Is it right to date your friend's ex-girlfriend or boyfriend?

their is a law from what i heard dat said it aint allowed or it shudnt be done. that one na their own yarns. ones my friend is ok with it, im going ahead. it happened to me and i didnt take offense. actually, the girl regretted dating my friend and i cuzz i $%^& her and my friend did too and she later got dumped by him. now instead of saying diddy $%^& me, she will put it this way; diddy and his friend %^*& me. this is why it is discouraged. is just like giving yourself to be used cuzz it wont last. is better for your ex to look another direction cuzz if she thinks dating your friend will ma you jealous (for ppl like me dat hardly gets jealous) she is wasting her time cuzz i will give her or them my blessings. been there, done dat so there aint nothing new they gon do dat i havent done yet. kapish.

that is tight man

well hmmm

u know the saying there is someone out there for everybody
what if the guy or gurl wasnt meant for your ffriend but was meant for you

if so why give a damn if he/she went with your friend

so my point is hell yea its okay!!!! lol

love that matters most. thats why they are called exes.

depends on how close this friend is, and how cute he is. personally dont do it, no one wants slurpy seconds, but it seems like u might like that ewwwwww

to me personally,i cant cos it sounds improper,

hmm , I mite have a contribution here

I did have a galfriend until Q2 2009. This was before she got engaged to another guy (they have split up already with her claiming she doesnt know the guy well - women?)

Now I was introduced to a young lady. Turns out she is friends with my ex. Now we started speaking and later found out that we do have some ish in common. At the moment we are dating.

I dont know if it is wrong but the way i see it wrong is if your friend snatches your current gf/bf from u - that is wrong. But dating after you had been the one to break the relationship up That is plain selfish!! If he/she was that good why break up with him/her!!

NEVER! That's in the Women's Book of Rules. That's just somethin you don't do.

pleasssssse don't ever be deceived that your friend is cool with it no matter what he/ her says, there are many others out there, except you were the cause of their breakup right from the start, more over can you use that your friends tooth brush?

Hmmm that's a no no for me. The big question would be what would it take to smoulder the ashes of their dead(or dying love)? You just cant take the risk that they might rekindle their affair

If you can stand the shame when you're with ya friends. why not?

I guess what some are answering is 'is it allowed to fvck your friend's ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?'

Ben20001:

If you can stand the shame when you're with ya friends. why not?

Well said! Another man's trash is another man's treasure.

Friendship 101;;don't date ur friend's EX,
i mean who does tht

this is a very dicy question

If you had said "Best Friend" it would have been a different matter and besides it depends on how the breakup happened and for me as long as they've not had carnal knowledge of each other, kini big deal. Let's go there

Let's confuse the question a little bit
Is it right to Date the Ex of someone you Know