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Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by popp(m): 2:48pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Career is much more important cos dia is an adage dt says dt; u hv to secure d ground befo looking for d mat 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by sylaz(m): 2:48pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
ellechrystal:What type of men have you been seeing? ![]() |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by sukkot: 2:48pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
none. freedom should come first. those two options are bondage ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by sylaz(m): 2:48pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
All about that career.. 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by fpeter(f): 2:49pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by dubaiprince: 2:51pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Its tough I must say, they are two important issues. For the unmarried ones, career is it. buh for the married, both are equally important. |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by DoTheNeedful: 2:55pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Whichever will make you happier. However,i think balancing both is the best. If you choose career over marriage,warmth of family,you are like to appear happy but you are likely to die unhappy with many regrets |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by ellechrystal(f): 2:56pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
sylaz:Excuse me..right thinking men.dont get it twisted.i meant if u r married, then ur marriage should com first. |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Okijajuju1(m): 2:57pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
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Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Ilekeh(f): 2:59pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Career. 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by fpeter(f): 2:59pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Okijajuju1: Compliments,Merry Christmas in advance consider visiting a church this season ![]() |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by 2scorehigh(m): 2:59pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Honestly speaking, in my own opinion, for men it's career first but for women it could be in any order although I'd always prefer a career woman for marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Ilekeh(f): 2:59pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
dubaiprince: Perfect answer. |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Okijajuju1(m): 3:05pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
fpeter: Compliments of the season to you too.. And on the issue of visiting a Church, I will take that under advisement. 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by ariyebaba(m): 3:08pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
My Career,........................................... My Sustenance,................................... My Success,....................................... Ask DonJazzy,Dbanj & co Ask my brothers from the East. ![]() |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by lilmax(m): 3:08pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
For a man career first cus without it you cannot provide for your family 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by scribble: 3:08pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
bukatyne: Lol. That's what the feminist movement wants you to think. If you had money already, from birth, you would want a family. It's poor folk, angry and resentful people, or money miss road people that downgrade the importance of a family. In my opinion ![]() |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Edusouls(m): 3:12pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
men should be more carrer minded,because they are the providers and naturaly that was how it is from the begining, women should be focused and more interested in marriage and keeping the home, making his man happy. When this fact was twisted by the western education and feminism, the effect can be see everywhere, families exploding into bits, increased abortion, frequent failed homes,because the woman does not know his place and role again in the home. They think their homes are offices, where your rank is according to your certificate.. |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by collitexnaira(m): 3:25pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Build your career first, then marriage will have a place to dwell 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by abbey621(m): 3:27pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Part of being an adult is learning how to balance all things to work for the greater good. Married people must learn to balance their marriage and career. One must not affect the other, in a typical Nigerian society, the man is the workhorse so naturally he should be more career minded and the woman the home builder, she would be more concerned about the welfare of her marriage but when the situation is reversed, men must learn to be understanding cos at the end of the day all that matters is survival, if my child or children don't have food to eat and their mother is the only person that can get some type of income then as a man I would support her career and try to understand. 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by bukatyne(f): 3:31pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
scribble: Feminism ![]() What's with NL peeps and the obsession with it? I said some people do not fancy a career; some do not fancy marriage so where is feminism coming in ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Definitely career. I agree with you, OP. 2 Likes |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Nobody: 3:42pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
ellechrystal: ladies and there mentality... Una lyk marriage lyk weyrey... U think life its all abt marriage., what a young man needs to do nw is to focus on his career and do the needful then after he has finished with his goal tat wen marriage comes to play. @sist i can't see my darling wife suffering dat y i focused on my career.. Pls preach marriage t ur fellow female |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by bukatyne(f): 3:44pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Besides, some peeps are mixing up career and earning a living. I can see a lot of peeps saying men should be career geared while women should gear towards marriage career /kəˈrɪə/ noun noun: career; plural noun: careers 1. an occupation undertaken for a significant period of a person's life and with opportunities for progress. "he seemed destined for a career as an engineer like his father" "he spent three years training for a business career" Someone can earn a living without been career minded. 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by RaeMystix: 3:49pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
First my career, then comes marriage and then children. 2 Likes |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by TrishaP(f): 3:53pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Both should be number one priority. |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by hayoakins(m): 3:59pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Career cos' it will pay the bills. No L ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by ellechrystal(f): 4:09pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
OgagaMic:Err mm mr I don't n will never think life is about marriage. Stand correct first of all. If u do not totally comprehend my comment, b free to ask questions n reduce d level of conclusion. Marriage is very important even d bible says so. I didn't n will never b a party to silly advice or any sort. In as much as marriage is important, our career which is d bed rock of our destinies is as well important. But u should know where to place which. N u should understand ur priorities.if it's before marriage, oh ur career is ur priority, but after ur priority changes. Look at marriages where their career is placed first, it crumbles like a house without a strong foundation. This mentality of career first in marriages is d leading factor fueling d rate of divorce. U should know how to strike a balance. Ur marriage has to do with ur husband/wife n kids.. if u put ur career first, then expect a certain result n vice versa. As me, wen am married, my family is first. N this doesn't make me a lazy wife or a house wife, I am a working class lady n as well own a business. M not d lazy type n don't encourage ladies in that vane.n so will continue make more money even in marriage. |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Metasophia(f): 4:16pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
For some women marriage is their career.they are working tooth and nail to establish it.ones they've got a good marriage. its finished. |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by fairheven: 4:18pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
MarvellousGod: And who says you must start "production" of kids after marriage?so you don't need to be pregnant within few months of employment as u said.u can stay for years after marriage,without having kids an still be happy. |
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