1. It’s fine to court or pursue your lady
of interest by taking her out to eat,
movies, dates, buying a birthday gift, etc
as you are getting to know her. Just don’t
spend or give excessive amounts of
money when asked because if you are
you are being foolish, simply whipped or
being used by a gold digger. Don’t
confuse the getting to know process with
providing as you would do for a wife.
You should not be paying for bills, cars,
rent and/or shopping sprees while
dating.
2. A woman is a Queen but she is not
YOUR QUEEN until you two are married
so you shouldn’t live together while
dating. Never get ahead of yourself
losing perspective because there is no
rush so be patient. Don’t give her every
waking moment you or she has free for
that matter. Keep your freedom to do
things with your partners, kids and/or
friends and she should have her space as
well to hang out with her girls, go
shopping, etc. She deserves QUALITY
TIME but NOT ALL YOUR TIME while
dating.
#2 Wife Actions
Cooking meals for him on the regular
Washing his dirty drawers
Living together
Scheduling doctors appointments
Attending all family functions
Just started dating? Heck no! Showing up
with a 1950s apron and bags filled with
groceries will scare off any man you’ve
just started getting to know. Your
intentions are good… you just want to be
nice and cater to him. Women show love
by nurturing. As stereotypical as it
sounds, it’s only natural to want to bake
a cake or tidy up his place. You’re also
subconsciously trying to prove to him
that you are wife-material. Your actions
are screaming “Marry me! I can cook! I
can clean! I can take good care of you!”
But all that does is make most men think
you’re crazy and/or desperate (especially
if you’ve just met them).
Solid relationship? Still no…. but if you
must, do so in moderation. The whole
courting phase in relationships is
something that has become extinct.
Nowadays people don’t really know how
to date. We always jump from 0 to 60 in
60 seconds. Marriage is a big
commitment and it’s a big step for men
in particular. Women, if you start acting
like you’re married when you’re actually
just dating he could become complacent
in the relationship. As the saying goes,
why buy the cow when you can get the
milk for free? That saying is typically
used for sex, but the fact is there are
other benefits of a relationship that
should be saved for marriage as well.
#3 Husband Actions
3. We all know the Bible says fornication is a sin. ABSTAIN FROM PREMARITAL SEX.
4. While you are getting to know your
lady of interest, you should not take on
the father role of her kids. We will never
agree on the correct time to even
introduce kids to a new man because
every situation varies thus can be
different, so I won’t even go there. Just
know for the well being and health of a
kid he/she should not have multiple men
coming in and out of their lives. For all
of you thinking what if the kid doesn’t
like him, I ask you who is dating the man
you or the kid(s)? Kids should never
dictate WHO YOU DATE. YOU ARE THE
ADULT. Kid(s) eventually leave the nest
or home and then create their own
family. A husband is still there when
they are gone to live the rest of your life
with. Never get too involved in a kid(s)
life or get too attached while dating if
you don’t have plans to permanently stay
which would ultimately mean marrying
his/her Mother!
Some of you are thinking you should be
giving your all to whoever you are dating
and that is all well and good but I ask
you to think about how many
boyfriends/girlfriends you have had in
life. Truth is many people come and
many people go in a lifetime so that is
the main reason you should wait until
the holy sacrament of marriage to be
100% vested emotionally, physically and
spiritually in love with each other with
no conditions.
#4 Wife Actions
Attending all family functions
Giving him large amounts of cash
Cleaning his place
Helping him manage his bills
Save the wifely duties for after you jump
the broom, especially if he’s not
reciprocating with any husbandly duties!
Does he wash your car? Does he take out
your trash? Does he fix things around
your house? Make sure it’s a two-way
street and not you just auditioning for
the part of Mrs. Right.
Try your hardest to eliminate all of these
things from your relationship, but at the
very least keep it to a minimum so it’s
not something that he’s expecting on the
regular. Your relationship should be
focused on enjoying each other’s
company, not how great of a chef and
housekeeper you are!
PLEASE SHARE..THIS NEEDS TO BE
SPREAD! THANKS
Source: NO DAILY.

story for tonto dike.......





buhari must hear dis......

Like the FTC said
Story for TOTO DECAY

These are what nigeria girls do to get married, if they dare stop it Obatala will remove hand from that relationship.

Well said op, but hope you are putting it in practice not just telling us

I don't know what to say

SPINA101:
Well said op, but hope you are putting it in practice not just telling us

It is put up to educate the masses not to witch - hunt anyone... Cheers!

I hope your boyfriend always fucccks you with condom too?

Nice Jaymima!!Very thrilling and intriging.

Too late for me. I already paid her school fees and she already ditched my ass for being an illiterate or something along those lines.
You live and you learn right?

gunpoint:
Too late for me. I already paid her school fees and she already ditched my ass for being an illiterate or something along those lines.
You live and you learn right?

She's silly!

You write and read English, yet she thinks you are an illiterate.
Would she also call Bill gates an illiterate for not having a degree.

She left for your own good sir!

Elxandre:

She's silly!

You write and read English, yet she thinks you are an illiterate.
Would she also call Bill gates an illiterate for not having a degree.

She left for your own good sir!

Cos you don't know the full story.
I sent the fo.ol abroad to school.
Soon as she was done, i became an illiterate with a degree from a backward country.

gunpoint:

Cos you don't know the full story.
I sent the fo.ol abroad to school.
Soon as she was done, i became an illiterate with a degree from a backward country.

Chei.. That girl must really not know the atm machine that she has lost.

gunpoint:

Cos you don't know the full story.
I sent the fo.ol abroad to school.
Soon as she was done, i became an illiterate with a degree from a backward country.

Man, you are a very good person o.
Sent her abroad? Damn...
Wish I have that sort of opportunity soon.

I think she's abnormal, seriously.
Never heard of that sort of reasoning in my life
Or she left you for some other reason known to her.

All the same, you are better off without such a petty person, I believe.

nanauju:

Chei.. That girl must really not know the atm machine that she has lost.

Hahaha...
Classic naija babe.
Now now i don turn atm?
She don finish school, hold pass me so technically i am not an atm anymore
Isn't that why they always leave us?

Elxandre:

Man, you are a very good person o.
Sent her abroad? Damn...
Wish I have that sort of opportunity soon.

I think she's abnormal, seriously.
Never heard of that sort of reasoning in my life
Or she left you for some other reason known to her.

All the same, you are better off without such a petty person, I believe.

I was pained when it happened in 2015
But i took time to think about it
Maybe it was for the best truly

Interesting.

Jaymima:

1. It’s fine to court or pursue your lady
of interest by taking her out to eat,
movies, dates, buying a birthday gift, etc
as you are getting to know her. Just don’t
spend or give excessive amounts of
money when asked because if you are
you are being foolish, simply whipped or
being used by a gold digger. Don’t
confuse the getting to know process with
providing as you would do for a wife.
You should not be paying for bills, cars,
rent and/or shopping sprees while
dating.
2. A woman is a Queen but she is not
YOUR QUEEN until you two are married
so you shouldn’t live together while
dating. Never get ahead of yourself
losing perspective because there is no
rush so be patient. Don’t give her every
waking moment you or she has free for
that matter. Keep your freedom to do
things with your partners, kids and/or
friends and she should have her space as
well to hang out with her girls, go
shopping, etc. She deserves QUALITY
TIME but NOT ALL YOUR TIME while
dating.
#2 Wife Actions
Cooking meals for him on the regular
Washing his dirty drawers
Living together
Scheduling doctors appointments
Attending all family functions
Just started dating? Heck no! Showing up
with a 1950s apron and bags filled with
groceries will scare off any man you’ve
just started getting to know. Your
intentions are good… you just want to be
nice and cater to him. Women show love
by nurturing. As stereotypical as it
sounds, it’s only natural to want to bake
a cake or tidy up his place. You’re also
subconsciously trying to prove to him
that you are wife-material. Your actions
are screaming “Marry me! I can cook! I
can clean! I can take good care of you!”
But all that does is make most men think
you’re crazy and/or desperate (especially
if you’ve just met them).
Solid relationship? Still no…. but if you
must, do so in moderation. The whole
courting phase in relationships is
something that has become extinct.
Nowadays people don’t really know how
to date. We always jump from 0 to 60 in
60 seconds. Marriage is a big
commitment and it’s a big step for men
in particular. Women, if you start acting
like you’re married when you’re actually
just dating he could become complacent
in the relationship. As the saying goes,
why buy the cow when you can get the
milk for free? That saying is typically
used for sex, but the fact is there are
other benefits of a relationship that
should be saved for marriage as well.
#3 Husband Actions
3. We all know the Bible says we are not
suppose to have sex until married but the
reality is 99% of the time we do so I will
keep it real and not act like I’m too
righteous for folks. A woman you are
dating is not your property so you can’t
demand sex whenever you want it. Be
patient and when both of you are ready
and decide to have sex then and only
then should it occur. ALWAYS USE
PROTECTION WITH ANYONE YOU ARE
DATING NO MATTER WHAT SHE SAYS
ABOUT BEING ON BIRTH CONTROL,
TUBES ARE TIED, HAD A SHOT, ETC,!
Too many diseases out here and too
many children being brought into this
world into single family homes so PUT
ON A CONDOM if you are engaging in
intercourse while dating after all it takes
only 10 seconds!
4. While you are getting to know your
lady of interest, you should not take on
the father role of her kids. We will never
agree on the correct time to even
introduce kids to a new man because
every situation varies thus can be
different, so I won’t even go there. Just
know for the well being and health of a
kid he/she should not have multiple men
coming in and out of their lives. For all
of you thinking what if the kid doesn’t
like him, I ask you who is dating the man
you or the kid(s)? Kids should never
dictate WHO YOU DATE. YOU ARE THE
ADULT. Kid(s) eventually leave the nest
or home and then create their own
family. A husband is still there when
they are gone to live the rest of your life
with. Never get too involved in a kid(s)
life or get too attached while dating if
you don’t have plans to permanently stay
which would ultimately mean marrying
his/her Mother!
Some of you are thinking you should be
giving your all to whoever you are dating
and that is all well and good but I ask
you to think about how many
boyfriends/girlfriends you have had in
life. Truth is many people come and
many people go in a lifetime so that is
the main reason you should wait until
the holy sacrament of marriage to be
100% vested emotionally, physically and
spiritually in love with each other with
no conditions.
#4 Wife Actions
Attending all family functions
Giving him large amounts of cash
Cleaning his place
Helping him manage his bills
Save the wifely duties for after you jump
the broom, especially if he’s not
reciprocating with any husbandly duties!
Does he wash your car? Does he take out
your trash? Does he fix things around
your house? Make sure it’s a two-way
street and not you just auditioning for
the part of Mrs. Right.
Try your hardest to eliminate all of these
things from your relationship, but at the
very least keep it to a minimum so it’s
not something that he’s expecting on the
regular. Your relationship should be
focused on enjoying each other’s
company, not how great of a chef and
housekeeper you are!
PLEASE SHARE..THIS NEEDS TO BE
SPREAD! THANKS
Source: NO DAILY.

Really? And your signature says www.jw.org? With these opinions, especially number 3? I'm in doubt.

gunpoint:

I was pained when it happened in 2015
But i took time to think about it
Maybe it was for the best truly

Just imagine, oyibo babe for fit u, most of these naija girls na.olosho equivalent, u no fit find ur mama type marry.