Ok My people here we go. Today, we have an exclusive post on relationship. I am not a love doctor (though too many failed relationships made me an expert in matters of the heart) but as a freelancer and blogger and someone passionate about love, I decided to come up with something like this because I know that virtually everybody wants to love and also wants to be loved. It took me 2 ‘psychological’ days to write this and I encourage you to carefully read, digest, contribute and put into practice where and when necessary. Below are the six keys for building and maintaining a happy marriage/relationship.


1) Love With Your Heart: ‘I Love You’ is an oral confession of both fake love and genuine love. The best way to love is to LOVE WITH YOUR HEART. Show your partner the true definition of love. Love him/her in a great way that will build a reliable trust between both of you. Many partners lose concentration at work or can’t wait to come back home whenever they remember the love, care and comfort they enjoy when they are with their partners. That is a show of true love. Don’t allow the love that you both shared at the initial stage to die off but rather keep its flame burning high.

2) Surprise Him/Her With Gifts: Yes. I mean Gifts. Surprising your partner with gifts will go a long way in building a happy, healthy and strong relationship. No matter how small the gift is, he/she will definitely appreciate. Most partners don’t know the size of their partner’s footwears and underwears, favourite colour and all the rest. But these are vital things a man/woman should know about his/her partner. Try and know that of your partner and also don’t fail to surprise him/her one day. A gift received from a partner is highly valued even if its monetary value is low. Gifts create happiness and renews love in marriage and relationships.

3) Care and Great Romantic Moments: Show of care and display of affections go a long way in keeping and maintaining a good marriage/relationship. Call and text him regularly to know how he/she is doing. Help him/her resolve any problems he is passing through at work or within himself/herself. Also, create great romantic moments when you both are together. Romance has a huge role to play in relationships as great romantic moments builds true affections and keeping both partners happy.


4) Going Out For A Date: On weekends or work free days, take your partner out on a romantic date. Best place to visit are beaches, recreational centres and cool leisure spots. When on a date, don’t hide your love and feelings for your partner rather ‘pour’ them out and let the world see that you both are proud of your love for each other.

5) Respect Your Partner: Truly, respect is a paramount factor in keeping and maintaining a happy relationship/marriage. Your partner deserves respect from you. The issue of weaker sex does not come in here in any way. It is not only the lady that would respect the man, the man should also respect and be submissive to the lady. That is a show of true love. In a relationship where there is a show of great respect from both sides, there is happiness therein.


6) Endure With Love: Definitely, there is no relationship that is free of problems and trials but the ability of the partners to endure and sort out their problems creates an avenue for better understanding, great love and stronger union. Don’t publicize your marital/relationship problems because it is not the best way to solve them. When you can’t sort it out with your partner, visit a marriage/relationship counselor. If the problem persists, then you guys can involve close family members. But during this times of trials and problems, don’t forget to show love and care.

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