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Secrets That Will Save Your Marriage by succyreal(m): 8:23am On Dec 17, 2014 |
Marriage opens up a new chapter in your life and every new couple foresees a fairy-tale bliss ahead. If you are one of those who thought marriage would be an extension of your dating period, it is about time to get some reality check. Get ready to find out that marriage is going to have ample surprises for you, which if not anticipated, can lead to disasters. 1 . Be your husband's girlfriend Don't let the word "wife" become an excuse to take the person you love most for granted. Flirt, plan dates (even if they are at home and include Netflix and Pizza), and let him be your boyfriend too, of course. 2. Communicate Want to divorce-proof your marriage ? It's simple, ask your husband the easiest question ever: "How was your day?" Research from the Gottman Institute (that studies what makes marriages long and happy) shows that having intimate knowledge of each other's lives strengthens your relationship. 3. Trust We all know you can't have a great relationship without it. But did you know that trust is built in tiny, almost microscopic moments every day? How do you have confidence that you will keep the big promises you made to each other on your wedding day? By keeping the little ones you make on the way to the grocery store. See More: Is Dividing Up Household Chores the Key to Marital Bliss? 4. Create, don't copy We have all seen marriages on TV, in movies or right next door that we lusted after. We think the way that couple does marriage is perfect, only to find out years later, maybe not so much. After all, you never know what happens behind closed doors. Create a marriage that works for you, not your neighbor or the star of your favorite blockbuster. If that means he cooks and you run the bank account, go for it. The happiest marriages are making it up as they go along, just like you are. 5. Laugh and kiss The fun researchers from the Gottman team have actually confirmed scientifically that a six-second kiss is good for your relationship. Permission to kiss generously and often has been granted. It's practically your assigned homework for life. Laughing is always a good idea. But you knew that already. 6. Use your words Learn each other's love languages. Your wedding license did not include a mind reader's clause. Ask for what you need. Encourage your husband to do the same. Don't worry first and ask questions later. Ask questions first so you can face life together. 7. Love Remember that love is a verb, it is something you do, create, contribute to and build on every day. wishing u a successful relationship. |
Re: Secrets That Will Save Your Marriage by chiibekee(f): 8:25am On Dec 17, 2014 |
Ok thank u |
Re: Secrets That Will Save Your Marriage by Extom(m): 9:04am On Dec 17, 2014 |
What you should give them is husbands. How can you keep what you don have? |
Re: Secrets That Will Save Your Marriage by succyreal(m): 9:33am On Dec 17, 2014 |
Extom:if you don't have anything good to write, just zoom off. |
Re: Secrets That Will Save Your Marriage by Extom(m): 9:49am On Dec 17, 2014 |
succyreal:Mbok, that your glasses nor be here oo. |
Re: Secrets That Will Save Your Marriage by 2SWT(f): 10:26am On Dec 17, 2014 |
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