Most guys are so engulfed in this untrue misconception and
stereotype about girls who are virgins being the best
potential WIFE MATERIAL. That's an ancient myth and
the earlier we the guys push aside that outdated gist then
our name is Sorry..What has been a virgin got to do with
character and attitude? I see most guys saying "I can't
marry any girl who has been deflowered" you can imagine!
Are you marrying a girl's virginity or the girl herself? Some
girls lost theirs not willingly, some were raped, while some
faced some unavoidable circumstances and the hymen just
had to go! I'm not in anyway trying to make premarital sex
justifiable, though its a good thing for a girl to keep her
pride till marriage but the truth be told you being a virgin
doesn't make you any better than a girl who lost hers.
Some of this so called virgin girls have the worst
characters ever! Some are saucy, rude, lack home training
and bloody pretenders. Some can't cook, can't wash can't
even do common home cleaning, all they do is sit and say
I'm a virgin "husband sure for me" eh for where? Not
anymore! You go die with that your virginityThough to me
as a guy once I know a girl is not a virgin its only natural
for me to have this feeling that she is not a good girl but
that doesn't mean I would start judging her or seeing her as
a filthy personGuys let's just stop this dry stigmatization
on non_virgins! Look for a girl who has satisfied the
qualities of a virtuous woman and not just a virgin or be
prepared for an unhappy marriage.

Thanks... Though I am not writing off virgins coz a virtuous woman will also keep the virtuous zone for the right man at the right time

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Good post.
In this Era of gender equality movement and Majority of Civilised women.
Getting a lady with the mentality of "virgin till marriage" is drastically reducing cos the society is no longer frowning upon it/seeing it as forbidden taboo like in the past. Its almost part of the norms.

Nice One!!!......

IN AS MUCH AS I AGREE WITH PART OF UR WRITEUP...I BEG TO DIFFER BY WAY OF OPINION TO U INSINUATING THAT :VIRGINITY AS PART OF A WOMAN'S PRIDE IS AN ANCIENT MYTH.....

THIS HAS GOT ME THINKING ATSUCH I WANNA ASK U FOR UR OWN DEFINITION OF D WORD "MYTH"