I just discovered as the husband who has done every marriage rite and currently sponsoring her in the university in Nigeria and who has been overseas just came back for christmas only to call me claiming she saw her dodging her calls asking what i have to do with his wife who has never worn even a ring on her finger or told me of any other relationship ever.I am so confused because i have introduced her to all my people,friends and fans.i felt ashamed and regrets that i have been in a sex and romantic relationship with someones wife.May God forgive me.Am so confused,what do i do now?

Get married too

leave her alone and look for ur own wife

So sorry for you. There is always a way to revenge such stuffs, it may sound foolish to you but it works for me.

BE SUCCESSFUL. That's the only way. I have had a lot of betrayals in my young life but this principle keeps me going.

It works for me and will work for you.

Similar thing happened to me. My first love left me for 2 years ( due to our parents tribal nonsense ). I got into another relationship within that period but it didn't work due to genotype issues. She came back when I was miserable and trying to overcome the shock.

My parents finally accepted her, my aunt initiated marriage plans, only for me to discover she was getting married to another guy.

She came to mine for one week and left December 10 2013, got married same month.

I would never have known if the brother didn't mistakenly leaked it to me.

I got into another relationship with a very good friend but she died too. I thought the world will come to an end but it never did. She was the best I have ever dated and the only one I never had sex with.

7 months later, I am here picking the piece and moving on. Striving to be as successful as I can be. You should always work hard to make people who betray you see the error of their action.

You should do the same mate. What's yours, will always be yours. Women naturally will come to you when/if you are successful.

If you ever need help, we can help each other.

arsetalks:
So sorry for you. There is always a way to revenge such stuffs, it may sound foolish to you but it works for me.

BE SUCCESSFUL. That's the only way. I have had a lot of betrayals in my young life but this principle keeps me going.

It works for me and will work for you.

Similar thing happened to me. My first love left me for 2 years ( due to our parents tribal nonsense ). I got into another relationship within that period but it didn't work due to genotype issues. She came back when I was miserable and trying to overcome the shock.

My parents finally accepted her, my aunt initiated marriage plans, only for me to discover she was getting married to another guy.

She came to mine for one week and left December 10 2013, got married same month.

I would never have known if the brother didn't mistakenly leaked it to me.

I got into another relationship with a very good friend but she died too. I thought the world will come to an end but it never did. She was the best I have ever dated and the only one I never had sex with.

7 months later, I am here picking the piece and moving on. Striving to be as successful as I can be. You should always work hard to make people who betray you see the error of their action.

You should do the same mate. What's yours, will always be yours. Women naturally will come to you when/if you are successful.

If you ever need help, we can help each other.

This guy's case is different. She's been married for 2 yrs and he didn't know the entire one year he's been sticking it to her. That is just sick!

mfaith:
I just discovered as the husband who has done every marriage rite and currently sponsoring her in the university in Nigeria and who has been overseas just came back for christmas only to call me claiming she saw her dodging her calls asking what i have to do with his wife who has never worn even a ring on her finger or told me of any other relationship ever.I am so confused because i have introduced her to all my people,friends and fans.i felt ashamed and regrets that i have been in a sex and romantic relationship with someones wife.May God forgive me.Am so confused,what do i do now?

Your story doesn't add up!

confuse ga duma

zizazizu:


This guy's case is different. She's been married for 2 yrs and he didn't know the entire one year he's been sticking it to her. That is just sick!

I know. Hence I said similar.

What does he do other than move on?

striktlymi:


Your story doesn't add up!

Says who? His story is a. Reality oooh, I ve seen countless babes dating other guys despite dem being married without the guy knowing it, if u marry an Undergraduate,ur own don be,just know it dat u aint the only brother fucking the babe. These our modern day naija gals aint loyal one bit.

simple...
just move on hard as it may be. u tot u were in love but u r wiser now...I usually laff at people who say they r in love cos they always end up writing such topics but in ur case I'll make an exception. pick up a goal, something u wanna achieve on d long-run,n work towards it. that will help keep ur mind off love or what u feel is love but in d mean time u can hv an affair or two with ur head this time n not with ur heart. it's working for me. I'm chasing something now n no lady means much to me. I still hv fun. it's a win-win situation.

chigoizie7:


Says who? His story is a. Reality oooh, I ve seen countless babes dating other guys despite dem being married without the guy knowing it, if u marry an Undergraduate,ur own don be,just know it dat u aint the only brother fucking the babe. These our modern day naija gals aint loyal one bit.

My OP doesn't mean we do not have married ladies who cheat.

thanks for your kind advices