chika98:

My dear when you figure him out you will come to realize that there's nothing there. Start giving him monosyllabic answers as well and become distant. He is totally enjoying his "hold" on you right now.

i knw this and yet i cant help myself. . . which makes it worse

HR.hotness:

i knw this and yet i can't help myself. . . which makes it worse

Yup. Something about mystery is very interesting. BUT you have to "snap" outta it

HR.hotness:

i knw this and yet i can't help myself. . . which makes it worse

snap out of it.

i think you are just intrigued because you can't figure him out. As soon as you figure him out and find out it's the same ole B.S your crush would be over with. <-----MAYBE

On a better not why not just enjoy it, it's fun to be continuously intrigued by by someone figuring things out quick makes for a boring relationship. Of course you would want to know the weird things though but enjoy it.

HR.Hotness is inlove hehehehehehehehe

tangent:

snap out of it.

kedu

obu mu _danke

syphillis:


kedu

obu mu _danke

danke the great.

tangent:

danke the great.

yes love,how body,i don miss u dieee

syphillis:

yes love,how body,i don miss u dieee

missed your jokes too. i laughed so hard when i saw your midget pictures. where is tope2000?

Is there such a thing as "The Man of My Dreams?". . . . na the feeling of the moment, sisi omoge.

In a few weeks you'll be back here telling us it was just a crush

tangent:

missed your jokes too. i laughed so hard when i saw your midget pictures. where is tope2000?

tope dat one should be busy wt one bobo in london now,u knwo tope like bobos too much

as for d pictures,they said looks dont matter,so since im a free giver wt a good heart,i decided to dash them d sweet gals

lo and behold they did not even appreciate my kind gesture

Ebony-Silk:

In a few weeks you'll be back here telling us it was just a crush

I honestly hope so  


@ Jenny  
for d thousandth time, I am not inlove. . .  i knw this because i hav been inlove and it felt nicer than this!



[size=5pt]b.t.w. syphillis of all names[/size]

HR.hotness:


@ Jenny
for d thousandth time, I am not inlove. . . i knw this because i hav been inlove and it felt nicer than this!



[size=5pt]b.t.w. syphillis of all names[/size]

deny it all u want babes u is inlove,if u like run from london reach australia,reach canada,ur heart beats like smone whos just finished running 1000 meters,wenevva u tink of dis guy

syphillis:

tope that one should be busy wt one bobo in london now,u knwo tope like bobos too much

as for d pictures,they said looks don't matter,so since I'm a free giver wt a good heart,i decided to dash them d sweet gals

lo and behold they did not even appreciate my kind gesture

roflmao. i will hunt tope down in london. she is in soup.

i get d heart racing, butterflies in d stomach thing with every crush i hav ever had. the difference with him is that we talk but i do all d talking and he says enough to keep me talking but not enough to give me anything to go on. so even tho we hav spent hrs talking, i stillf feel like we only met ystrday.

@HR

I thought you were the Love Guru. Why? because you are sooo good on giving advise. Since you are so good in the love field. . . .follow your instinct

Take care

Peacde

from responses from other nairalanders it seems u are very good at handling issues like this but i must tell u that u are letting ur guards down as per this guy. u really have to allow things to take normal course. don't rush, don't betray too much emotions and don't be too uptight about it. let him know that u like him but don't create the impression that u can't do without him. when guys notice that someone is deeply into them, they tend to become unnecessarily diffcult to understand and all those "hard to get" stuff happens so ignore him a little but don't over do it. hope this helps

omoniarami:

from responses from other nairalanders it seems u are very good at handling issues like this but i must tell u that u are letting ur guards down as per this guy. u really have to allow things to take normal course. don't rush, don't betray too much emotions and don't be too uptight about it. let him know that u like him but don't create the impression that u can't do without him. when guys notice that someone is deeply into them, they tend to become unnecessarily diffcult to understand and all those "hard to get" stuff happens so ignore him a little but don't over do it. hope this helps

speakind from experience i guess?
nice one though.

Snap out of this girl.

I have a feeling you are loving this that is why u are allowing it to linger

It's like a challenge . . . you want to get to the end of it

syphillis:

tope that one should be busy wt one bobo in london now,u knwo tope like bobos too much

as for d pictures,they said looks don't matter,so since I'm a free giver wt a good heart,i decided to dash them d sweet gals

lo and behold they did not even appreciate my kind gesture

Jenny, free me o

tangent:

roflmao. i will hunt tope down in london. she is in soup.

Tangent no mind am

Danke don turn to syphyllis

thanks to u lot, i feel more in control of d situation. . . i hav snapped out of it and i guess venting on here has allowed me to calm down and look at things frm another perspective, i realise now that being foward is second nature to me but might hav put him in an awkward position. we hung out for a bit tonight and it suddenly dawned on me that HE must feel uncomfortable. . . i did continue probing but i wasnt so eager for answers, i guess he also realised i was willing to wait which helped him to loosen up a little i still dont knw if he is d man of my dreams and it is way too early to think about love or a relationship but i finally got a glimpse of d person underneath. . .

Tgirl4real:

Snap out of this girl.

I have a feeling you are loving this that is why u are allowing it to linger

It's like a challenge . . . you want to get to the end of it

i am enjoying it actually. . . and now that i am not freaked out about it so much, i plan to enjoy it alot more

Cayon:

@HR

I thought you were the Love Guru. Why? because you are sooo good on giving advise. Since you are so good in the love field. . . .follow your instinct

i was freaked out for a bit becos i didnt like what my instincts were sayin and i am used to being in control of these kinds of situations, it isnt easy to take ones own advise, but i did step back for a bit and i've figured out how to handle this. . .


thnx folks

U are welcome.
Do have a nice tym with d guy, but don't rush him.

perhaps just perhaps he's just that not into you.

U are welcome.
Do have a nice tym with d guy, but don't rush him.

davidylan:

perhaps just perhaps he's just that not into you.

You should start writing "Hall-Mark Postcards"  because you always know.

@Her Royal Hotness:

Any update? Can't leave folks hanging like this.  OK, yes, I am nosey

Peace

davidylan:

perhaps just perhaps he's just that not into you.

Cayon:

You should start writing "Hall-Mark Postcards" because you always know.

you two sef. . . .

Cayon:

@Her Royal Hotness:

Any update? Can't leave folks hanging like this.  OK, yes, I am nosey

Peace

LOL

yes ther is actually and it only took one day  he called me up really late last night for a nice long chat. he had mentioned rather off-handedly in a previous convo that he is a little worried. . . i am going away for christmas and he is assuming i'd be done with him immediately i leave ( i must confess tho, that was originally d plan). so just to be mean, i gav him vaguest answers i cld come up with. . . long story short, he is taking me to d airport so we can "talk properly"

Sounds one sided. You don't need a lot of probing to know when a man wants what he wants.

spikedcylinder:

Sounds one sided. You don't need a lot of probing to know when a man wants what he wants.

you really should read the original posts properly before replying. what exactly is one sided? the probing here refers to finding out what makes him tick, no where does it say that she has feelings for him or that she wants to know what he wants. she has only said getting to know him properly is prooving quite difficult; "she" wants to get to know him so "she" can figure out how "she" feels about him. his feelings havent even come into question but i guess its a typical girl reaction to assume she is head overheels inlove and wants to get him to feel the same way and not d other way around right?


@HR
the sex cant be THAAAAT good?

@post
you dont seem to be considering the possibility that the guy is just not into you?he might simply not be feeling you,some physical attributes e.t.c as for being cool with each other maybe that might be the guy being polite, most girls cant fathom the thought that its possible for a guy to actually pass up either a one nighter or relationship with a girl,its possible and it happens, seeing as you appear to be a direct in your face kinda girl/woman from your comments,then you shouldnt have any problems asking him straight up what he thinks of you and all that, just my 2 cents

@poster
baby girl pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ignore the guy totally. let him do the chasing instead. guys derive more fun in hard to get games. if u are really into this guy and u want him to feel same, put up the show that u aren't crazy about him. u can flirt with him once in awhile if u know what i mean and make him jealous but not too obviously. go casual with him

funny how people r more preoccupied by his feelings or lack of them (even tho no reference was made to this) rather than d problem stated. . .

blush:

@HR
the sex can't be THAAAAT good?