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7 Important And Surprising Things Happy People Never Do... by Nobody: 11:23pm On Dec 24, 2014

[url][/url][img][/img]Most people don’t know yet that they don’t need other people’s permission in
order for them to be happy. Try to take full responsibility for your own feelings
and stop thinking that your unhappiness is someone else’s fault. You can choose
to be happy and there is nothing anyone can do about that. 1. THEY DON’T MIND OTHER PEOPLE’S BUSINESS I believe that one of the most important things happy people never do is precisely
the fact that they never mind other people’s business. If you’re tempted to
always compare yourself to the people around you, then you should definitely try
to stop this negative way of thinking and try to forget about all the things other
people do. Listen to your inner voice, mind your own business and don’t be
scared to face all kinds of challenges. 2. THEY DON’T HOLD ON TO RESENTMENT If you want to learn how to be happy or happier then you should definitely think
about letting go all those resentments you might still have. Don’t let your past
haunt you. Everyone makes mistakes; just learn to forgive and move on! Don’t
get stuck in reliving all those unpleasant times over and over again because if
you don’t let go of those resentments you might still get hurt. You do know that
“Without forgiveness, wounds can never be healed and personal growth can never be achieved.” 3. THEY DON’T RELY ON OTHER PEOPLE FOR THEIR OWN HAPPINESS Most people don’t know yet that they don’t need other people’s permission in
order for them to be happy. Try to take full responsibility for your own feelings
and stop thinking that your unhappiness is someone else’s fault. You can choose
to be happy and there is nothing anyone can do about that. Even if things are not
that perfect right now, remember everything that is still okay and maybe that will
make you smile again. 4. THEY DON’T SPEND TIME IN NEGATIVE ENVIRONMENTS If your major goal in life is to be happy then don’t spend prolonged periods of time
in negative environments! You might say that sometimes this is not your choice
because if you have a job that puts a lot of pressure on you and you have to
spend almost all your time in a not so pleasant work-environment, you can’t just
quit, because you might not find another way to support yourself. Well, I’m not
telling you to quit, but if you realize that you’re not that comfortable in a certain environment and you don’t have the possibility to leave, then you should try to do
something else in order to change that. Every small detail can make a huge
difference in the long term. 5. THEY DON’T SEEK REVENGE You should never seek revenge, no matter how much a certain thing or
someone’s action hurt you, because you’ll only hurt yourself and you won’t solve
anything. Despite what some people might think revenge isn’t happiness. Of
course, maybe it will satisfy you for the moment, but in the long term you won’t
be able to enjoy all those beautiful things around you because of all the guilt you
might feel. So, try to leave things the way they are and learn to accept them! 6. THEY DON’T AVOID THEIR PROBLEMS Another very important thing happy people never do is they never avoid their
problems, no matter how big or small these are. I know that sometimes it may
take you a lot of courage and strength to admit the truth but it’s always better to
accept it and to embrace it because this way, by not living in a lie all day long,
you won’t be haunted by the truth, thus you will feel happier. So, try to find
different solutions to your problems instead of avoiding them. 7. THEY DON’T TAKE THINGS PERSONALLY If you didn’t know already, happy people never take anything they are told
personally. I know that sometimes this may be hard but with a bit of practice and
with a lot of patience you will manage to do it too. Just listen very carefully what
others want to tell you, whether they are praising or criticizing you. Don’t take
things personally! Be happy for getting a feedback regarding your actions.[color=]Most people don’t know yet that they don’t need other people’s permission in
order for them to be happy. Try to take full responsibility for your own feelings
and stop thinking that your unhappiness is someone else’s fault. You can choose
to be happy and there is nothing anyone can do about that. 1. THEY DON’T MIND OTHER PEOPLE’S BUSINESS I believe that one of the most important things happy people never do is precisely
the fact that they never mind other people’s business. If you’re tempted to
always compare yourself to the people around you, then you should definitely try
to stop this negative way of thinking and try to forget about all the things other
people do. Listen to your inner voice, mind your own business and don’t be
scared to face all kinds of challenges. 2. THEY DON’T HOLD ON TO RESENTMENT If you want to learn how to be happy or happier then you should definitely think
about letting go all those resentments you might still have. Don’t let your past
haunt you. Everyone makes mistakes; just learn to forgive and move on! Don’t
get stuck in reliving all those unpleasant times over and over again because if
you don’t let go of those resentments you might still get hurt. You do know that
“Without forgiveness, wounds can never be healed and personal growth can never be achieved.” 3. THEY DON’T RELY ON OTHER PEOPLE FOR THEIR OWN HAPPINESS Most people don’t know yet that they don’t need other people’s permission in
order for them to be happy. Try to take full responsibility for your own feelings
and stop thinking that your unhappiness is someone else’s fault. You can choose
to be happy and there is nothing anyone can do about that. Even if things are not
that perfect right now, remember everything that is still okay and maybe that will
make you smile again. 4. THEY DON’T SPEND TIME IN NEGATIVE ENVIRONMENTS If your major goal in life is to be happy then don’t spend prolonged periods of time
in negative environments! You might say that sometimes this is not your choice
because if you have a job that puts a lot of pressure on you and you have to
spend almost all your time in a not so pleasant work-environment, you can’t just
quit, because you might not find another way to support yourself. Well, I’m not
telling you to quit, but if you realize that you’re not that comfortable in a certain environment and you don’t have the possibility to leave, then you should try to do
something else in order to change that. Every small detail can make a huge
difference in the long term. 5. THEY DON’T SEEK REVENGE You should never seek revenge, no matter how much a certain thing or
someone’s action hurt you, because you’ll only hurt yourself and you won’t solve
anything. Despite what some people might think revenge isn’t happiness. Of
course, maybe it will satisfy you for the moment, but in the long term you won’t
be able to enjoy all those beautiful things around you because of all the guilt you
might feel. So, try to leave things the way they are and learn to accept them! 6. THEY DON’T AVOID THEIR PROBLEMS Another very important thing happy people never do is they never avoid their
problems, no matter how big or small these are. I know that sometimes it may
take you a lot of courage and strength to admit the truth but it’s always better to
accept it and to embrace it because this way, by not living in a lie all day long,
you won’t be haunted by the truth, thus you will feel happier. So, try to find
different solutions to your problems instead of avoiding them. 7. THEY DON’T TAKE THINGS PERSONALLY If you didn’t know already, happy people never take anything they are told
personally. I know that sometimes this may be hard but with a bit of practice and
with a lot of patience you will manage to do it too. Just listen very carefully what
others want to tell you, whether they are praising or criticizing you. Don’t take
things personally! Be happy for getting a feedback regarding your actions.[/color]Most people don’t know yet that they don’t need other people’s permission in
order for them to be happy. Try to take full responsibility for your own feelings
and stop thinking that your unhappiness is someone else’s fault. You can choose
to be happy and there is nothing anyone can do about that. 1. THEY DON’T MIND OTHER PEOPLE’S BUSINESS I believe that one of the most important things happy people never do is precisely
the fact that they never mind other people’s business. If you’re tempted to
always compare yourself to the people around you, then you should definitely try
to stop this negative way of thinking and try to forget about all the things other
people do. Listen to your inner voice, mind your own business and don’t be
scared to face all kinds of challenges. 2. THEY DON’T HOLD ON TO RESENTMENT If you want to learn how to be happy or happier then you should definitely think
about letting go all those resentments you might still have. Don’t let your past
haunt you. Everyone makes mistakes; just learn to forgive and move on! Don’t
get stuck in reliving all those unpleasant times over and over again because if
you don’t let go of those resentments you might still get hurt. You do know that
“Without forgiveness, wounds can never be healed and personal growth can never be achieved.” 3. THEY DON’T RELY ON OTHER PEOPLE FOR THEIR OWN HAPPINESS Most people don’t know yet that they don’t need other people’s permission in
order for them to be happy. Try to take full responsibility for your own feelings
and stop thinking that your unhappiness is someone else’s fault. You can choose
to be happy and there is nothing anyone can do about that. Even if things are not
that perfect right now, remember everything that is still okay and maybe that will
make you smile again. 4. THEY DON’T SPEND TIME IN NEGATIVE ENVIRONMENTS If your major goal in life is to be happy then don’t spend prolonged periods of time
in negative environments! You might say that sometimes this is not your choice
because if you have a job that puts a lot of pressure on you and you have to
spend almost all your time in a not so pleasant work-environment, you can’t just
quit, because you might not find another way to support yourself. Well, I’m not
telling you to quit, but if you realize that you’re not that comfortable in a certain environment and you don’t have the possibility to leave, then you should try to do
something else in order to change that. Every small detail can make a huge
difference in the long term. 5. THEY DON’T SEEK REVENGE You should never seek revenge, no matter how much a certain thing or
someone’s action hurt you, because you’ll only hurt yourself and you won’t solve
anything. Despite what some people might think revenge isn’t happiness. Of
course, maybe it will satisfy you for the moment, but in the long term you won’t
be able to enjoy all those beautiful things around you because of all the guilt you
might feel. So, try to leave things the way they are and learn to accept them! 6. THEY DON’T AVOID THEIR PROBLEMS Another very important thing happy people never do is they never avoid their
problems, no matter how big or small these are. I know that sometimes it may
take you a lot of courage and strength to admit the truth but it’s always better to
accept it and to embrace it because this way, by not living in a lie all day long,
you won’t be haunted by the truth, thus you will feel happier. So, try to find
different solutions to your problems instead of avoiding them. 7. THEY DON’T TAKE THINGS PERSONALLY If you didn’t know already, happy people never take anything they are told
personally. I know that sometimes this may be hard but with a bit of practice and
with a lot of patience you will manage to do it too. Just listen very carefully what
others want to tell you, whether they are praising or criticizing you. Don’t take
things personally! Be happy for getting a feedback regarding your actions.
Re: 7 Important And Surprising Things Happy People Never Do... by Dbestmax(m): 11:55pm On Dec 24, 2014
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