YOLO wave" sir?

HARDDON:


The guy is a sissy ....wimp......wussbag ....

Imagine a man that paid her bride price running n locking himself up. Imagine him pleading with poppy voice in a locked room. Imagine his Wify giving him d beating of his life.

Op, she got ur balls menh. She dah house boss n u dah errand boy. I bet she always have her way too. U r always wrong I suppose.

Sissy op listen, do everything it takes to get ur balls back. Even if it means giving her a Hawt slap d next time a heated argument pops up. U cant hv ur wife talk back @ u. Slap some sense into her. She would be so shocked n respect u from thence.
You ain't d head of d home for fun

From other's experience, I can tell u there r ladies that Luv their men to take charge n be in control. Which u ain't currently doing. Place ur foot down next time even if u r wrong n melt her d silent treatment if she wouldn't bulge

Which of the foot should he put down?
The left or right?

Timbuktou:
You and the OP are kindred spirits. You will learn the hard way.

Tallesty1:
Cococandy, Mondisweets....eerrrmm, This young man needs unah.

tintingz:
[size=14pt]Many women love tough guys who can control and handle them hardly, we can read some women comments in this thread.

Women know how to push men to the wall by nagging, punching, slapping etc but when a man retaliate it is another story[/size]



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[size=15pt]Men just walk away, ignore when a woman is nagging, then when she's calm talk sense to are brain, give her warnings/boundries [/size]