gracile:
If u tell him yes, he'll wanna be the first to taste d cookie-jar, If u say no, he'll still wanna taste it
so what's d point even, wen either way it'll still b the same response

cookie-jar....hmmm. I lyk cookies

BreezyRita:
I'm gonna faint if I see another virgin thread!
Seriously?? Warris dis? Dem swear for una?

Please don't faint, this is another New Year

Just keep following!

@O P, The problem is that you can never tell which guys REALLY
care about you and which ones just want to be able to say they slept with a virgin.

Which is why I’d advise you to keep your mouth shut. Yes, there are men who might be turned off by your
lack of experience. But there are also men who might be turned on by it.

The best way I see you
dealing with this issue is not to make it an issue at all. Go out with men, let them chase
you, let them flirt with you, let them kiss you, let them touch you. You can probably go out on a good three or four dates before you
actually have to have the “sex” conversation.

And at that time, just be honest. Mostly. “I didn’t want to freak you out or make a big deal out of this, but I only want to have
sex with someone that I’m in a committed relationship with.

For instance, if i am really attracted to you,
but until u're sure that we’re going to be boyfriend/ girlfriend, u have to keep saying no. How do you feel
about that?”

From here, you can gauge if he’s serious about YOU or about SEX, and you don’t even have to “out” yourself
as a virgin. If he makes it clear that he wants to be in a relationship with you, you can decide if you like him and trust him enough to be your “first”. And if so, THEN you can tell him that you’ve never had sex before.

And if I’m reading this wrong – if you NEVER plan to have sex outside marriage – this
is something that can be brought up once the
conversation arises
organically. The same way that I might really want to have kids, but won’t start discussing baby names on the first date.

Good luck finding a guy who makes that first time worthwhile!

ONE LOVE ! ! !

gracile:
If u tell him yes, he'll wanna be the first to taste d cookie-jar, If u say no, he'll still wanna taste it
so what's d point even, wen either way it'll still b the same response

infact i tayad o

If you want to, you can. I don't see anything wrong with that. A responsible guy will respond with utmost respect.

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