[b]. if you feel like you stand a good chance and
are not rushing into love even after reading these
tips, then go right ahead and say those three
magical words to the one you love!
#1 The guessing game is over. The excitement of
playing hard to get with each other is what makes
falling in love so much fun. Both of you like each
other a lot, can’t stop touching each other and feel
so good inside every time both of you meet. You’re
not in a relationship yet, but both of you are falling
hard for each other already.
If you say ‘I love you’ too soon, the excitement of
wondering what’s on each other’s minds would end
overnight. It’s not a bad thing, but a longer courting
almost always gives a better chance for a longer
relationship because both of you waited before
taking the plunge.


#2 Are you an obsessive lover? Some people are
obsessive lovers. They jump into a new relationship
with someone as soon as one relationship ends
because they can’t stay single. They love being in
love, and need love to feel complete. These kinds of
lovers end up saying ‘I love you’ even without
realizing whether they’re really in love with their
date.
And as you meet your date often over time, instead
of trying to build the love, you may spend many of
your dates trying to convince yourself that you’ve
actually met the one!



#3 When there’s no reciprocation. If you say ‘I love
you’ and your date doesn’t respond with the same
sentence, it makes the whole relationship go
backwards. It’ll leave one of you confused and the
other angry.
And that builds insecurities and fills the air with a lot
of awkwardness. Unless you’re completely smitten
by this person you’re dating and don’t care whether
they love you back or not, avoid saying it too soon.

#4 A big misunderstanding. If you say something
as serious as ‘I love you’ very early into the
relationship, your date may think you’re not really in
love with them, but are just saying it to please them.
That’s really the worst thing, because your three
magical words have just lost all meaning to your
date.


#5 How well do you know each other? People get
infatuated by each other at first sight. They don’t fall
in love! If you really need to love someone, you
need to love them for who they are. So what do you
know about your date? Do you know about their
exes, how many relationships they’ve been in,
about their likes and dislikes and the kind of person
they are? Always make sure you actually like the
real person you’re dating for their personality before
professing your love to them.

#6 Are you insecure? Ask yourself this question
sincerely, are you saying ‘I love you’ to this special
person just to cover your insecurities? Some
smitten lovers say those words just to beat any
competition out of the way, or arm-twist the one
they’re dating so they can feel more secure about
the relationship or push away anyone else who’s
threatening the relationship. If you have to profess
your love, do it for the right reasons.



#7 Stuck in love. If one of you says ‘I love you’ too
soon, and the other person accepts and responds
with the same line without really thinking, one or
both of you may feel stuck in the relationship
because it all happened so fast.
If you say it too soon, your lover may even get
angry with you if they jumped in too fast and
reciprocated by saying that they loved you too. And
instead of focusing on love, your new partner may
have to spend all their time wondering if they really
need to be in a serious relationship with you. Would
you like that?
#8 Pressure doesn’t always work. Once you say it,
the secret’s out in the open for you and your date to
see. And you can’t take your words back again.
What if your date just wants a casual relationship
with you and doesn’t want anything serious just
yet? They may really love you, but they may still be
unsure about doing anything about it.
And remember, there’s no going back once you say
it. If your date’s uncertain about the future of the
romance, saying ‘I love you’ will force them to think
about it. And the extra pressure on deciding
immediately may just force your date into turning
you down or walking away if they’re not ready to be
held down in a serious romance.

#9 Prove your love. If you really want to say ‘I love
you’ and hear it back from your date, then learn to
play it safe. Instead of saying ‘I love you’, prove
your love through actions. Don’t say how much you
love your date, but show it through your romantic
gestures. If your date loves you, they’ll reciprocate
with happiness. But if they aren’t looking for
something serious, they’d seem uncomfortable with
your affection.



#10 Watch their response to your love. You’ll know
if your date loves you back if they go out of their
way to do something for you too. After you smother
your date with love and romance, wait and watch
their response. If your date really loves you, they’d
start indulging in little romantic gestures like buying
you gifts or going out of their way to do something
nice for you.[/b]

'I love you'

Teacher: How much is that on 9ja street?

Pupil: I dunno, but it's cheaper than pure water.

@op, this post, no be here.

Happy new year.

pple no longer take dat word seriously....there z no need sayin it...action speaks louder than words..onli pple in srz relationship can say it once in a while....nyc post @ op

cutieberie1:
pple no longer take dat word seriously....there z no need sayin it...action speaks louder than words..onli pple in srz relationship can say it once in a while....nyc post @ op

as the other poster said ... its cheaper than pure water